Umphakathi wakho Womshado we-LGBTQ+

66+ IZINDAWO ZOMSHADO ZOBUNGANE ze-LGBT EDUZE KWAKHO

Buka zonke izindawo zomshado wobulili obufanayo eduze nawe. Khetha indawo yakho ngendawo, ulwazi oludlule kanye nokubuyekezwa kwamakhasimende. Thola izindawo zomshado ezingcono kakhulu zobungqingili endaweni yakini.

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UNGAYIKHETHA KANJANI INDAWO YOMSHADO YE-LGBTQ?

Chaza ukuthi yini oyifunayo

Usuku lwakho olukhethekile lumayelana nawe nomlingani wakho. Qala ngokubhala lokho nobabili enanikuthanda emishadweni yenu yangempela yabangane benu' kanye/noma usaziwayo gay izindawo zomshado ozibonile.

Qala ukusesha ngokubheka izithombe zendawo, upheqa ukubuyekezwa futhi ufunde ngendawo ngayinye. Londoloza noma iyiphi indawo evelele kuwe. Buza omunye abathengisi bomshado ubhekana nakho ukuze uthole imibono ngezindawo zomshado ze-LGBT.

Qonda ongakhetha kukho

Lapho ucabangela izinketho zendawo yomshado zosuku lwakho olukhulu: yiba nesabelomali, endlini uma uqhathanisa nengaphandle, khetha itimu, cabanga ngokuqasha, ukudla kanye nokuthi imaphi amaphakheji endawo atholakalayo.

Umshado wobulili obufanayo usabalele e-United States futhi izindawo eziningi zendabuko zinikeza amaphakheji omshado ezitabane. Kunezindawo ezigxile kakhulu emishadweni yezitabane.

Qala Ingxoxo

Uma usuthole izindawo ezimbalwa ozithandayo, yisikhathi sokuhlela ukuvakasha kwendawo. Ukuvakasha kwezindawo kuyingxenye enkulu yanoma yimuphi umshado ukuhlela inqubo. Bakuvumela ukuthi nibone nobabili indawo futhi nikhulume nomxhumanisi wendawo.

Sebenzisa incwadi yethu yomshado ku EVOL.LGBT ukuze "Cela i-Quote". Lesi sici sikuhambisa ezingxenyeni ezibalulekile zolwazi ukuze uhlele ukuvakasha kwakho kwendawo yomshado. Qhubeka ufunda ngezansi ukuze uthole imibuzo ozoyibuza umxhumanisi wendawo yakho yomshado.

imibuzo ejwayelekile ukubuzwa

Hlola izimpendulo zemibuzo evamile mayelana nokukhetha indawo ekahle yomshado ye-LGBTQ.

NGINGASHO KANJANI UMA INDAWO YOMSHADO IVUMELA IMISHADO YE-LGBT?

Kunezinkomba ezimbalwa zokutshela ukuthi indawo yomshado ivumela imishado ye-LGBT. Hlola ukuthi umthengisi uyaziqhenya yini ngomsebenzi womshado wezitabane. Funda ingxenye yabo ethi “mayelana nathi”. Ingabe bakhuluma ngokuqondile nabashadile bobulili obufanayo noma ingabe ubulili babo bolimi bungathathi hlangothi? Thola ugqozi emishadweni yangempela yobulili obufanayo noma upheqa imihlahlandlela yabathengisi kumasayithi owaziyo ukuthi anomqondo wokulingana.

IZINDAWO ZOMSHADO ZIBIZANI

Izindleko ezijwayelekile zendawo yomshado zingu-$5,000 ngokusekelwe emalini ephansi engu-$3,000 ukuya kwephezulu engu-$12,000 ngenkokhelo yesayithi lendawo, kungafaki ukudla nesiphuzo. Indawo, isidingo, usuku lweviki, ukufakwa, kanye nesikhathi sonyaka konke kuthinta intengo yendawo.

