Umphakathi wakho Womshado we-LGBTQ+

ABACULI OMSHADO & AMABHANDE ABUKHOMA OMSHADO WE-LGBTQ

Thola abaculi bomshado be-LGBTQ abangochwepheshe kanye namabhendi abukhoma eduze nawe. Khetha umthengisi wakho ngendawo, isitayela somculo nezibuyekezo zekhasimende. Thola abaculi bomshado abahamba phambili namabhendi abukhoma emishado yobulili obufanayo endaweni yangakini.

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UNGAMKHETHA KANJANI UMCULI WOMSHADO WE-LGBTQ NOMA IQINISO LOKUPHILA?

Qala Ngesitayela Sakho

Usuku lumisiwe. Isikhathi sokucabanga ngabaculi bomshado wakho. Buza abangani bakho, umndeni, ezinye izithandani ezithandanayo. I-Google "amabhendi omculo womshado eduze kwami". Thola okukukhuthazayo.

Chaza izidingo zakho. Ingabe indawo yakho inesiteji kanye/noma indawo yokudansa? Lungiselela uhlu lwezinto ozilindele eqenjini lomculo.

Ungaya isinyathelo esisodwa futhi uqoqe amasampula wamafayela evidiyo nawomsindo. Lezi zizosebenza njengereferensi yabaculi bomshado ozobahlola ngokulandelayo. Ukwazi ukuthi yini oyifunayo kubaculi bakho bomshado obukhoma kuwuhhafu womsebenzi.

Qonda Izinketho

Uma usuwazi ukuthi hlobo luni lomculo noma ibhendi oyifunayo, bheka amabhendi omshado wendawo nabaculi endaweni yangakini. Izinto ze-Google ezifana "nabaculi bomshado eduze kwami" noma "amabhendi endawo emishado".

Dlula kumaphrofayili aku-inthanethi weqembu kanye newebhusayithi. Hlola amasampula omsebenzi, ikhasi lentengo. Bona ukuthi banikeza amaphakheji. Qhathanisa izinketho ngokubuyekezwa komsebenzisi, izindleko kanye ne-repertoire.

Uzogcina usunokuqonda okucacile kokuthi izintengo ziyini nokuthi yini enikezwayo.

Qala Ingxoxo

Uma usuthole abaculi bomshado abangu-2-3 (abafika kwabangu-5) abathanda isitayela sabo, yisikhathi sokuthi ufunde uma ubuntu bakho buchofoza. Xhumana nesici se-EVOL.LGBT esithi “Request Quote”. Ikuhambisa ezingxenyeni ezibalulekile zolwazi ukuze wabelane.

Tshela umculi ngemininingwane yomshado wakho, umbono wakho. Cela izinto abaculi bomshado abazidingayo kuwe. Umgomo wakho awukona nje ukuthola umculo obukhoma wemishado, kodwa ukuthola okufanayo okulungile kosuku lwakho olukhethekile.

imibuzo ejwayelekile ukubuzwa

Hlola izimpendulo zemibuzo evamile mayelana nokukhetha abaculi bomshado namabhendi abukhoma emishado yobulili obufanayo. Kungaba i-quartet yezintambo, i-orchestra enesigaba sophondo, ibhendi ye-jazz, ibhendi yaseMariachi noma ama-DJ omshado; izimpendulo ezingezansi ziyisiqalo esihle sendlela yakho yokukhetha umculo womshado wakho.

Ungamthola kanjani umculi womshado wami?

Kunezinketho eziningi zokuthola amabhendi abukhoma nabaculi bosuku lwakho lomshado. Bheka izinkampani zokubhukha ezisebenza ngokukhethekile ekuhlinzekeni abaculi bemicimbi enjalo.

I-Google yabaculi bendawo namabhendi. Phequlula amasayithi afana ne-Yelp. I-Google ngokwayo inikeza indlela yokuphequlula amabhizinisi endawo ngomkhiqizo wayo we-Maps. Hlola amaphrofayili, izithombe, amavidiyo, funda ukubuyekezwa kwamakhasimende.

Finyelela ku-orchestra yasendaweni. Bangase babe namalungu azimisele ukusebenza ngokuzimela. Buza indawo yakho ngomculo noma amabhendi omdanso avame ukucula endaweni.

Ingabe umculi ubalwa njengesivakashi somshado?

