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vakadzi vaviri vachitsvodana mugondola

Proposal Nyaya yaAshlee naCrystal

Kuti takasangana sei

Ashlee: Takatanga kuziviswa nevabereki vedu kuchechi kare muna 2002. Takabva tangobaya nekuda kwekuda basketball. Crystal aizodzidzira neni kwemaawa akawanda, achienda kumitambo yangu yose, handifungi kuti akapotsa mumwe! Takanga tisingaparadzanisiki seshamwari uye ndaimuda zvikuru… kupfuura kungoita shamwari yangu.

mufananidzo wekare wevakadzi vaviri nemhuri

Mushure menguva dzakawanda dzekubvunzwa kuti "Crystal ingochani here?" uye ini ndichiudza Amai vangu kuti “aiwa,” Kwaisava kunyadziswa kuti ndakaramba chokwadi chokuti kwete Crystal chete akanga ari ngochani, asi neniwo ndaimuda uye ndaimuda zvikuru. Ndingave ndaiva muduku, zvisinei ndaiziva zvikuru kuti ndakanga ndisingadi kuva kure naCrystal, asi kana zvokwadi yaizobuda yaizova chokwadi chedu. Pashure pokunge ndadzoka kumba ndichibva kuchikoro mamwe masikati, ndakasangana naAmai vangu ndokuudzwa kuti ndaisafanira kutaura naCrystal zvakare. Ndakarwadziwa moyo, chokwadi rudo rwangu naCrystal rwaisazopera nekuti mhamha vakandiudza kudaro. Crystal akadzokera kuLos Angeles, ndakabvumirwa kumubatsira kurongedza zuva raakanga achienda, asi zvakatowedzera kundipwanya. Ndakanga ndisiri zvakanaka kuti aende, ndaiziva kuti ndaizomuchengeta zvachose. 💔

Nekukurumidza kumberi makore mashoma uye ndiri kugara muSouthern California uye ndakasvika kwaari. Tose tiri vaviri muhukama hutsva, tinoungana pakudya kwemasikati. Pasina nguva refu auya ku salon yangu ogadzira vhudzi rake uye zvinoita sekunge isu tese zvakare kubva makore matatu kana mana apfuura. Mafeelings angu paari aive achiri akasimba, achiri chaiwo uye ndakaona kuti ndakanga ndichiri kumuda. Zvakare ndakafunga, isu tose tinoparadzana nzira tisingatauri zvakare kwenguva yakati.

Ndakagara muwanano yandakanga ndiri kweanoda kusvika makore gumi, Crystal akapfuurira kuhumwe ukama hwakareba mumakore akapfuura. Muna 2015 ndakanga ndiri pa nzvimbo muupenyu hwangu ndakaona kuti zvakanga zvakanaka kuwana mufaro wangu. Kuti kuedza “kufadza Mwari nemhuri yangu” nokusarambana kwakanga kusina kunaka kwandiri kana kuvana vangu. Ndiine vana vatatu vakanaka, ndaiziva kuti ndaida kuva Amai vakanaka uye muenzaniso wezvakaita rudo, ndiine kana kuti ndisina mumwe munhu wandaida kuvapo mune zvakawanda zvakadaro. Mwari anoda kuti vana vake vafare uye kwete mumusha wakaputsika - Amai Vangu vevanhu vose vakandiudza kuti mushure memakore ose aya ndaitya kutongwa kubva kumhuri uye kuchechi. 

Zvakaita sokuti pakarepo ndakaziva kuti ndaida kumbosvika kuna Crystal, ndione paaive muupenyu. Nokuti zvose ndaiziva takanga tisina kutaura mumakore, pamwe akanga akaroorwa nevana, uye kufara?! Asi chero ndaiziva kuti ndaimuda muupenyu hwangu, nyangwe dai aingovewo neni seshamwari, handaizomurega achitsvedza zvakare.

Ndakasvika kwaari pa Instagram nechikumbiro cheshamwari. Chakandishamisa akabva angobvuma. Takacommenter pane zvakatumirwa mumwe nemumwe, takakurumidza kupanana nhamba dzenhare, tichipedza maawa akawanda pafoni, dzimwe nguva kusvika zuva rabuda. Isu tese taive munzvimbo itsva muhupenyu, tichangobva kuroora mushure mekugara nevanhu vasina kunaka kwemakore akawanda. Zvino kuva munzvimbo yakakwana, vakadzi vakasimba kupfuura nakare kose uye nekufadzwa neizvo ramangwana redu ringave.


vakadzi vaviri

Ndakaenda kunomushanyira 10-30-2015 uye handina kupatsanurwa kubva ipapo. Isu takapfuura zvakawanda pamwe chete kubva ipapo, kufa kwevanomwe mukati memwedzi gumi neimwe pakati pemhuri dzedu mbiri, kutengesa imba, kutamira kunze kwenyika, kugara muRV uye kufamba kwemwedzi gumi nemasere, shanduko yebasa, kutenga imba pamwe chete nekurera. vana vedu vatatu vakanaka Ocean (7), Citlali (11) naZyelee (18).

 

Tese takanga tataura kutya kwedu pamuchato papepa uye kuti zvingaite sei, asi zvakadaro takava nehupenyu hwese uye nerudo rwekuzvipira kune mumwe nemumwe. Handina kutongoziva kana Crystal aizondikumbira kuti Ndiroore naye, asi nguva dzose chakanga chiri chishuvo chomwoyo wangu kugoverana ikoku naye, kutakura zita rake rokupedzisira, kuziva kuti nokuda kwoupenyu hwose aizondisarudza zvomenemene.

