Real Proposal labarin Olivia da Ashley
YADDA MUKA HADU
ASH: Kwanan nan na dawo daga tafiya ta 6 na kasar waje, na karya, ina zaune a wani irin lungu a saman benen abokina, lol. Wata rana, ina ɓuya daga duniya, ina karatu, kuma Olivia ta zo gidan wannan kawarta (tsohuwar budurwarta) ɗakin (inda ta zauna a cikin shekaru biyu da suka wuce), don kunna guitar da rera waƙa. Ta haura matakalar, aka gabatar da mu, kuma innalillahi wa inna ilaihir raji'un, wadannan kyakykyawan idanuwa, wannan haske mai haske, kyawunta mai annuri. Na san na shiga cikin wata matsala!
LIV: Ina ƙoƙarin fitar da sabon yanayin "abokai" tare da babban abokina na farko, wanda ya bayyana cewa kwanan nan ta sami sabon abokin zama (a cikin gidan da muke rabawa) & ta ce ta yi tunanin sabon abokin zama & zan "Kwarai kuwa." (Ba ta san yadda za mu yi zaman lafiya ba, daidai…) Na haɗu da Ash yayin da nake hawan matakala na gidan da na saba rabawa tare da tsohona. Gina cikin bangon wannan matakalar sune waɗannan ƙananan wuraren "nook" & Ash ya kasance "boye daga duniya" tare da gadonta tagwaye & littattafanta a ɗayansu. Mun kulle idanu, kuma kamar yadda Ash ya fada, mun san cewa za a sami matsala… 😉
YADDA SUKA TAMBAYA
ASH: Ha, iya. A cikin shekararmu ta farko tare, Liv ta san cewa tana cikin wannan har abada. Ta sayo a zobe daga wata irin inna a rayuwata tace ko zan aureta. Nace mata eh, amma ni SO ban shirya ba, bari in tambaye ki wata rana idan NI. Bayan shekaru 4, na kasance! Na shirya mana rana mai ban sha'awa a cikin Marin, tare da yanayi da wasu wurare masu ban sha'awa daga Atlas Obscura, wanda ya ƙare tare da Tarot na soyayya wanda aka yada tare da furen fure, kyandir, da zobe a tsakiya. A ɗan ƙarin mahallin ko da yake, kuma zan yi ƙoƙari in taƙaita shi. Shekarar da ta wuce wannan shawara ta biyu, mun rabu tsawon watanni 6-8. Na yi fama da matsalar shan giya, (cutar yara ta riske ni), kuma na saka Liv cikin ɗan wuta. Abin ban mamaki, rabuwar ta zo da zarar na himmatu ga hankali, don haka a cikin ɓacin rai na, na tashi zuwa SE Asia don zama wani wuri na Buddha kuma na zurfafa hanyar farfadowa ta hanyar tunani da tafiye-tafiye na solo.
Na ƙare a Nepal, kuma kwana ɗaya bayan isowata, na yi wata mummunar girgizar ƙasa. Wannan wani labari ne a cikin kansa, amma tabbas, na dawo gida wata mai zuwa bayan na karya tsawon watanni 9 na hankali, bayan barina kafin in ji zan yi isasshiyar sabis a bayan haka, tare da taɓa PTSD. Alhamdu lillahi, ni da Liv mun sake haɗuwa (a wurin wani biki, inda ba mu san ɗayan ba har sai da muka yi karo da juna), kuma muka sake kulla dangantakarmu cikin watanni biyu. Don haka, har zuwa lokacin neman shawarata, zuciyata na cikinsa, amma har yanzu ina da kyan ruɗani kuma na sami matsala haɗi da rayuwata.
Mun zauna tare, amma mun sami wasu lokuta masu ban tsoro. Nuna gaba zuwa 2018. Na dawo Nepal don cika shekaru uku na girgizar ƙasa, kuma na sami rufewar da nake buƙata. Yayin da nake sake sakewa na 'yan makonni, duk abin da zan iya tunani a kai shine ƙaunata kuma ina so in ba da cikakkiyar cikakkiyar rayuwarmu tare, 6nally. Ta haɗu da ni, kuma a bas ɗinmu na gaba ya bi ta Nepal da Indiya, mun yi magana game da 6nally yin hakan. Kwanakin mu na ƙarshe a can, mun sami tattoos da zoben lu'u-lu'u waɗanda suka dace da juna (ba ma shirin cewa), kuma suka koma gida, son juna, stoked, da 6nally shirya mu mafarki bikin aure! <3
LIV: Na san ina son ta tun farko. Shekaru 6, tattaunawa da yawa na, & 3 kusan shawarwari daga baya, budurwata skiddish-game da-aure yanzu-aure ta ba ni mamaki a kan isowata Kathmandu (don saduwa da ita don ɗan tafiya) tare da kyakkyawar sha'awar barin wannan tafiya ta musamman tare da zobe a kan. yatsunmu & yanke shawara mai ma'ana. Wannan tafiya ta kai mu ta Nepal & yawancin Arewacin Indiya, kuma a cikin wannan watan (kusan) mun yi magana da yawa game da abin da muke yi a rayuwarmu, a cikin dangantakarmu, da kuma inda muke so mu je / abin da muke so mu yi na gaba.
A lokacinmu a Taj Mahal, wata kyakkyawar safiya da fitowar rana - A zahiri na saita iPhone dina a ƙasa, na saita mai ƙidayar lokaci zuwa 10 seconds, gudu zuwa Ash & da gangan kama abin da zai iya kasancewa ɗayan mafi fi so. hotuna tare (ko da yaushe) kuma cikin sauri ya zama hoton da muka yi amfani da shi don sanar da haɗin gwiwarmu da zarar mun dawo gida Amurka. A ƙarshen tafiyarmu, komawa inda muka fara, a Kathmandu, Ash ya sami kantin sayar da lu'u-lu'u DAYA (a cikin ƙasa?!) Kuma mun tafi tare da zobba masu ban mamaki, na musamman, cikakke-ga-mu, wasu sau ɗaya-in-a. -Abubuwan tunawa na rayuwa, & labarin haɗin gwiwa wanda ya wuce shekaru + har ma a duk faɗin duniya!
Yada Soyayya! Taimakawa al'ummar LGTBQ+!
Ku yada wannan labarin na soyayya a kafafen sada zumunta
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