KUCHINJWA KWAZVAKAITIKA MUMAKORE 8 APERA: MADZIDZO EKURONGWA KWEMUCHATO
Makore masere apfuura, Dare Repamusorosoro reUnited States (SCOTUS) rakasarudza kuti mugari wemuNew York Edie Windsor wekuroora kunze kwenyika (akaroora Thea Spyer muCanada muna 2007) aizozivikanwa muNew York, uko. kuroorwa-pabonde yakazivikanwa zviri pamutemo kubva 2011.
Sarudzo iyi inokosha yakabva yavhura musuwo kune vakawanda vakaroorana vane ngochani vaishuvira kucherechedzwa zviri pamutemo kudyidzana asi vakatadza kuzviita mumatunhu ekumusha kwavo, uye pakupedzisira yakagadzira nzira yekuenda kuSCOTUS 'Obergefell sarudzo muna 2015, iyo yakagamuchira kuenzana kwewanano munyika yose. Iwo machinjiro emutemo, kunyange achitora nzvimbo mumatare edzimhosva, zvakazoita zvakakosha pamusika wemuchato uye sarudzo dzevakaroorana LGBTQ.
Nguva inofamba
Gore ra2013 risati rasvika, michato yeLGBTQ yaive midiki, yaive nevaroora vakura nevaroora, vaive netsika pane yechinyakare mukugadzira, uye vakaroorana pachavo vaiwanzobhadhara mhemberero nemhemberero. Mushure megore ra2005, apo Massachusetts yakanyoresa muchato uye vamwe vakatevera, vamwe vakaroorana vakanga vachironga zvinyorwa zvepamutemo kuti vaende kumatunhu echitupa chewanano, asi vazhinji vakanga vachisarudza kuva nemitambo isingabvumirwi nemutemo uye zvimwe kugoverana zvisungo zvavo pachena.
Kunyangwe ini ndine faira rakazara neanodzidzisa anecdotes uye yakasarudzika data snapshots kutsanangura zvaiitika mumusika kumashure kwezuva, yaive 2013 iyo yakapa shanduko yedata rakakwana kutsanangura kuti musika wemuchato wengochani wanga uchichinja sei. kuzivikanwa zviri pamutemo. Zvakaguma nei? Nekupararira kwekuzivikanwa kwewanano, takakwanisa kuona munguva chaiyo kuti michato yeLGBTQ yakanga yatanga sei kupinda mumusika "wakawanda" uye, ukuwo, michato isiri-LGBTQ yakanga yatanga sei kutora LGBTQ hunyanzvi kazhinji, kusanganisira maitiro akaita se'pop. kumusoro' kana michato midiki, mapato emuchato akasanganiswa, mavara akasiyana mumapati emuchato, vanhuwo zvavo sevakuru, nezvimwe.
Shanduko Hombe shanu dzeVarume Vakaroorana
#1 Vabereki vari kusimuka. Uye mukati?
Kupfuura nakare kose, varume vakaroorana vari kuwana rubatsiro rwekubhadhara michato yavo. Makore mashanu apfuura, ruzhinji rwakasimba rwevakaroorana (79% muna 2013) vakashuma kubhadhara kune vose kana vazhinji vemuchato ivo pachavo, zvichienzaniswa ne2017 apo nhamba iyoyo yakaderera zvakanyanya kusvika ku59% yevakaroorana. Iyi shanduko inotitaurira kuti vabereki vakawanda (uye mhuri huru) vari kutora chikamu mukutsigira vana vavo. LGBTQ michato, uye, semugumisiro, mari yose yemuchato iri kuwedzera zvakanyanya Vatengesi vanohaiwa, vashanyi vakawanda vanokokwa, uye sezvo LGBTQ vakaroorana vabva kure nekuita uye kazhinji nekukasira kurongerwa zviri pamutemo kuenda kune imwe yakajairika kubatikana uye kuronga muchato.
Izvi zvinoreva zvakare kuti kudoma mugadziri wesarudzo muhurongwa hwekubhukha kunogona kunge kuri kushanduka zvino nekuti vabereki vevakaroora vangave nekudyara kwemari mumuchato uye, nekudaro, tarisiro pakuita sarudzo.
#2 Kukura kwevaenzi
Kukura kwevaenzi pamichato yengochani nengochani imhedzisiro yakananga yevachata vazhinji vanobuda, vakaroorana vazhinji vari kusarudza kuroora, uye vaviri vakaroorana vanonzwa vakasununguka kupembera nedenderedzwa rakakura remhuri, shamwari, uye vashandi pamwe navo. Ibasa zvakare rekukwanisa kuroora zviri pamutemo mumusha memunhu uye kuwana mukana wekuronga zvinoenderana. Muchokwadi, Ongororo ye2015 yeVaviri Vakaroorana yakaratidza kuti 79% yevarume vakaroorana vaive kuronga mhemberero yemuchato uye mabiko, ingangoita zvakapetwa kaviri mhedzisiro (43%) yevakaroora vakaongororwa kare (Same-Sex Couples: Weddings & Engagements, 2013).