Izindawo eziningi zomshado zinamaphakheji. Buza umxhumanisi wendawo yakho mayelana nezinketho ezitholakalayo namadili. Khumbula ukuthi abanikazi bezindawo abaningi bazimisele ukunciphisa amadili ukuze indawo ihlale imatasa ngesikhathi esinensayo.

YINI ONGAYIBUZA INDAWO YOMSHADO?

Hlola amadethi atholakalayo. Usuku lomshado lungenye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu. Yingakho ukukhetha indawo ngokuvamile kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokuhlela umshado.

Xoxa ngezindleko kusenesikhathi. Thembeka kumlingani wakho kanye nomhleli womshado mayelana nesabelomali sendawo. Uma ibhajethi yakho ingahambisani nalokho okunikezwa ngendawo, asikho isidingo sokubuka indawo.

Ezinye izindawo zizoba nendawo yokunyakazisa, ezinye zizokwazi ukuhlalisa isabelomali esincane. Kodwa iningi lizoba nenani eliqondile kakhulu, elizoba phezulu ngesikhathi sesizini ephezulu.

Khuluma ngomthamo wendawo yomshado. Ingabe kuyahambisana nalokho okuhlelile? Ingabe zikhona izinketho zasendlini noma ngaphandle ukuze zilingane zonke izihambeli zakho? Ingabe banamagumbi amancane uma kwenzeka umshado wakho umncane?

Yiziphi izinhlobo zemikhawulo abanazo? Ngokuvamile izindawo zizimisele ukujabulisa amakhasimende. Kodwa abanye bangase babe nokulinganiselwa ohlelweni lwakho oluthile. Qiniseka ukuthi uxoxa ngalokho emhlanganweni wendawo yakho.

Ukuqasha abathengisi bangaphandle. Izindawo eziningi zomshado ze-LGBTQ ziza nesethi echazwe ngaphambilini yabathengisi bomshado abasebenza nabo. Ezinye izindawo ziyishiya ivuliwe ukuze ikhasimende likwazi ukuza nabathengisi balo.

Imibuzo eminingi oyibuzayo, kuzoba lula ukwenza isinqumo sakho bese ukhetha indawo yakho yomshado yobulili obufanayo.

LIngakanani Ithiphu UMHLANGANISI WENDAWO YOMSHADO?

Ukuthipha umdayisi wakho womshado kukuwe ngokuphelele. Abaxhumanisi bezindawo zomshado bavame ukuthenjiswa u-$250-500, noma u-15-20% wesikweletu sokudla neziphuzo. Ungakhohlwa mayelana nesikhathi, uma kufakwe kwinkontileka, umthethosivivinywa wokugcina ufanelekile ngaphambi komshado. Uma kungenjalo, ekupheleni kwe-reception. Futhi, kunjalo, ungacebisi uma ungenayo isevisi enhle.

KUBE KUBE YINI KUSEKUDILINI UKUBEKELA INDAWO YOMSHADO?

Ngokuvamile, kufanele uhlele ukubhuka indawo yakho yomshado okungenani unyaka kuya ezinyangeni eziyisishiyagalolunye ngaphambi kosuku lwakho lomshado. Lokho kusho ukuthi kufanele uqale ukucwaninga nokuvakasha inyanga eyodwa noma ezimbili ngaphambi kwalokho.

YINI ONGAYIBHEKA ENDWENI YOMSHADO?

Kufanele uqonde umbono wakho womshado ophelele bese uzama ukuthola indawo esebenza kahle ngohlelo lwakho lomshado. Ngakho-ke bheka izinto ezifana nosuku, izindleko, ubukhulu bendawo, indawo yasendlini nengaphandle.

Uzofuna ukwazi ukuthi ingabe indawo iseduze kwanoma yiziphi izinto zokuhamba zomphakathi, noma uma kukhona ikhebhu noma izinsiza zabashayeli endaweni ezizosetshenziswa izivakashi, ungakhohlwa ukuhlola izincomo zale ndawo. Futhi khumbula ukuthi le ndawo kufanele ibe ntofontofo ngempela ukwenza uhlelo lwakho lomshado olufanele lusebenze.