ALI KRIEGER, ASHLYN HARRIS DA BUKIN AURENSU MAI BAN MAMAKI.
A ranar 28 ga Disamba, 2019, Ali da Ashlyn sun yi musayar alƙawura a harabar Gidan Tarihi na Vizcaya da Lambuna a Miami. Lamarin ya zama sananne a matsayin bikin aure "Krashlyn". Krieger ya sa rigar Pronovias a gaban rigar Harris's Thom Browne. Gasar cin kofin duniya ta mata
MVP da kyaftin din kungiyar USWNT Megan Rapinoe, wacce a yanzu ta tsunduma kanta ga tauraruwar kwando Sue Bird, ta yi hidima a matsayin yar baiwar girmamawa.
“Ni da Ali muka zauna, muka yi dabara sosai kan yadda muke son tsara bikin aurenmu; abin da muke so a bayyane. Ganuwa shine mabuɗin a gare mu, ” Harris ya gaya wa The Knot. "Mun so mutane su ga ƙarshen farin ciki na iya faruwa tsakanin kyawawan mata biyu, waɗanda ke da labarin soyayya." Abin tunawa sun haɗa da abubuwan shiga masu tunani, kek ɗin bikin aure bakan gizo, da sauran abubuwan taɓawa na musamman. "Credit to Ali: cikakkun bayanai da ta bayar don girmama duk masu bin diddigi a cikin al'ummarmu ta LGBTQ+ abu ne mai ban mamaki. Kowane tebur yana da madaidaicin hanya da jagora wanda ya share mana hanya don samun 'yanci da alatu da za a yi aure bisa doka," in ji Harris. Ya ba da labari game da sadaukarwar da suka yi don mu sami damar yin bikin aure. Wannan dama ce kowa ya koya.”
Duo din sun fara haduwa ne yayin da suke taka leda a Kungiyar Mata ta Amurka a shekara ta 2010, kuma yanzu abokan wasan ne na Orlando Pride. Sun sanar da alƙawarin su a cikin Maris 2019. "A matsayina na ƙarami, ban sami jin daɗin buɗe mujallu ko gani a talabijin ba, mutane biyu waɗanda suka yi kama da ni da Ali," Harris ya yi mamaki. “Ni da Ali, idan kun ga wani abu, za ku iya cimma shi. Abin da muka mayar da hankali a kan bikin aure. Ba mu so mu zama masu son kai da sirri. Muna son mutane su ga kyakkyawan labarin soyayyarmu. Ya zama girma fiye da yadda muke zato. An kalli bidiyon mu na aurenmu fiye da sau miliyan. Wannan yana da mahimmanci ga matasa su gani, don kada su ji tsoro. Suna iya ganin ƙarshen farin ciki da kansu kuma. "
Tips na Aure Ali Krieger da Ashlyn Harris
Ma'auratan sun yi bikin cikar aurensu na farko a watan Janairu 2021. "Da fatan, za mu fita daga keɓe kuma mu yi bikin wani wuri," in ji Harris. "Mun kasance muna son zuwa wasu wurare a Amurka don kiyaye shi lafiya da lafiya yayin wannan bala'in."
Yayin da ’yan wasan ba su yi tsammanin za a yi amfani da shekarar farko ta aurensu a keɓe ba, ƙwarewar ta kasance mai wadata. Harris ya ci gaba da cewa, "Ga Ali da ni, abin da ya kasance alherin cetonmu a duk wannan, bikin aure, mun ji takaici, keɓewa yana da mahimmanci ga ma'aurata da abokan zama shine sadarwa," Harris ya ci gaba.
“Bari mutane su san yadda kuke ji idan kuna buƙata sarari, idan kuna wahala rana, yana da mahimmanci. Yana haɓaka irin waɗannan manyan tubalan ginin don haɓaka alaƙar ku. Abin da ya fi wuya a wajen ma’aurata ke nan: a yi gaskiya ba da tsangwama wani lokaci ba. Tun ranar farko, ni da Ali mun san ana buƙatar tattaunawa mai tsanani don ci gaba. Ba mu ɗauke su da kanmu ba, kuma wannan al'ada ce da muka daɗe muna yi. Mun bunƙasa cikin keɓe… mun fahimci abubuwan da muke so da bukatunmu. Wannan ta hanyar sadarwa ne.”
"Ba ya bayyana aurenku idan ba za ku iya yin wannan gagarumin biki da kuka yi mafarkin ba… ba shine ƙarshen komai ba kuma ku kasance cikin tasirin yadda kuka yi tunanin rayuwa tare," in ji Krieger. "Idan kuka kawar da motsin zuciyar ku daga duk wannan kyalkyalin da kuka samu, haɗin kai tsakanin mutane biyu, ku ɗauka kamar mutane biyu ne ke gina rayuwar ku tare. Har yanzu kuna iya yin bikin auren mafarkin ku, ko da an ɗan yi toned ƙasa. Zai iya zama bikin aure na mafarkin da kuka yi zato."
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