Wasu shawarwari: yadda za a jimre da husuma?
Babu ma'aurata ba tare da jayayya ba. Rashin jituwa a cikin dangantaka ba shi da kyau, amma al'ada. Duk da haka, yana da mahimmanci, yadda muke yin wannan!
1. To, menene yake faruwa sa’ad da muke jayayya?
A wannan lokacin, kuna nisantar juna. Kuna jin kamar baƙi, kodayake minti daya da suka wuce abokin tarayya ya kasance mafi ƙaunataccen mutum kuma na kusa da ku. Amma da gaske haka ne?
A cikin hoto: @sarah.and.kokebnesh
2. Kuna tunanin cewa wanda kake ƙauna yana so ya cutar da ku.
Amma ka tuna abu ɗaya - babu wanda yake so ya zage ka. Kuma ku tuna cewa maganganunku na iya cutar da abokin tarayya, don haka ku kula da abin da kuke fada.
A cikin hoto: @sarah.and.kokebnesh
3. Menene yake da muhimmanci a irin wannan rikitattun tattaunawa?
- Ka kasance mai gaskiya kuma ka faɗi gaskiya game da damuwarka.
- Kada ka zargi abokin tarayya. Kar a ce, “Kai ne, a’a KAI, a’a KAI ne!”. Zai fi kyau a faɗi, yadda kuke ji lokacin da abokin tarayya ya aikata wannan ko ta wannan hanyar. Kuma wataƙila abokin tarayya zai gaya muku cewa kalmominsa da ayyukansa suna da ma'ana kwata-kwata da abin da kuke tunani.
- Ku saurara, kada ku yi fushi kuma kada ku katse.
A cikin hoto: @sarah.and.kokebnesh
Yi wa abokin tarayya ƙauna, girmamawa da fahimta. Kuma idan kwakwalwarka ta gaya maka, "Duba yana da ban tsoro!", kawai kokarin dakatar da shi, kuma ci gaba da sauraron abokin tarayya ba tare da yanke hukunci ba.
Kada ku damu - kowannenku zai sami lokacin bayyana ra'ayin ku. Juya baya yayin magana da tattaunawa akan batun juna.
Yada Soyayya! Taimakawa al'ummar LGTBQ+!
Raba wannan labarin a kafofin sada zumunta
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