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Anthony da Antonio - Ƙauna daga "Sannu"

Wannan labari ne game da wasu mutane biyu da suka sami abokin aurensu.

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Farko saduwa da Farko ji

Sun fara haduwa ne a ranar 8 ga Disamba, 2018, lokacin da wani abokin juna ya gabatar da su, wanda ke tunanin za su yi daidai. Babu ɗayansu da ke neman kasancewa cikin dangantaka a lokacin; duk da haka, abokin nasu ya sani kuma suna jin sun yi tarayya da juna sosai kuma sun kasance duka kayan aure ga juna. Bayan yunƙuri da yawa na ƙoƙarin haɗa su, ya shirya tafiya karshen mako zuwa birnin New York tare da gungun abokai, babu ɗayansu da ya san ɗayan zai tafi. Nan ne aka fara labarin soyayyar su. Soyayya ce a gani na farko. 

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Anthony: "Soyayyarmu ta fara ne a lokacin da muka ce,"Sannu". Hanya mafi kyau da zan iya bayyana wannan jin zai kasance daga fim ɗin, "Ba zan iya saya Ni Soyayya ba", matashin da ya fara soyayya a karon farko, kiftawar idanuwa, malam buɗe ido a cikin ciki, kuma ya rasa magana lokacin da daya kuma mutum daya ke tafiya daidai zakaje class na gaba. Sai dai wannan ba soyayyar kwikwiyo ba ce, wannan shine ainihin abin. Ya ba mu duka farin ciki sosai."

Fara Haɗuwa

Tafiyar soyayya ta fara da sallama mai sauki wacce ta rikide zuwa wani abu mara misaltuwa. Mako guda bayan an gabatar da su, sun tafi ranar farko a ranar 14 ga Disamba, 2018 zuwa Bartaco kuma sun fahimci akwai jan hankali nan da nan fiye da abin da suka gani a waje. Da shigewar lokaci, sun ƙara kusantar juna. Ba a buƙatar magana don su san cewa suna son junansu tun farko. Wani motsin rai ne wanda ba a san shi ba a ciki wanda kawai ake iya ji. Ƙauna tana da zurfi da kalmomi ba za su taɓa kwatantawa ba. Sa’ad da suke ƙoƙarin bayyana wa juna abin da suke ji, abin da kawai za su yi shi ne su zuba ido a idon juna yayin da suka cika da hawayen farin ciki. A lokacin ne suka san sun sami abokiyar rayuwar su.

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Cikin kankanin lokaci ji yake kamar sun san juna har abada, kuma an kaddara su zama tare. Haɗin kai cikin sauri ya samo asali zuwa ƙaƙƙarfan dangantaka mai cike da ƙauna, farin ciki, kwanciyar hankali, da sadaukarwa. 

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Antonio yana cikin ƙungiyar yaro na gida wanda ya girma a ƙarshen 1990s wanda aka sani da Touch of Quality sannan daga baya ya shiga Da Fellas. A farkon wannan shekarar ya nuna sha'awar son sake rera waƙa kuma Anthony gaba ɗaya ya goyi bayansa kuma ya ƙarfafa shi. Antonio ya fito da waƙarsa ta farko a matsayin ɗan wasan solo a watan Janairu na 2020 mai suna "Falling Deep For You". An sadaukar da waƙar ga Anthony wanda ya yi magana game da yadda ya sami cikakkiyar abokinsa, wanda ya kasance a mafarki.  

shawara

Shawarar ta dauka wuri Afrilu 3, 2019 a Ft. Lauderdale a The Rooftop, wurin shakatawa na hadaddiyar giyar da ke kallon birni. Dukansu sun sani kuma sun ji a cikin zukatansu cewa suna so su yi rayuwarsu ta har abada tare. Sun shirya tafiya mai tsawo na karshen mako zuwa Miami. Anthony ya isa 'yan kwanaki bayan Antonio kuma ya sauka a Ft. Lauderdale inda Antonio ya riga ya shirya zaman kwana kafin ya tafi Miami washegari. Antonio ya ɗauki Anthony zuwa Rooftop inda suka kwashe ɗan lokaci suna magana kuma suna jin daɗin ra'ayi mai ban mamaki. Daga baya a wannan maraice, Antonio ya ba da shawara kuma Anthony nan da nan ya ce eh. Wasu 'yan kallo sun dauki hotunan lokacin. Daga baya suka nufi dakin otal wanda aka lullube da kyandir da furanni. Ya kasance maraice mai ban mamaki!

Shirye-shiryen aure

Tun farko sun fara shirin auren su ne a watan Yuni 2019. Dukansu sun amince cewa suna son bikin aure.

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Sun kai ga wani wakilin balaguro na gida mai suna Liberty Travel don taimaka musu wajen nemo wurin shakatawa. Tafiya ta Liberty ta ba su jerin wuraren shakatawa kuma sun yanke shawarar The Grand A The Moon Palace a Cancun, Mexico. Duk da haka, wurin shakatawa ya sanar da Tafiya na Liberty cewa ba sa bayar da bukukuwan aure na jima'i a kowane kayan su (ko da yake sun bayar da rahoton cewa suna da abokantaka na LGBT). Ganin bacin ransu, sun yanke shawarar ba za su yi aiki tare da Tafiya na Liberty ba, saboda suna ganin ya kamata su riga sun san wannan bayanin kafin a ba su wurin shakatawa a matsayin zaɓi.

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Sai wani dangi ga Michelle Tarbush na Take Hutu, LLC ya tura su. Michelle ta taimaka sosai kuma ta sanar da su Hard Rock Los Cabos wanda ake sa ran budewa a cikin bazara na 2019. Nan da nan suka ƙaunaci wurin shakatawa kuma an haɗa su tare da mai shirya bikin aure daga Hard Rock. The masu shirya bikin aure sun yi aiki tare sun kasance masu ban mamaki sosai kuma suna iya aiwatar da ra'ayoyinsu. Sun yi aiki kai tsaye tare da Dillalai don tabbatar da Anthony da Antonio sun sami cikakkiyar bikin aure. An fara shirya bikin aurensu ne a ranar 25 ga Mayu, 2020. Koyaya, a ƙarshen Afrilu 2020 dole ne su yanke shawara mai tsauri don sake tsara bikin aurensu saboda cutar ta COVID-19. Sun yi takaici sosai amma sun san cutar ba za ta hana su ba. Dukansu Antonio da Anthony suna bikin ranar haifuwarsu a watan Agusta (Anthony, Agusta 29 da na Antonio, Agusta 30), don haka sun yanke shawarar yin aure a ranar 31 ga Agusta, 2020.

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Sun yi wani biki na ban mamaki tare da abokai 18 na kurkusa da danginsu. Sun shirya ayyuka na mako guda ga baƙonsu, tun lokacin da suka isa har ranar da za su tafi. Sun san baƙonsu sun yi tafiya mai nisa kuma sun damu da balaguron balaguron balaguro, don haka suna so su tabbatar an ɗauke su kamar sarakuna da sarauniya. Sun shirya hawan raƙuma, cabanas masu zaman kansu, ƙungiyar mariachi, faɗuwar rana mai zaman kansa akan jirgin ruwa wanda ya haɗa da abincin dare da mashaya buɗaɗɗe, da yin iyo tare da dolphins. Ya kasance mako marar imani! 

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