TINOFANIRA KUTSVAGA MHINDURO KUMBVUNZO ETIQUETTE!
Paunogadzirira kumuchato wako unogara uchisangana nemibvunzo yakawanda yaungangodaro usina kumbosangana nayo. Etiquette mibvunzo pamusoro pemuchato wako ndiyo yaunoda kupindura kana iwe uchida kuzorora uye kudzivirira matambudziko pamhemberero. Usanetsekane chinyorwa ichi chichakubatsira iwe kuwana mhinduro dzakakosha kumibvunzo yako yese.
1. Mabhiri emuchato anokamurwa sei pakati pemhuri dzevaviri veLGBT? Vabereki vaani vanobhadharira chii?
Uyu mubvunzo wehutsika haungogumiri kune varume nevakadzi chete. Yeuka, vose vakaroorana vanofanira kubvunza mubvunzo uyu. Mutsika dzekare, zvaisiyana zvichienderana netsika dzevaviri ava. Dzimwe nguva vabereki vemwenga vanoisa mari yakawanda; dzimwe nguva, yakanga iri nhau yokupa ivhu nedzimba pashure.
Chokwadi, mazuva ano, vakaroorana vakawanda havavimbi nevabereki vavo; vanobhadhara mari yacho pachavo. Ongororo yakaitwa ne Ngochani Muchato Sangano rakaona kuti 84 muzana yevarume vane ngochani uye 73 muzana yengochani vanobhadhara michato yavo pachavo. Iyi inyaya inofanirwa kufanokurukurwa nevemapato arimo, uye hapana mhinduro kumunhu wese.
2. Mitezo yose yemhuri inotarisirwa kukokwa, kunyange vasingatsigiri here?
Nepo michato iri mhemberero inofadza, panofanirawo kuva nepfungwa yekukurukurirana. Kana imwe nhengo yemhuri iri kutsika yakawanda yebhiri, vangangoda kukoka vanhu vavanoda. Mumubvunzo wakajeka wetsika seuyu, mukana wekuti munhu wese aratidze kusanganisirwa kwavanogona.
Varoorani vanofanira kutsanangurira hama dzavo dzokunyama manzwire avanoita pamusoro pokubvumira vamwe vanhu vasingatsigiri kupati. Uye kune rumwe rutivi, mhuri yavo inofanira kuremekedza zvido zvavo.
3. Zvakadini nemazita? Ndinofanira kutaura sei nengochani iri kuchata?
Michato yengochani mazuva ano yave kuita tsika yekusaisa varoora se "varoora" kana "zvikomba." Paunenge uchiedza kutsvaga mhinduro kumubvunzo uyu wehutsika Funga nezvemazita avo maererano neasina murume kana murume: "vanofambidzana" kana "vakaroorana," semuenzaniso. Kana usina chokwadi, funga kubva kune vakaroorana: Vanosuma mumwe wacho so“mudzimai” wavo kana kuti “murume” wavo here? Kana zvakadaro, fungidzira kuti hazvina njodzi kuita zvimwe chetezvo.
4. Chii chiri hurongwa hwekufamba muwanano yengochani? Ndiani anofamba nani pasi?
Pano panogona kunge paine imwe yekuvhiringidzika etiquette mubvunzo kana kunyange dambudziko kana uchifunga nezve processional order. Mumichato yechivanhu, baba vanofamba nemwanasikana wavo, mwenga, pasi kuti asangane nomurume wake, chikomba.
Nemichato yengochani, zvese inyaya yezvaunoda, zvaunofarira, uye zvikumbiro. Pane zvakasiyana pane izvi, zvimwe zvacho zvinosanganisira:
a) Hapana "anofamba" chero ani zvake pasi. Mumwe anongomirira pedyo neatari kuti mumwe asvike.
b) Vese vanotungamirana vachidzika nemukana, ruoko neruoko.
c) Zvigaro zvevateereri zvakarongwa mumikoto miviri inosangana paatari: Vadyidzani vanofamba vachienda kune mumwe nemumwe kuti vasangane pakati, zvisinei, ivo vanosarudza: kuperekedzwa neshamwari kana nhengo yemhuri, kana zvachose vari vega.
(Chinhu chega chekurangarira pano, kurongeka. Nzira mbiri dzinogona kuda kuronga iyo angle yemukuru mifananidzo anotorwa kubva kana kuva neanopfuura mutori wemifananidzo parunhare.)
5. Unosarudza sei kuti ndiani anotora zita rekupedzisira?
Hapana mhinduro yakanaka kana isiriyo kumubvunzo uyu wetsika; zviri kwauri nemumwe wako kuti musarudze. Unogona kuda kuenda nemazita maviri ekupedzisira, maviri epakati, kana musanganiswa wemazita. Nekudaro, ramba uchifunga kuti nyika yega yega ine mitemo yayo pane izvo zviri pamutemo kana uchichinja zita rako. Uye sarudza nokukurumidza; rezinesi rako rewanano rinogona kusarudza zita rako remangwana sarudzo mune dzimwe nyika.
6. Pane nzira here yekubatanidza chitendero mumhemberero, kunyange kana dzimwe tsika (nezvitendero) dzichida mabasa echivanhu echivanhukadzi?
Nepo mhemberero dzechitendero dzeungochani dzingave dzakaoma kuchengetedza mune dzimwe nzvimbo dzekunamatira uye mune dzimwe nyika, kana chitendero chakakosha kwauri, kune nzira dzekuchibatanidza. Kuti uwane mhinduro kumubvunzo uyu wetsika kutanga uye zvakanyanya, ita tsvagiridzo yako. Nepo zvimwe zvitendero zvine hushamwari hwe LGBTQ kupfuura zvimwe, kunyangwe tsika dzechinyakare dzezvitendero dzinogona kunge dziine dzimwe nzvimbo kana vabati vane maonero azvino uno pakuroora.
Uye kana usingakwanise kuchengetedza anonamata Nzvimbo, usatya kuisa pfungwa dzako pachako pamasaini echitendero kana kuti zvinyorwa. Mazwi ekutenda anogona kugadziridzwa uye kushandiswa zvakare kuti aenderane nemamiriro ezvinhu anowedzera kupfuura mamiriro awo ekutanga, saka funga kunyora mhiko dzako uye kusanganisira chero manzwiro echitendero akakosha kwauri. Kana kuti tsvaga mukuru asiri wesangano (semushumiri akagadzwa), uye bvunza kana achigona kugadzirisa mhemberero yako kuti ibatanidze zvinhu zvinotungamirirwa nekutenda pasina kuenda kuzere kwechitendero.
Kana zviri zvechivanhu shinga kutyora mitemo. VaMuslim vane muchato wemurume mumwe chete vanogona kusarudza kupfeka Mehndi henna (yagara ichidhonzwa pamwenga) zvisinei nebonde ravo, uye magirazi maviri anogona kutyorwa pamichato yechiJudha nevanopfuura chikomba chimwe kana vaviri.
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