- Gore ra2013 risati rasvika, saizi yeavhareji yevaenzi yaive makumi matanhatu neshanu
- Muna 2014, avhareji saizi yaive 80
- Muna 2015 uye 2016: 100
- Muna 2017: 107 (iyo ichiri kusara kumashure kwevasiri LGBTQ vakaroorana avhareji yevaenzi saizi ye127)
Muchidimbu, kuita zvese mabiko uye mabiko chiitiko chitsva kune ruzhinji rwevanhukadzi varume nevakadzi uye chinoratidza shanduko huru ine hurongwa hwakajeka uye zvinorehwa nebhajeti uye zvakakonzera zvakananga kukura kwehukuru hweavhareji yevaenzi.
#3 Saizi yepati yemuchato
Sezvo michato yevangochani yakakura muhukuru, saka, zvakare, ine vanotsigira vanokanda. Muna 2013, 63% yevarume vakaroorana vakashuma kuti vakanga vaine chero vanhu kubva pa0 kusvika kune vatatu mupati yavo yemuchato. Hongu, urikunzwa izvozvo nemazvo. Makore mashanu apfuura, varume vakaroorana vaiva nevanhu vatatu kana kuti vashoma vakamira navo sezvapupu. Nhasi, avhareji yemabiko emuchato saizi yevarume vakaroorana i3, zvichienzaniswa ne3 kune vakaroorana.
Zvikamu zvinofamba zvakawanda, vaenzi vakawanda uye mapati makuru emuchato chingori chimwe chiratidzo chekuti varume nevakadzi vari kutevedzera mirau yekuronga michato yechinyakare zvichienzaniswa nemhemberero dzakasarudzika, dzakakura zvine mwero kubva makore apfuura.
#4 Blended Wedding Party
Panogona kunge pasina muenzaniso uri nani wetsika yemuchato kupfuura yemuchato kuitira kuratidza kwete chete mutsauko mukudisa kwevakomana vakaroorana kusiya tsika, asiwo muenzaniso unoshamisa wekuti michato yengochani yakakanganisa sei michato yakatwasuka.
Mune yedu 2016 Trends uye Tsika Chirevo, gumi nemana chete muzana e LGBTQ vakaroora vakashuma kupatsanura mapati emuchato wavo zvichienderana nemurume. Kureva, vakomana kune rimwe divi uye gals kune rimwe. Vakaroorana vane mitezo imwe chete vanogara vachida kusanganisa mapati avo emuchato, vachikumbira vatsigiri vavo vepedyo kuti vamire navo, zvisinei kuti murume kana mukadzi uye kazhinji mune chero zvipfeko zvavanosarudza (semuenzaniso vakadzi vakapfeka bhurugwa uye Nguo kuenderana). Chinonyanya kushamisa kunzwisisa kuti chiono chakadzokororwa ichi chepati yemuchato chevanhurume vakaroorana chave nekupesvedzera sei zvikuru sarudzo dzevakomana nevasikana munguva pfupi. Makumi manomwe nemana (74%) evakaroora vakatwasanuka vakapatsanura mapato avo emuchato nehukadzi muna 2015, asi tsono yakatamira ku69% muna 2016 uye, nguva pfupi yadarika, yakaderera kusvika makumi matanhatu muzana muna 60.
'Chinonyanya kushamisa kunzwisisa kuti chiono chakadzokororwa ichi chepati yemuchato chevanhukadzi vakaroorana chave nekupesvedzera zvikuru sei kusarudzwa kwevakomana nevasikana munguva pfupi.'
Sezvo varume nevakadzi vakaroorana vachipinzwa mumusika mukuru, zviri pachena kuti kwave negwara renzira mbiri rekupesvedzera, iro rakakwidziridzwa nevaroora veMireniyamu, vanosarudza tsika nekuita sarudzo dzekuronga dzakagadziridzwa zvakanyanya kune zvavanoda.
#5 Zera revaviri
Muna 2014, Jennifer Senior, uyo aiva munyori weNew York Magazine, akacherechedza kuti chikamu chimwe muzvitatu chevakaroorana veLGBTQ vachangobva kuchata vaiva nemakore anopfuura makumi mashanu. ine smidge yekusiyana kwezera pakati pezvikomba zvengochani nevaroora vengochani). Muna 50, zera rakaderera kusvika ku2015. Nhasi, LGBTQ vakaroorana vachiri skew zvishoma vakura kupfuura vasiri LGBTQ vakaroorana (avhareji zera kune vakaroorana heterosexual muna 2016 aiva 35), asi kupera kwepakati hakuratidzi chete kuti vakaroorana vakasiyana-siyana vari kuwana sei. vakaroora makore mashoma gare gare muhupenyu, asiwo kuti varume nevarume vaviri vari kuita vadiki sei.
Uyu ungori mumwe muenzaniso wekuti kupfimbana uye kuronga muchato kwevaviri vakaroorana kuri kuita sei kuti vaenderane neyakajairwa hukama hwevakaroorana: kutanga kufambidzana, (pamwe kugarisana), kuroorana, uye kuroorana. Nekugamuchirwa kwakawanda kwakavhurika kwe LGBTQ vanhu uye vakaroora, hunhu hwemunhu hwepabonde hauchisiri chinhu mukufarira kwemunhu uye kuwana muchato uye muchato wekuronga masevhisi.
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