Vakabvunza sei

Ashlee: Maiva muna Ndira 8, 2021 apo zviroto zvangu zvakazadzika. Crystal akanga akumbira mavhiki mashoma akanga apfuura kuti ndiwane zuva racho kuti tigogona kupemberera zuva rangu rokuzvarwa nokukurumidza vana vedu vasati vadzokera kuchikoro. Anga achindiudza kuti iye nevana vedu vaida kuita pikiniki kumahombekombe uye vakazondishamisa mushure. Saka tinotanga kugadzirira, uye mangwanani anonetsa mushure mekunge vana vedu vamuka vakaneta uye vakagumbuka izvo zvakandisiya ndichinetsekana, pamusoro pazvo simba redu rinopera kune yakarongwa kubuda isu takakanganwa zvachose kuti zvaiitika mangwanani iwayo. Naizvozvo tichipengereka, tinopedza kuunganidza zvinhu zvedu kuti tinange kumba kwemhuri yaCrystal kundogadzirira ikoko. A little behind schedule tinonanga ku beach.

Takava nezvokudya zvemasikati zvinonaka pane imwe resitorendi kwete pamhenderekedzo yegungwa, saka taigona kusvika kune imwe nzvimbo yedu yatakazorodzera. Vakaunza zvipo zvangu zvebhavhadhe patafura kuti ndivhure pakudya kwemasikati, saka ndainyatsonzwa kufara kwezuva rekuzvarwa.

Tichifara nezvese zvavakanga varonga zvinotevera, takasvika paGondola Adventures nokuda kweiyi Birthday Celebration inoshamisa. Gondola rakanga rakazara nemaruva emaruva, rozi rakanga rakaputirwa uye rakandimirira pachigaro changu, pakanga pane magirazi akatonhorwa mashanu, gondolier yedu yakatora nguva kuwana mimwe mifananidzo yedu tose! Mwoyo wangu wakanga watozara uye wakafara zvikuru kuti ndozvavaida kupemberera Birthday rangu! 

vakadzi vaviri vachitsvodana mugondola

Mutyairi wedu wegondolier anoshamisa, Kalev, akataura kuti paive nemimwe mitemo patinenge tiri mugondola, kukwazisa vese vanopfuura ne "Buonasera" (manheru akanaka muchiItalian) kwaidiwa, uye kutsvoda kunosungirwa pasi pebhiriji rega rega ratinopinda. Sezvatakasvika pazambuko rokutanga, Crystal akandiudza kuti aida gondola rokuunza vabereki vangu kuno nesu. Baba vangu vaibva kuNaples, Italy uye vakabva kwatiri nokukurumidza pashure pokunge varwara nekenza, ndakanga ndava kutochema. Ndichitenda kuti aizofunga izvozvo, ndiri munyanza naye nevana vedu vatatu, chokwadi ndakashamiswa norunako panguva iyi.

 

Patakatsvodana tichienda pasi pebhiriji, Kalev akatanga kutiimbira nechiItalian - tose takachema misodzi yemufaro, yerudo, yerunyararo uye yerunako. Takavhura waini uye inopenya cider Crystal yakanga yauya nayo, magumbeze aakauya nawo kubva kumba akaputirwa pamakumbo edu, toast yakagadzirwa uye maonero anoshamisa eNewport Harbor aifema. Takaenda kune imwe nzvimbo yakazaruka muchiteshi chezvikepe, pakasangana nzira nhatu, gondolier yedu yakatitenderedza ichinongedza dzimba dzakasiyana siyana uye mavakirwo adzo akasiyana, mhando dzakasiyana dzezvikepe nema yacht uye nhoroondo yenzvimbo iyoyo.

Paakatitendeutsa kekupedzisira, pakaita seine meseji mubhodhoro raiyangarara pamusoro pemvura pamberi. Kalev akatitungamirira kwazviri, akanditi ndingosvika pasi uye sebirthday girl ndini ndaizorivhura. Ndakanyatsobvisa corked ndokudhonza ribbon rakaputirwa zvakanakisa pamessage iyi. 

proposal in gondola

Ndichinoivhura misodzi yainge yotoyerera, matama airwadza nenyemwerero isingaperi, ndakatadza kuburitsa mazwi akanyorwa zvinoyevedza kudaro, achipera nekuti “I loved you then, I love you now and I promise to love you Infinity and Beyond. Rudo, Crystal".

Pashure pokuiverenga pakupedzisira, ndakatsvoda ndokumbundira Crystal ndokumuudza kuti maita basa nokuda kwezuva rinokosha rakadaro uye ndinokuda. Akandipindurawo ndokundiudza kuti aida kuzogara neni kweupenyu hwake hwose. 

proposal ring - pakatarisana nekuvira kwezuva

Mashoko iwayo aigara achitaurwa pakati pedu, saka ndakakurumidza kupindura kuti, “Ndinoda kupedzawo upenyu hwangu hwose ndinemi!” Kukushamiswa kwangu kukuru, Crystal akatendeukira kubvi rake ndokubvunza kuti “UCHANDIROORA HERE?” Ndakabva ndati "YES!!!!" kane chiuru hongu! 💍

 

Chakaita kuti nguva iyi ive nani ndechekuti aive aine tarenda videologist zvitore zvese ne drone, gondolier akarekodha vhidhiyo pafoni yaCrystal uyo akatorawo matani anoshamisa. mifananidzo.. nguva yacho yaive PERFECT! Zvaive nani kupfuura mafirimu, zviri nani kupfuura zvandaigona kurota, kushamisika kwakakwana uye vana vedu havana kungobatsira kuronga asi vakawana nguva iyi yakakwana.

mhuri mugondola

Hatigone kumira kunyemwerera, pese pandinoona mhete pachigunwe changu zvinonditora kudzokera kuzuva redu rakakosha, Ndira 8, 2021. Mufaro pakuda nekureruka uye kuhupenyu hwese newe Mi amor! ❤️

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