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Wand raua ko Alex Sykes

HE AHA TATOU MO TE WAHINE A WANDA SYKES, ALEX SYKES?

Ahakoa e mohio ana koe ki a ia mai i tana pukuhohe, i ana kiriata maha, i tana mahi whakanuia ranei i runga i te Curb Your Enthusiasm, ko Wanda Sykes me tona reo rongonui i kata koe. Engari ahakoa he 57 tau te pakeke o te pukuhohe e tino korero ana i a ia e eke ana ki runga i te atamira, he nui ake tana rahui ina pa ana ki tona oranga. Inaa, he maha nga kaiwhaiwhai kaore pea i te mohio he wahine me nga tamariki a Wanda Sykes! Anei te tirohanga o roto mo ana tamariki me tana wahine a Alex Sykes.

Wanda Sykes me Alex Sykes

I whanau i te Maehe 7, 1964, i Portsmouth, Virginia, i mahi a Wanda Sykes hei tohunga kirimana mo te National Security Agency (NSA) i mua i tana whai mahi whakangahau. I te timatanga o te tekau tau atu i 1990, ka neke ia ki New York City ki te whakarewa i tana mahi tuutuu, ka puta i roto i nga karapu o te rohe me te mohio ki nga hoa pukuhohe e haere mai ana penei i a DL Hughley, Bernie Mac, me Bill Bellamy.

Mai i te 1991 ki te 1998, i marenatia a Sykes ki te kaihanga rekoata a David Hill. Heoi ano, karekau te uniana i te harikoa, no reira te nuinga o nga korero a Sykes mai i tera wa ka whakaparahako ki nga hononga. "Ko te korero noa mo te hononga kino me taku tane," ka kii ia ki te New York Times Magazine i te 2019. "He pono ahau. I hiahia ahau ki te mawhiti. Ka rite ki: 'E te Atua, kei kona tona kanohi poauau, kei te ngaungau. Aue, me hau ia? Whakamutua tana manawa.' Inaianei he tino pai taku whanaungatanga, a kei te koa ahau, no reira kare te ngaungau a taku wahine e whakapataritari i ahau.”

I tutaki a Sykes ki tana hoa wahine a muri ake nei a Alex Niedbalski i te tau 2006 i a ia e haere ana ki te Moutere ahi o New York. E ai ki te whetu Crank Yankers, ko te aroha i te kitenga tuatahi. "I tino kii mai tetahi mea ki ahau - penei me te rongo - 'Aue, koina taau e hiahia ana, Wanda,'" i kii a Sykes i te tau 2018, e korero ana mo te wa tuatahi i kite ia ia Alex.

I marena te tokorua nei i te tau 2008, a, i muri tata mai, ka puta mai a Sykes hei wahine moe wahine. I mahia e ia i te huihuinga whakahē i te paahitanga o te Kaupapa 8, he whakatikatika i whakaarotia ki te aukati te marena-taua i te kawanatanga o California. “I taku putanga mai, ehara i te mea he kaupapa i whakamaheretia,” i kii ia i te pakipūmeka 2013. “He ra whakahē a motu ki te paahitanga o te Panui 8. I kii ahau, 'Kei hea te huihuinga, ka haere tatou ki te huihuinga.' Na ka mahia e ahau. A i roto i aku korero i kii ahau kua marena ahau, kua pouri ahau.

Kua puta kee a Sykes ki tona whanau me ona hoa, no reira i miharo ia i te wa tonu i puta nga kupu matua o tana panui ohorere. "Ka tae ahau ki te hotera, ka whakahurihia e ahau te pouaka whakaata me te panuku CNN ko te, 'kaitakata Wanda Sykes, 'Kei te whakahīhī ahau ki te takatāpui,'" ka rite ahau, Aue, he mahi nui tenei. . He wahine mangu ahau, he tangata rongonui, kei waho ahau.' Kaore he pouri."

Ko wai a Alex Sykes?

He tangata whenua no Parani, a Alex Niedbalski (inaianei ko Alex Sykes) i whanau i te tau 1974. Ko ia te paetahi o te kura pakihi rongonui i Paris, a, he tino angitu tana mahi hei wahine kaipakihi. I tenei wa, ko ia te perehitini perehitini matua mo nga hokonga mo tetahi kamupene papaa kihini o Kanata.
Ahakoa kaore ia i roto i te umanga whakangahau penei i tana wahine, kotahi rau paiheneti kei te tautoko a Alex i nga mahi a Wanda. Ko te tikanga, e kii ana te whetu Pango-pango ka haere tonu tana wahine ki ana whakaaturanga whakakatakata, a, ka whakamahia e ia tenei hei painga ki a ia ina kore e whakaae te tokorua ki tetahi mea. "I etahi wa, ki te mohio ahau kei roto ia i te hunga whakarongo, ka ata korerohia e au tetahi mea i korerohia e matou hei whakamatautau i te hunga whakarongo," ka kii ia ki te Windsor Star i te tau 100. "Ki te whakaae ratou ki ahau, ka tawai ahau ki a ia. mo muri iho.”

Te kihi i te atamira i muri i te korero a Wanda

Tokorua nga tamariki a Wanda raua ko Alex Sykes

Tokorua nga tamariki o te tokorua nei, he mahanga teina a Olivia raua ko Lucas, 12 tau te pakeke. I whanau raua i te Paenga-whawha o te tau 2009, a kua whakakatakatahia e Wanda mo nga uauatanga o te whakatipu pepi e rua i te wa kotahi. "I rite ahau, e toku Atua, he aha ta maua mahi?" ka korerotia e ia ki a Vulture i te tau 2016. “I tetahi wa ka whakaaro ahau ki te whakahoki i tetahi. I penei ahau, ka taea e tatou te whakahoki mai i tetahi? Ko taku tino tikanga, aue. I whakaaro au e kore e taea e taatau tenei mahi, me whakahoki ano tetahi."

E ai ki a Wanda, he nui te paanga o te noho mama ki runga i ana taonga. “Kua tino rerekee. Me kii noa ahau kua rereke nga kaupapa. I mua, ka korero noa ahau mo nga mea e tupu ana i roto i toku oranga,” i whakaae ia i te tau 2017. “Anei te whakaahua o nga mea e pa ana ki ahau, huri noa i te ao, mai i nga tamariki he rite tonu te tikanga ki taku korero. mo nga mea kei te tupu, engari ko te nuinga o nga mea e pa ana ki nga tamariki me te whanau, na te mea ka riro noa i a raatau nga mea katoa, e mohio ana koe?”

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