Ngokuvamile labo bantu bayabala kodwa kungancika ngendawo. Ngokuvamile noma ubani indawo kufanele alungiselele ukusingatha noma onikelayo ukuze afinyelele umthamo wendawo ufakiwe ekubalweni kwezivakashi. Lokho kufaka wena nomlingani wakho futhi. Ngakho-ke, noma ngabe kungumcimbi noma abaculi bokwamukela umshado kufanele babe yingxenye yephathi yomshado.

Ingabe udinga ukunikeza isidlo sakusihlwa kumculi emshadweni?

Ngenkathi uhlela ukudla neziphuzo zomshado wakho kuyalulekwa kakhulu ukuthi ucabangele ibhendi yakho yomshado ebukhoma. Amabhendi amaningi abukhoma azoba nawe kanye nezivakashi zakho cishe amahora angama-6-8.

Ngakho ngaphandle kwalapho nivumelene ngenye indlela, ngokuvamile kuwumthwalo wenu ukubanika ukudla neziphuzo. Noma iyiphi inkontileka oyisayina nebhendi yomshado oyiqashile kufanele icacise ukuthi kufanele yini ubanikeze ukudla neziphuzo. Izikhathi eziyisi-9 kweziyi-10 kuzodingeka wenze njalo.

Ukhokha malini umculi emshadweni?

Nakuba izindleko zebhendi yomculo emishadweni zingahluka kakhulu kuye ngohlobo lwabaculi obakhethayo, isitayela somculo amabhendi adlalayo, izinga labo lobuchwepheshe kanye nenani lezinye izici. Izindleko ezijwayelekile zabaculi bomshado e-US zifika cishe ku-$500.

Yebo lokhu kuzohluka ngokuya ngezimo zakho zomcimbi okhethekile. Isibonelo, uma kuwumshado wendawo, ingabe uzondizisa umculi wakho noma uzoqasha ibhendi yendawo?

Yebo, ekupheleni kosuku, kuningi mayelana nesabelomali sakho somshado. Kodwa khumbula ukuthi abaculi abaphambili namaqembu abukhoma benza imicimbi engasoze yalibaleka.

Umcebisa kangakanani umculi womcimbi wakho womshado?

Kubaculi bomcimbi, inkomba ejwayelekile ingu-15% wemali yomculo noma u-$15-$25 ngomculi ngamunye. Ngebhendi yokwamukela, ingu-$25-$50 ngomculi ngamunye. O-DJ bomshado bangase bathole u-10–15% wesamba sebhili noma u-$50–$150.

Landela Izenzo Ezinhle

Ukuthola abaculi bomshado bosuku olukhethekile lwabashadile bobulili obufanayo kulandela iziqondiso ezijwayelekile njenganoma yimuphi umbhangqwana ofuna abaculi bomshado. Kodwa-ke, kunezinye izinqubo ezihamba phambili ezengeziwe okufanele uzicabangele ukuze uqinisekise ukuzizwisa okuhle nokubandakanyayo.

Cwaninga futhi uhlole izinketho

Qala ngokucwaninga izinhlobo ezahlukene zabaculi bomshado, njengamabhendi, abadlali ababodwa, ama-DJs, noma ama-string quartet. Bheka abaculi abashintshashintshashintshayo futhi abakwazi ukubhekelela okuncamelayo okukhethekile nezinhlobo zomculo.

Funa izincomo

Buza abangani, umndeni, noma ezinye izithandani kumphakathi we-LGBTQ+ ezike zaba nakho okuhle ngabaculi bomshado. Izincomo zabo zingahlinzeka ngemininingwane kochwepheshe abanekhono ababandakanyayo kanye ne-LGBTQ+-friendly.

Sebenzisa ulimi olubandakanya wonke umuntu emibuzweni

Lapho ufinyelela abaculi bomshado abangase babe, sebenzisa ulimi oluhlanganisayo ekuxhumaneni kwakho. Lokhu kungasiza ukukala ukuvuleleka kwabo nokuqinisekisa ukuthi bayabeseka abathandanayo bobulili obufanayo.

Buyekeza iphothifoliyo yabo kanye nokusebenza okwedlule

Bheka amawebhusayithi abaculi, amaphrofayli enkundla yezokuxhumana, noma iziteshi ze-YouTube ukuze ubone iphothifoliyo yabo kanye nokusebenza okwedlule. Lokhu kuzokunikeza umbono wesitayela sabo, ukuguquguquka, kanye nethalente.

Hlola ukuhlukahluka ku-repertoire yabo

Qinisekisa ukuthi abaculi bayakwazi ukudlala izinhlobo ezahlukene zomculo. Xoxa ngezitayela zakho zomculo ozithandayo futhi uqinisekise ukuthi ziyakwazi ukwamukela izicelo zakho.

