Al'ummar Auren ku na LGBTQ

Ba wani asiri ba ne cewa daya daga cikin mafi kyawun sassa na samun tsinkaya shine gano ɓarnawar kasafin kuɗin bikin aure (shi yasa mataki na ɗaya a cikin yadda za a tsara tsarin bikin aure mataki-mataki). Don haka don taimaka muku gano ainihin ɓarnar kuɗin bikin aure - da kuma adadin kuɗin bikin aure da za a raba tsakanin abinci, tufafi, furanni, kiɗa - mun bincika dubban ma'aurata a faɗin ƙasar a cikin rahotonmu don raba kasafin kuɗin bikin aurensu tare da mu - kuma mu 'Ana raba matsakaicin raguwar kasafin kuɗin bikin aure a nan, don haka za ku iya yanke shawarar da ta fi dacewa don ranarku.

Alkawuran bikin aure na al'ada na iya zama - ta yaya za mu ce shi - heteronormative? Tsarin rubuta alƙawuran auren gay na iya zama ƙalubale saboda kuna iya buƙatar warwarewa ta samfuri iri-iri don nemo wasu misalan da ke aiki don bikin auren ku na LGBT. A gefe guda, a matsayin ma'aurata ko ma'aurata, kuna da 'yanci da yawa don yin alƙawuran bikin aure waɗanda ke wakiltar asalin ku da dangantakar ku ba tare da damuwa da al'ada ba. A gaskiya ma, yawancin ma’auratan maza da mata sun zaɓi rubuta wa’adin aurensu idan aka kwatanta da kashi ɗaya bisa uku na ma’auratan dabam-dabam.