DESTINATION WEDDING RULES YAUNODA KUZIVA
Pasinei nokuti uri kuroora here kana kuti kwete, kunzwisisa tsika yemuchato inogona kuva chinhu chinonyengera. Ndiani anobhadhara chii? Vaenzi vangani vaunofanira kukoka? Mibvunzo yehutsika dzimwe nguva haiperi, uye kana ukawedzera nzvimbo iri kure ine tsika nemagariro akasiyana, mitemo inogona kuchinja zvachose. Asi tsika yekuchata yekuenda haifanirwe kunge ichivhiringa - zvese zvinotora zvishoma zvekuwedzera tsvagiridzo uye kuronga usati waenda kundege zuva guru.
Funga kuti ndiani anobhadhara chii
“Chekutanga, vakaroorana vanofanira kuyeuka vaenzi vavo maererano nemari. Kunze kwekunge vaenzi vavo vese vakapfuma (izvo zvisingawanzo kudaro), haudi kusarudza a nzvimbo kunodhura kusvika uye kunodhura kugarako,” anodaro Jamie Chang, mumwe muchato uri kuenda Planner uye mugadziri kuLos Altos. "Haisi tsika yekuchata kwakashata kukumbira vaenzi kuti vatore zviuru zvemadhora kuti vauye kumuchato wavo."
Chengeta mazita evaenzi ari pfupi
Iko hakuna kwakaoma uye nekukurumidza kwekuenda kumuchato etiquette mitemo kana zvasvika pakugadzira yako yevaenzi runyorwa. Asi kune michato yakawanda yekuenda, zviri nani kufunga zvishoma. Koka vanhu vaunoda uye vaunoda muhupenyu hwako. Chang anokarakadza kubvunza mubvunzo unotevera: “Kana muchato wenyu wakaitika nezuro uye ukasakoka munhu uyu, ungasuruvara here? Rondedzero yako yevaenzi inofanirwa kuve nevanhu vanopindura kumubvunzo uyu kuti 'hongu,' ” anodaro Chang.
Ipa vaenzi nguva yakakwana yekuronga
Tumira makadhi ako ekuchengetedza-the-date anenge mwedzi misere kusvika ku10 musati waroorana, uye tumira mapepa ekukoka mwedzi mitatu isati yasvika, uchipa vaenzi nguva yakawanda yeRSVP.
Ita kuti vaenzi vako vanzwe kugamuchirwa
Gamuchira vaenzi vako kubva pakuenda. Pamwe itai mabiko pazuva rokusvika. mabhegi ekugamuchira akazadzwa nesunscreen, flip flops kana zvimwe zvinopisa-mamiriro ekunze zvakakosha kubata kwakanaka futi. "Itai kuti zvive nyore kwavari kuti vanakidzwe," anodaro Sabrina Cadini, muvambi uye mutungamiriri wekugadzira weSan Diego-based La Dolce Idea, kambani inopa mabasa ekuronga muchato. “Vape rairo chaiyo nezverwendo rwekufamba, mamiriro ekunze, mazano ekupfeka, uye vachengete vachiziva uye vabatanidzwe mukati mevhiki remuchato.”
Kana iwe uchida wega nguva mushure memhemberero
“Chaizvoizvo hapana nzira yokutaura nayo izvi,” anodaro Chang. "Nzira yakanakisa yekupfuudza iyi pfungwa ndeyekugadzira chipingamupinyi chemuviri." Kana iwe uchida nguva pamwe chete semurume nemukadzi mushure mekutambira, Chang anokurudzira kugara kumwe kwakavanzika. Vhura muimba yako yehotera. Isa chiratidzo chekuti "usavhiringidze". Bhuka sutu yemuchato mune imwe hotera yakaparadzana. Vaenzi vako vachawana meseji.
Dzidza tsika nemagariro zvomunzvimbomo
“Musabatanidze tsika dzechivanhu kana kuti zvimwe zvinhu zvinogona kugumbura tsika dzemunyika yaunoroora,” anodaro Cadini.
Semuenzaniso, kunyorera yako Vatengesi kune dzimwe nyika zvinogona kugumbura. Shamwari yaCadini yakaroora murume wechiJapan munyika yake, uye akakoka shamwari dzake dzeAmerica kumuchato. “Panguva yomuchato, vaenzi vakanyepa vaitengesa mubhawa sechiratidzo chokuonga basa rakanga raitwa zvakanaka. Zvakazoitika, kupa zano muJapan kunoonekwa sekutuka. Vaenzi vake zviri pachena kuti vaisazviziva, asi vepabhawa vakagumbuka ndokunomhan’ara nemukuru wemabiko uyo akazoenda kunomhan’ara nevaroora,” anodaro Cadini.
Kuti udzivise kusawirirana kwetsika uye kuchengetedza tsika dzakanaka dzekuchata, Cadini anokurudzira kubvunza murongi wemuchato wepanzvimbo yako nezve tsika kana tsika dzekwaunogara. Kana iwe ukaona kuti kupenengura kunoonekwa sekusina hunhu, pfuudza iyo ruzivo kune vaenzi vako.
Ipa vaenzi vako ruzivo rwakakosha
Kune akawanda marogisiti uye ruzivo rwakabatanidzwa nekuenda kumuchato wekuenda, saka iva nechokwadi chekupa vaenzi vako ruzivo rwakawanda kusvika pachine nguva sezvinobvira. Wako webhusaiti yemuchato ndiyo nzvimbo yakanaka yekugovera ruzivo rwese rwakakosha-kubva parudungwe rwekupera kwevhiki kusvika kune ruzivo rwekufambisa, ruzivo rwekukurumidzira, nezvimwe zvakawanda.
Ipa mikana yekusangana
Kana mumwe wevaenzi vako asingazivi vamwe pamuchato, funga kumurega auye nekuwedzera imwe. Sezvo michato yakawanda yekwaunoenda ichigona kuita svondo rese, ipa vaenzi vako mukana wekushamwaridzana nepati yekugamuchira uye zvimwe zviitiko zvakarongeka, sekuona nzvimbo, mitambo, rwendo rwechikepe, kana kumwe kushanya.
“Unoda kuva nechokwadi chokuti munhu wose ane nguva yakanaka uye ane mumwe munhu wokutandara naye,” anodaro Chang.
Kune Vaenzi
Usakoke vamwe pasina mvumo
Zvinotyisa kuenda kumuchato etiquette yekuuya neshamwari kana iwe usina kukokwa nekuwedzera-imwe. Kana iwe uchange uchibhururuka wega panguva yemuchato, iwe unofanirwa kubvuma kuti iwe uchange uri wega nguva yose. Hazvina kunaka kuti iwe ukoke shamwari yako kana zvimwe zvakakosha iwe pachako-kuwedzera kune mari yose yevakaroorana.
Usanzwa kuda kushandisa mari zvakanyanya pane chipo
Sezvo iwe ungangodaro wakashandisa yakanaka chunk yekuchinja kuenda kumuchato, unogona kutenga imwe ine mwero mutengo chipo kune vaviri. Asi zviri kwauri zvachose. Enda kumusoro pane registry kana kuenda pasi. Sezvo kukweva zvipo mundege kuchirwadza, ita kuti chipo chako chitumirwe kuvaroorani vasati varoorana.
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