Hlela izingxoxo noma ukubonisana

Hlela imihlangano noma ukubonisana nabaculi ukuze nixoxe ngombono wakho wosuku lomshado, okuhlanganisa uhlobo lomculo oluthandayo kanye nanoma yiziphi izicelo ezikhethekile. Leli futhi kuyithuba lokuhlola umsebenzi wabo womsebenzi, umdlandla, nokuzimisela ukuzivumelanisa nezidingo zakho.

Buza ngolwazi lwabo

Ngesikhathi sokubonisana, buza abaculi ukuthi banalo yini ulwazi lokucula emishadweni yabantu bobulili obufanayo. Ukusabela kwabo kungabonisa ukujwayela kwabo imigubho ye-LGBTQ+ kanye nezinga labo lokunethezeka ekusekeleni nasekugubheni uthando lwakho.

Cela izithenjwa

Cela abaculi izithenjwa zemishado yabobulili obufanayo edlule abake bacula kuyo. Xhumana nalezi zithenjwa ukuze ubuze mayelana nolwazi lwabo, ubungcweti, nokwaneliseka kukonke.

Cacisa ukuhanjiswa kanye nemininingwane

Xoxa nezici zokuhlela, njengenombolo yabadlali, izidingo zabo zokusetha, isikhathi, neminye imininingwane efanele. Qiniseka ukuthi uqonda ngokucacile lokho abaculi abazokunikeza ngosuku lomshado.

Buyekeza futhi usayine inkontileka

Uma usukhethile umculi womshado, buyekeza inkontileka ngokucophelela. Qinisekisa ukuthi ihlanganisa yonke imininingwane okuvunyelwene ngayo, njengosuku, isikhathi, indawo, amasevisi, izinkokhelo, nezinqubomgomo zokukhansela. Sayina inkontileka kuphela uma wenelisekile ngemibandela.

Thola Ugqozi

Ngaphambi kokukhuluma nabaculi abazoshada, umbhangqwana ungathola ugqozi emithonjeni ehlukahlukene ukuze ubasize banqume umculo wabo abawuthandayo kanye nombono jikelele womshado wabo.

Amapulatifomu aku-inthanethi namawebhusayithi omshado

Amawebhusayithi afana ne-Pinterest, i-Instagram, kanye nezinkundla eziqondene nomshado (isb, i-The Knot, WeddingWire) zinikeza ingcebo yogqozi. Izithandani zingaphequlula kumaqoqo akhethiwe wemibono yomculo womshado, izinhla zokudlalayo, nezindaba zangempela zomshado ukuze zithole ugqozi oluhambisana nazo.

Amabhulogi omshado we-LGBTQ+ nokushicilelwe

Kunamabhulogi amaningi omshado nokushicilelwe okubhekelela imibhangqwana ye-LGBTQ+. Lezi zinkundla zibonisa izindaba zangempela zomshado, zinikeza amathiphu nezeluleko, futhi zinikeza ugqozi kuzo zonke izici zomshado wobulili obufanayo, kuhlanganise nomculo. Izibonelo zifaka i-Equally Wed, Dancing With Her, kanye ne-Love Inc.

Izinkundla zokusakaza umculo

Izinkundla ezifana ne-Spotify, Apple Music, kanye ne-YouTube Music zinikeza iqoqo elibanzi lohlu lwadlalwayo, izinhlu ezikhethiwe, nezincomo zohlobo oluthile. Izithandani zingahlola izinhlobo ezahlukene nezinhla zokudlalayo ukuze bathole umculo ohambisana nalokho abakuthandayo kanye ne-ambience efiswayo.

Ukuhambela imishado noma amakhonsathi abukhoma

Ukuya emishadweni yabangane, umndeni, noma eminye imibhangqwana kunganikeza okuhlangenwe nakho okuzibonela kanye nemibono. Imibhangqwana ingabheka ukukhetha komculo, imidlalo, namalungiselelo ukuze bathole ugqozi futhi banqume ukuthi yini ehambisana nabo.

Izintandokazi zomculo womuntu siqu

Ukuzindla ngomculo wabo siqu abawuthandayo njengombhangqwana kungaba umthombo omuhle kakhulu wogqozi. Bangacabangela izingoma abazithandayo, abaculi, nezinhlobo futhi baxoxe ngokuthi bangazihlanganisa kanjani lezi zici osukwini lwabo lomshado.

