INDABA YOTHANDO EKHUTHAZAYO KA-ADRIAN NO-TOBY
U-Adrian, oneminyaka engama-35 ubudala, usebenza njengesikhulu sikahulumeni kanti uToby, 27, ufunda iHistory nesiNgisi ngeziqu zokufundisa. Lawa madoda amabili amomothekayo futhi anelanga avela eJalimane ahlangane ngo-2016. Sibacele ukuthi babelane ngezindaba zabo ngoba sithakazelelwa kakhulu impilo yabo ekhanyayo egcwele injabulo nothando.
INDABA YOKUTHI SAHLANGANA KANJANI
Mina no-Adrian sahlangana kuhlelo lokusebenza lokuqomisana futhi empeleni kwathatha isikhashana ngaphambi kokuba sihlangane mathupha. Kodwa emva kwesikhashana savumelana ngokuthi sizoya ngosuku. Uma ngikhuluma iqiniso impela, ngalobo busuku emuva ngo-August 2016, ngangingenaso ngempela isimo sengqondo sokuya ngalolo suku. Kodwa u-Adrian wangikhuthaza ukuba ngidle isidlo sakusihlwa ndawonye, okwaholela ekubeni ngipheke ekhishini lakhe. Sibe nobusuku obumnandi, kodwa sobabili sibe nomuzwa wokuthi asifani ngempela. Yingakho kungekho noyedwa wethu othumele omunye umyalezo.
Emasontweni amathathu alandelayo, kwaba sengathi ngikhumbule u-Adrian futhi ngangizibuza ukuthi uqhuba kanjani. Wayebonakala emuhle ngempela, nakuba sobabili sasihlala kumaplanethi ahlukene ngalesi sikhathi. Ngimthumele umlayezo. Ngambuza waphuma nangempela u-Adrian wavuma. Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi kuqhubeke, bobabili baqala ukuqaphela ukuthi sinesithakazelo komunye nomunye futhi kancane kancane siqala ukuthandana. Saqala ukusebenza ngoSepthemba 17, 2016, esikhathini esingangenyanga nengxenye kusukela ngosuku lwethu lokuqala. Ngo-2017 sahlala ndawonye kwathi ngoDisemba 6, 2019 sashada.
SIYATHANDA sobabili
Sobabili siyathanda ukuvakasha, ikakhulukazi ukuya e-US. Sike sasohambweni lwaseCalifornia, obekuyiholide lethu lokuqala elikhulu sindawonye emuva ngo-2017. Kwakuhlelelwe ukuvakashela ogwini oluseMpumalanga ngonyaka odlule, kodwa ngenxa yobhadane kwadingeka sikhansele izinhlelo zethu. Kodwa iJalimane inamabhishi amahle, futhi! Ngaphezu kwalokho sithanda ukuvakasha kwamabhayisikili, amakhonsathi, ukuhlangana nabangane nokupheka.
UMTHETHO WETHU
Bonke ubudlelwano bunezinkinga, nathi saba nazo. Kodwa sinomthetho owodwa, uma unenkinga nganoma yini khuluma. Bese siqala ukukhuluma ngenkinga, ukuthi leyo nkinga iqhamukaphi futhi yini esingayenza ukuyixazulula. Ubudlelwano busebenza kuphela uma uxhumana nophathina wakho futhi yilokho esikwenzayo. Futhi yebo, ubudlelwano budinga umsebenzi, usuku nosuku.
Okunye esikwenzayo ukuthi empeleni sigubha umhla zili-17 enyangeni ngayinye. Sikubiza ngokuthi yisikhumbuzo sethu sanyanga zonke. Sinokudla okumnandi endaweni yokudlela ewubukhazikhazi futhi sijabulela nje isikhathi sekhwalithi yangempela sindawonye, sobabili nje. Sigcina kanjalo uthando lwethu lusha, ngokubonisa njalo ukuthi sithandana ngokujulile.
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