Indaba Yothando KaJeremiya noDaniyeli

UJeremiah Bebo 32 noDaniel Madrid 35, ndawonye iminyaka engu-9 (ngoJanuwari, 2014)

Izinyathelo zokuqala

Meet okokuqala

UJeremiya: "NgoJanuwari 2014 ngesikhathi seNew Years endaweni yokucima ukoma endala ebizwa ngokuthi i-Wrangler. Saziswa ngomngane wethu sobabili (naye owayesemcimbini wethu womshado). Saqala ukukhuluma ngomculo sawushaya ngaso leso sikhathi."

Okokuqala "Ngiyakuthanda"

UJeremiya: "Ngemuva “kwesethulo” sethu sokuqala siye ngosuku lwesidlo sakusihlwa sase siphuza iziphuzo eHorseshoe Lounge. Wahlala kwaze kwahlwa ekhuluma ubusuku bonke. ” UDaniel wathi “ngiyakuthanda” kuqala.

Aqale ngokuqabula

UJeremiya "Ngesikhathi siqala ukuhlangana eThe Wrangler"
 

Ukusekela okuvela kubazali noma abangani manje

UJeremiya: “Bonke abangane bethu bayasisekela njengomkhaya wakithi oseduze. Sinomndeni okude esingaboni ngaso linye nawo futhi odla ngoludala. Ngaphandle kwalokho yomibili imindeni yethu esondelene futhi ekhetha imindeni iyaseseka kakhulu futhi ithanda omunye njengomndeni. "

Ama-namnameki

UJeremiya: “UDaniel ungibiza ngo “Jay”

Okuyinqaba, imikhuba emihle komunye nomunye

Amasiko omndeni

UDaniel: “Ukufunda amamenyu ezinsukwini ezi-3-5 ngaphambi kokuya endaweni yokudlela. Isidingo sokulala ne-AC ivuliwe kuma-degree angu-65 kanye nefenisha ngisho nasebusika. Ukupakisha izingubo zezinsuku eziyisikhombisa zohambo lwezinsuku ezimbili (okuhlanganisa namapheya angu-5 ezicathulo). Ukuzifela kukaJeremiya ngemizila yamabhayisikili.”

Izinhlelo zomndeni zekusasa

"Thina plan ukuya kwi-honeymoon esikhathini esithile ngonyaka ozayo (mhlawumbe eSpain!). UDaniel uqedela i-MBA yakhe futhi uJeremiya usebenzela ukuthuthukisa "isiphithiphithi" sakhe sezindawo ezithengiswayo. Sisanda kuthola umdlwane waseLakeland Terrier ogama lakhe lingu-Oso futhi siyawujabulela kakhulu. Sinethemba lokuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi sizothuthela kwelinye idolobha, cishe ogwini olusempumalanga. Kodwa kuze kube yileso sikhathi sihlela ukuhamba kakhulu futhi siqhubeke nokuthuthuka empilweni yethu yobungcweti. ”

Isiphakamiso

UJeremiya: “UDaniyeli wasikisela uJeremiya. Kwakungo-Agasti ka-2020 ngesikhathi sobhubhane futhi njengoba imingcele yaxegiswa isikhashana. Wayehlele ubusuku bosuku eCherry Creek. Sathola iziphuzo kuqala sabe sesidla isidlo sakusihlwa eBarolo Grill. Etafuleni lesidlo, uDaniel wathi kuJeremiya, “Kukhona into engifuna ukukhuluma ngayo nawe.” Futhi ngaso leso sikhathi uJeremiya wahlahla amehlo akhe, wacabanga ukuthi wayesenkingeni wayesethi, “Daniyeli sinobusuku bosuku, kuyini na?” Khona-ke uDaniel wakhipha indandatho futhi wahlongoza (hhayi edolweni elilodwa noma ngokuyenza indawo yokudlela ngoba uJeremiya wayezonda lokho).

Wedding

UJeremiah: “Besifuna umshado okhethekile owawuyisikhumbuzo sabangane bethu nomndeni. Besifuna ukukwazi ukubaphatha bonke ngesikhathi sokuzijabulisa nokudla okuhle. Ukudla, umculo, ukudansa kanye nesimo sezulu kwakubaluleke kakhulu. ”

Amalungiselelo omshado

Umthengisi womshado: @abangani kanye nezithombe

UJeremiya: “Kukhulu indawo, ukudla okumnandi nomculo omnandi kwakuyizinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kithi esasizifuna emshadweni wethu. Sachitha izinyanga eziyisithupha sishayela sizungeza emadolobheni ahlukahlukene asezintabeni ukuze sithole indawo ekahle ezintabeni. Ekugcineni, sagcina sibuyela eDenver. Saba ne-brunch ngolunye usuku eBigsby's Folly futhi umngane wethu esasinaye kwenzeka wazi umnikazi (owayekhona ngaleso sikhathi) futhi wasethula futhi ngemva kwalokho sanquma umshado khona. Umxhumanisi wendawo (uCassie) ubemangalisa futhi wonke umuntu kuze kube namuhla usakhuluma ngokuthi ukudla bekumnandi kangakanani. Sihlangane nomhleli wethu womshado omuhle (uChikeeh Talker ku-One Love at a Time Events) endaweni yokucima ukoma futhi sayishaya ngaso leso sikhathi. Ngokufanayo, saya e-Temple Nightclub ngobunye ubusuku futhi umngane wethu wasethula komunye wabahlali Ama-DJs ukudlala ngalobo busuku (JAdore). Sobabili singabalandeli abakhulu be-EDM futhi besifuna ukuthi i-EDM ifakwe ohlwini lwethu lokudlalayo ebusuku. Simcele ku-DJ emshadweni wethu wathi yebo ngaso leso sikhathi. Phezu komshado wethu ngo-2022, saphinde saba neminye imishado emihlanu (emithathu kuyo uJeremiya wayengekho ephathini yomshado). Okwenze u-2022 waba unyaka wemishado ukusho okuncane. Njengoba okwethu kungowokugcina.”

ingxoxo nabathengisi bomshado

Jeremiah: “Impela into yokuqala ebesifuna ukuqiniseka ngayo ukuthi bonke abathengisi bethu bebengabanikazi be-LGBTQ+ noma banamabhizinisi nezinkundla ezisekela imishado nemibhangqwana ye-LGBTQ+. Sahlangana sathola konke okwethu abathengisi bomshado kungaba ngenhlanhla emphakathini noma ngokusebenzisa izinsiza ze-inthanethi. Bonke abathengisi bethu bebenobuntu, benomthwalo wemfanelo, benenhlonipho, futhi asikwazi ukuveza ukuthi sibazise futhi sibajabulele kangakanani bonke.

Kwakulula kakhulu ukuqasha isazi sezimbali, photographer, umthwebuli wevidiyo, ophakelayo, u-DJ/ibhendi. I-Denver inenhlanhla enkulu ngokuba nezingcweti eziya phambili nezithuthukayo. Ingxenye enzima kithi kwakuwukukhetha esikufunayo kanye nokuzama ukugwema. ”

 

abathengisi bomshado:

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