Amamuvi, izinhlelo ze-TV, nomculo

Amafilimu, izinhlelo ze-TV, nezingoma zomculo ngokuvamile ziveza izigcawu zomshado eziwuphawu nomculo ongasoze walibaleka. Imibhangqwana ingathola ugqozi ngokubuka noma ngokulalela okuqukethwe okuhlobene nomshado nokukhomba izikhathi zomculo ezihambisana nazo.

Amasiko nendabuko amathonya

Abashadile bangase bathole ugqozi ezizindeni zabo zamasiko noma zendabuko. Bangakwazi ukuhlola umculo nemikhuba ehlobene namagugu abo futhi bacabange ukuhlanganisa lezo zici emikhosini yabo yomshado.

Ukusebenzisana nomhleli womshado

Uma umbhangqwana uqashe umhleli womshado noma umxhumanisi, bangasebenzisana eduze nabo ukuze baqoqe ugqozi. Abahleli bavamise ukuba nolwazi nolwazi lwezitayela ezahlukene zomculo futhi bangasiza ekukhetheni izinketho ezihambisana nokuthandwa yizithandani.

Buza Abaculi Bomshado

Lapho uxoxa nabaculi abazoshada ngosuku lwabo olukhethekile, umbhangqwana wobulili obufanayo ungabuza imibuzo eminingana ebalulekile ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi wenza isinqumo esinolwazi.

Ukutholakala

  • Ingabe umculi uyatholakala ngosuku lomshado alufunayo?
  • Ingabe umculi uzokwazi ukuhlangabezana nanoma yiziphi izimfuneko zesikhathi esithile angase abe nazo?

Experience

  • Mingaki imishado umculi enze kuyo?
  • Bake benza emishadweni yabantu bobulili obufanayo?
  • Ingabe banganikeza izinkomba noma ubufakazi obuvela kumakhasimende omshado wobulili obufanayo bangaphambili?

I-Repertoire kanye nokwenza ngokwezifiso

  • Yiziphi izinhlobo zomculo abagxile kuzo?
  • Ingabe bangakwazi ukwamukela izicelo ezithile zengoma zomcimbi, umdanso wokuqala, noma ezinye izikhathi ezibalulekile?
  • Ingabe bavulekele ukufunda nokucula izingoma ezintsha ezinokubaluleka komuntu siqu kumbhangqwana?

Isitayela Sokusebenza

  • Isiphi isitayela sokusebenza abasinikezayo (ibhendi ebukhoma, umculi oyedwa, u-DJ, njll.)?
  • Bangaki abaculi abazobe becula?
  • Ingabe bangakunikeza okurekhodiwe okuyisampula noma amavidiyo okusebenza kwabo?

Izisetshenziswa kanye Logistics

  • Yiziphi izidingo zabo zobuchwepheshe, njengesikhala, ukunikezwa kwamandla, nesikhathi sokusetha?
  • Ingabe beza nezinsimbi zabo, isistimu yomsindo nemishini yokukhanyisa?
  • Ingabe bayayazi indawo yomshado noma bazimisele ukuvakashela isayithi ukuze baqinisekise ukusethwa okubushelelezi?

Isikhathi kanye nohlelo

  • Bangakwazi ukwenza isikhathi esingakanani ngesikhathi sokwamukela?
  • Ingabe bazohlinzeka ngomculo wangemuva phakathi nehora le-cocktail noma isidlo sakusihlwa uma kudingeka?
  • Ingabe bazothatha ikhefu elihleliwe ngesikhathi sokusebenza kwabo?

Amanani nezinkontileka

  • Iyini inkokhiso yabo, futhi yini efakwe ephaketheni?
  • Ingabe zikhona izindleko ezengeziwe zokuhamba, isikhathi esengeziwe, noma izicelo zemishini ethile?
  • Ingabe banganikeza inkontileka enemininingwane echaza imigomo nemibandela yamasevisi abo?

Ukuvumelana nezimo nokuguquguquka

  • Ingabe bazosebenza nombhangqwana ukuze bakhe umuzwa ongokwezifiso womculo?
  • Ingabe banganikeza iziphakamiso noma izincomo ngokusekelwe kokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo?
  • Zivumelana kangakanani nezimo ezishintsha umzuzu wokugcina noma izimo ezingalindelekile?

Umshwalense kanye nezinhlelo zokusekela ngokulondoloza

  • Ingabe banawo umshwalense wesibopho sokukhokhela noma yimuphi umonakalo noma izingozi ngesikhathi sokusebenza?
  • Luyini uhlelo lwabo oluyisipele uma begula, belimala, nanoma yiziphi ezinye izimo ezingalindelekile ezingase zibavimbele ukuba badlale ngosuku lomshado?