NEIL HARRIS DA DAVID BURTKA: SHEKARU 17 MAI FARIN CIKI TARE
Me yasa wawaye suke soyayya? Har yanzu ba a san amsar ba a wannan Ranar Wawa ta Afrilu, amma mun san dalilin da yasa Neil Patrick Harris da David Burtka ke son juna.
Ma'auratan sun yi amfani da shafin Instagram don girmama juna a ranar tunawa da kwanan su na farko shekaru 17 da suka wuce. Kuma daga rubuce-rubucensu masu dadi, da alama soyayyarsu ba komai bane illa wauta.
"Barka da ranar tunawa, David," Harris ya rubuta a cikin taken. "Kai ne babban fifiko na, daɗaɗɗa na akai-akai, daddy na, kuma babban abokina."
A cikin hoton, mun ga ma'aurata masu farin ciki suna kallon kamara a kan jirgin ruwa, kyakkyawar rana ta faɗuwa a baya. Jarumin mai shekaru 47 ya ci gaba da cewa: “Shin za ku yi soyayya da ku shekaru goma sha bakwai da suka wuce? Mafi kyau. Yanke shawara. Har abada.
"Na gode da soyayya, da dariya, da rayuwa. Kai ne Mafi kyau. @dbelicious."
Burtka ya kuma wallafa a shafukan sada zumunta a ranar Alhamis domin karrama mijin nasa da ya aura a shekarar 2014.
"@nph mun fara soyayya shekaru 17 da suka wuce yau!" marubucin littafin dafa abinci mai shekaru 45 ya fara takensa, wanda aka haɗa tare da hoton mutanen biyu suna rungumar soyayya daga mujallar Out. "WOW - mafi kyawun shekaru 17 tukuna! Ka ba ni rayuwar da na yi mafarki da ita.”
Burtka ya ci gaba da taken nasa ta hanyar jera abubuwa da dama da yake so game da Harris, wanda suke da tagwaye masu shekaru 10, Harper Grace da Gideon Scott.
“A koyaushe ina mamakin basirar ku ta tarbiyyar yara, yadda kuke aiki tuƙuru don ciyar da iyalinmu, yadda muke dariya, da cewa ba mu rasa ‘shi’ a sashen soyayya ba kuma mafi mahimmanci har yanzu muna cikin hauka cikin soyayya. ” Ya ci gaba da cewa. “Ku yi hakuri ba za mu iya zama tare a yau ba. Ba zan iya jira don yin bikin lokacin da kuke gida ba. Ina son ku da dukan zuciyata.”
Ya kara da maudu'in #17 da kirgawa, #soyayya, #soyayyar zamani da #soyayyar soyayya.
Harris da Burtka sun bayyana soyayyarsu a cikin fitowar mujallar Out na 2012.
"Akwai wani abu na motsin rai game da shi da kasancewarsa," Harris ya ce game da Burtka, wanda ya hadu da shi ta hanyar abokinsa. "Yana da son jima'i, amma duk da haka yaro ne a cikin kuzarinsa. Yana da babban kuzari. Lokacin da na ga mutanen da suke da kyau daidai, sun kasance suna zama kamar Marlboro Man-y, kuma David antithesis na wannan. Ya fi kamar Tigger.
"Ni, bi da bi, mai zurfin tunani ne - mai tunani, maimakon mai aikatawa. Nakan auna zaɓuka kafin yanke shawara, kuma David shine kishiyar hakan. Muna da kamanceceniya kuma muna da sabani sosai. Muna raba tufafi. Muna da girman takalma iri ɗaya, girman jiki, tsayi, da nauyi. Mu duka Gemini ne. Mu duka muna son ra'ayin iyali - ba dangin nukiliya ba, amma dangin zamantakewa. Duk da haka, muna da bambanci sosai a yadda muke sarrafa bayanai."
Burtka ya kuma bayyana abubuwan tunawa da haduwarsu ta farko tare, inda ya ce muhimmin batu ya fito ne a kwanan wata mai lamba 1 kuma ya daidaita dangantakarsu har abada.
"Ko da a ranar farko, mun yi magana game da yara," in ji shi. “Idan da ba ya son yara, ba na jin da za mu kasance tare. A koyaushe ina tunanin cewa iyali ita ce abu mafi muhimmanci a rayuwa, kuma ko mene ne na yi, ko zama mai dafa abinci ko ɗan wasan kwaikwayo ko kuma ɗan rawa, kasancewar mahaifina shi ne abin da na fi yi.”
"Ba na son mutane su yi tunanin mu cikakkiyar ma'aurata ne," in ji Burtka daga baya. "Babu wani abu da yake cikakke. Alakar aiki ce kuma tana canzawa. Kuma ku tafi tare da canje-canje. Lokaci ya fi kyau fiye da lokacin mara kyau, amma ba koyaushe yana da kyau ba. Dole ne ku shawo kan waɗannan batutuwa kuma ku ci gaba. Muna da ainihin girke-girke mai kyau don kyakkyawar dangantaka, amma ba ma so mu zama ƴan mata na poster don dangantakar gay. Ba muna ƙoƙarin yin kamar cewa mu cikakke ne. Muna ƙoƙari kawai - ta hanya mai kyau, tabbatacce, ƙauna - don rayuwarmu. "
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