CAYTHIA NIXON GAME DA CIKAR AUREN TA TARE DA SOYAYYA KRISTI MARINONI
Cynthia Nixon tana tonawa wasu sirrika game da abin da ta bayyana a matsayin cikakkiyar ranar aurenta.
Shekaru uku bayan yin aure, tauraron "Jima'i da Birni", mai shekaru 46, ya yi musayar alƙawura da mai fafutukar ilimi. Christine Marinoni a birnin New York a watan Mayu. Taron ya kasance na musamman ga ma'auratan - waɗanda suke da ɗa mai suna Max - saboda sun sha alwashin a bainar jama'a cewa za su jira yin aure har sai an halatta auren jinsi a jihar New York. Ba da daɗewa ba bayan da aka zartar da dokar a lokacin rani na 2011, Nixon ta fara shiri don babbar ranarta.
“Ban taba tunanin nawa ba bikin aure girma,” Nixon ya yarda. “Ba sau daya ba. Ba ni daya daga cikin wadannan 'yan matan. Ba ruwansa da zama ɗan luwaɗi - lokacin da nake tare da namiji, ni ma ban yi tunanin rigar aure ta ba. A gaskiya na shafe tsawon rayuwata ba na son yin aure. Amma da a ƙarshe na yanke shawarar yin hakan, na san ina son kyakkyawar riga don bikin.”
Yayin da Marinoni ta yi magana da yawancin shirye-shiryen bikin aure - "wanda nake godiya ga har abada," in ji Nixon - 'yar wasan ta mayar da hankali kan suturarta. Bayan ta yi aiki tare da Carolina Herrera a baya, ba ta yi jinkirin sake komawa gare ta ba. Yayin ganawa da zanen da tawagarta, Nixon ya tuna gaya musu, "'Kada ku dauke ni a matsayin amarya. Ki dauke ni a matsayin babbar mace mai bukatar rigar aure.” Amma Herrera bai ji labarin ba. Ta ce, 'Kuna buƙatar samun riga mai babban birni D. Don haka ko da ba fari ko fari ba, akwai wani matakin biki.
Launin Nixon da aka zaɓa don rigarta ya kasance kore, wanda ta bayyana a matsayin "tafi-zuwa", watakila saboda ta buga Miranda ja na tsawon shekaru da yawa kuma launukan da aka yi don haɗuwa mai ban sha'awa. Da yake dacewa da bikin Bikin Big Apple, Nixon ya lura cewa rigar tana tunatar da ita game da "zane-zanen zane-zane." Wani muhimmin daki-daki - ajiye jirgin kasa gajere. "Daya daga cikin darussan da na koya daga shekarun da suka gabata na sanya riguna don nuna kyaututtuka shine cewa mutane koyaushe suna taka jirgin ka," in ji ta. “Wannan yana da jirgin ƙasa, amma bai isa ba har yanzu kuna iya tafiya da rawa a cikinsa. Ni ba babban dan wasan rawa ba ne, amma dole ne ka yi rawa a kalla kadan a wurin bikin aurenka."
Tare da warware matsalar rigar, Nixon ta sami damar mayar da hankalinta zuwa wani mawuyacin hali: gashinta. A wancan lokacin, Nixon, wacce ta kasance sananne a Broadway tun lokacin da kwanakin "Jima'i da Birni" suka ƙare, ta aske kan ta don yin wasa da farfesa da ciwon daji na kwai a cikin "Wit." Kowa ya yi kamar yana da ra'ayi game da yadda Nixon ya kamata ya sa gashinta don bikin aure - daga matarsa, wacce ta yi tunanin gashin kan Nixon zai kasance duk mutane suna magana ne, ga mahaifiyarta, wacce ta ba da shawarar ta sanya hular kwalliya irin ta wannan. Whitney Houston ta saka lokacin da ta auri Bobby Brown a shekara ta 1992. Daga karshe ta yanke shawarar a kan wani "rubutun azurfa da fari da aka nannade sau biyu a kaina," wanda kungiyar Herrera ta ba da shawarar, wanda Nixon ya sanya wasu kananan tsuntsayen soyayya na lu'u-lu'u Fred Leighton. .
Tsayawa da salon amaryar da ba na al'ada ba, Nixon bai damu da Marinoni ganin rigarta ba kafin bikin. Jarumar ta aikewa matar ta saƙon saƙo na hotuna daga kayan aiki daban-daban, “Ba zan faɗi abin da ta ce da ni game da shi ba - na sirri ne - amma ta faɗi abubuwa masu kyau da yawa.” A babbar ranar kanta, matan sun shirya tare yayin da yaransu - ɗansu Max, mai watanni 19, da yaran Nixon daga dangantakarta da Danny Mozes, Samantha, 16, da Charles, 9 - suna jira a kusa.
Ta ce: “Ina tsammanin ban taɓa tunanin rigar aure ta ba har sai da nake bukata, domin ta haka ne nake bi da abubuwa da yawa, ba salon salon kawai ba,” in ji ta. “Lokacin da na ɗauki wani aiki don aiki, na koyi cewa yana da kyau kada in shigo da tsattsauran ra’ayi game da wannan rawar. Dole ne ku jira dukkan abubuwa su taru - simintin gyare-gyare, ma'aikatan jirgin, darakta - kafin ku iya tsammanin yadda za ku kusanci shi. Kuma a batun aurena, da aka taru duka, ya yi kyau.”
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