IBALI LOTHANDO ELIFUMUSAYO LIKA-ADRIAN NOTOBY
U-Adrian, oneminyaka engama-35 ubudala, usebenza njengegosa likarhulumente kwaye uToby, oneminyaka engama-27, ufunda iMbali kunye nesiNgesi kwisidanga sokufundisa. La madoda mabini ancumayo kwaye anelanga avela eJamani adibene ngo-2016. Sabacela ukuba babelane ngamabali obuqu kuba sichukumisekile ngokwenene bubomi babo obuqaqambileyo obuzele lulonwabo nothando.
IBALI LENDLELA ESIHLANGANE NGAYO
U-Adrian kunye nam sadibana kwi-app yokuthandana kwaye kwathatha ixesha ngaphambi kokuba sidibane nomntu. Kodwa emva kwexesha siye savumelana ukuba sihambe ngedate. Ukunyaniseka kakhulu, ngobo busuku ngo-Agasti ka-2016, ndandingekho semdleni wokuya ngala mhla. Kodwa uAdrian wandeyisela ekubeni nditye kunye, nto leyo eyakhokelela ekubeni ndipheke ekhitshini lakhe. Sibe norhatya olumnandi, kodwa sobabini siye saziva, asihambelani ncam. Yiyo loo nto kungekho namnye kuthi owathumela umyalezo komnye.
Kwiiveki ezintathu ezilandelayo, ndaba ngathi ndiyamkhumbula uAdrian yaye ndandizibuza ukuba unjani na. Wayebonakala elunge ngokwenene, nangona sasihlala sobabini kwizijikelezi-langa ezahlukeneyo ngeli xesha. Ndamthumelela umyalezo. Ndambuza waphuma nyani uAdrian wavuma. Ukususela ngoko, bobabini baqalisa ukuqonda ukuba sinomdla omnye komnye yaye ngokuthe ngcembe siyathandana. Saba ngokusemthethweni ngoSeptemba 17, 2016, kwinyanga enesiqingatha ukusuka kumhla wethu wokuqala. Ngo-2017 sahlala kunye kwaye nge-6 kaDisemba 2019 satshata.
SIYATHANDA sobabini
Sobabini siyakuthanda ukuhamba, ngakumbi ukuya e-US. Besikuhambo lwendlela eCarlifonia, eneneni ibiyiholide yethu yokuqala enkulu sisonke ngo-2017. Bekucwangcisiwe ukutyelela unxweme lwaseMpuma kulo nyaka uphelileyo, kodwa ngenxa yobhubhane kuye kwafuneka sizirhoxise izicwangciso zethu. Kodwa iJamani ineelwandle ezintle, nazo! Ngaphaya koko siyaluthanda ukhenketho lwebhayisekile, iikonsathi, ukudibana nabahlobo kunye nokupheka.
UMTHETHO WETHU
Bonke ubudlelwane baneengxaki, nathi saba nazo. Kodwa sinomgaqo omnye, ukuba unengxaki ngayo nantoni thetha. Emva koko siqala ukuthetha ngengxaki, ivela phi loo ngxaki kwaye singenza ntoni ukuyisombulula. Ubudlelwane busebenza kuphela ukuba unxibelelana neqabane lakho kwaye yile nto siyenzayo. Kwaye ewe, ubudlelwane bufuna umsebenzi, imihla ngemihla.
Enye into esiyenzayo kukuba ngenene sibhiyozela umhla we-17 kwinyanga nganye. Siyibiza ngokuba lusuku lwethu lwenyanga. Sinokutya okumnandi kwindawo yokutyela yodidi kwaye sonwabele ixesha lokwenyani elisemgangathweni kunye, thina sobabini kuphela. Ngaloo ndlela sigcina uthando lwethu luselula, ngokubonisa rhoqo ukuba sithandana ngokunzulu.
Shiya iMpendulo