UAnthony noAntonio-Uthando oluvela ku "Molo"
Eli libali malunga namadoda amabini afumene iqabane lomphefumlo.
Ukudibana kokuqala kunye neemvakalelo zokuQala
Baqala ukudibana nge-8 kaDisemba 2018, xa baziswa ngumhlobo ofanayo, owayecinga ukuba baya kuba ngumdlalo ogqibeleleyo. Akukho namnye kubo owayejonge ukuba kubudlelwane ngelo xesha; nangona kunjalo, umhlobo wabo wayesazi kwaye wayevakalelwa kukuba baneempawu ezifanayo kakhulu kwaye bobabini babezizinto zomtshato omnye komnye. Emva kwemigudu eliqela yokuzama ukubahlanganisa, walungiselela uhambo lwangempela-veki lokuya kwisiXeko saseNew York neqela labahlobo, kungekho namnye kubo owayesazi ukuba omnye uyaya. Ngeli xesha ibali labo lothando laqala. Yayiluthando ekuqaleni.
Anthony: “Uthando lwethu luqale xa sisithi, “Molo”. Eyona ndlela ingcono endinokuyichaza ngayo le mvakalelo iya kuba kumboniso bhanyabhanya othi, “Awukwazi Ukundithengela Uthando”, okwishumi elivisayo othandana okokuqala, eqhwanyaza ngamehlo, amabhabhathane esiswini, kwaye akakwazi ukuthetha xa umntu omnye ohamba kanye uya kwiklasi elandelayo. Ngaphandle kokuba olu yayingelulo uthando lwenjana olufikisayo, yayiyeyona nto yokwenyani le. Isinike sobabini imvakalelo epheleleyo yolonwabo. "
Qala ukuthandana
Uhambo lothando lwaqala nge-hello elula eyavela kwinto engenakucingelwa. Kwiveki emva kokuba bazisiwe, baya kumhla wabo wokuqala nge-14 kaDisemba, 2018 eBartaco kwaye baqonda ukuba kukho umtsalane okhawulezileyo ngaphaya koko bakubonayo ngaphandle. Njengoko ixesha lalihamba, basondela ngakumbi omnye komnye. Kwakungekho mfuneko yamagama ukuba athethwe ukuze bazi ukuba bayathandana ukususela ekuqaleni. Yayiyimvakalelo engaqhelekanga enzulu ngaphakathi eyayiviwa kuphela. Uthando lunzulu kangangokuba amagama akanakuchazwa. Xa babezama ukucacisa indlela abavakalelwa ngayo omnye komnye, ekuphela kwento ababenokuyenza kukujongana emehlweni njengoko zazintywizisa iinyembezi zovuyo. Kungelo xesha apho baye bazi ukuba bamfumene umphefumlo wabo.
Ngexesha elifutshane kangako, kwakubonakala ngathi bayazana ngonaphakade, kwaye babemiselwe ukuba kunye. Ukuthandana ngokukhawuleza kwavela kubudlelwane obuqinileyo obuzaliswe luthando, ulonwabo, uzinzo kunye nokuzinikela.
U-Antonio wayekwiqela lenkwenkwe lendawo ekhula ngasekupheleni kweminyaka yoo-1990 eyaziwa ngokuba yiTouch of Quality kwaye emva koko wajoyina uDa Fellas. Ekuqaleni kwalo nyaka ubonakalise umdla wokufuna ukuphinda acule kwaye uAnthony wamxhasa ngokupheleleyo kwaye wamkhuthaza. U-Antonio ukhuphe ingoma yakhe yokuqala njengegcisa eliyedwa ngoJanuwari ka-2020 ebizwa ngokuba "Ukuwa ngokunzulu kuwe". Ingoma yayinikezelwe ku-Anthony ethetha ngendlela afumene ngayo iqabane lakhe eligqibeleleyo, lowo wayesoloko ephupha ngaye.
Proposition
Isindululo sathatha indawo nge-3 ka-Epreli 2019 eFt. Lauderdale eThe Rooftop, indawo yokuphumla ejongene nesixeko. Bobabini babesazi kwaye beziva ezintliziyweni zabo ukuba bafuna ukuchitha ubomi babo banaphakade kunye. Baceba uhambo olude ngempelaveki ukuya eMiami. U-Anthony wafika kwiintsuku ezimbalwa emva kokuba uAntonio waza wahlala eFt. Lauderdale apho uAntonio wayesele ecwangcise ukuhlala ubusuku bonke ngaphambi kokuya eMiami ngosuku olulandelayo. U-Antonio wathatha uAnthony wamsa kwi-Rooftop apho bachitha ixesha elithile bencokola kwaye benandipha umbono omangalisayo. Kamva ngaloo ngokuhlwa, uAntonio wenza isiphakamiso waza uAnthony wavuma ngoko nangoko. Ababebukele abambalwa bathatha imifanekiso yelo xesha. Kamva baya kwigumbi lasehotele elaligqunywe ngamakhandlela neentyatyambo. Yayiyingokuhlwa emangalisayo!
Amalungiselelo omtshato
Baqala baqala izicwangciso zabo zomtshato ngoJuni 2019. Bobabini bavuma ukuba bafuna umtshato wendawo.
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Baye ke bathunyelwa sisizalwane sikaMichelle Tarbush we-Thatha iVacation, LLC. U-Michelle waba luncedo kakhulu kwaye wabazisa nge-Hard Rock Los Cabos ekulindeleke ukuba ivule ehlobo lika-2019. Ngokukhawuleza bathandana ne-resort kwaye badibaniswa nomcwangcisi womtshato ovela kwi-Hard Rock. I abacwangcisi bomtshato basebenze nabo babemangalisa kwaye bekwazi ukuphumeza izimvo zabo. Basebenza ngokuthe ngqo kunye ne Nabathengisi ukuqinisekisa ukuba uAnthony noAntonio banomtshato ogqibeleleyo. Umtshato wabo wawucwangciselwe ukuqala nge-25 kaMeyi, 2020. Nangona kunjalo, ekupheleni kuka-Epreli ka-2020 kwafuneka benze isigqibo esinzima sokuhlengahlengisa umtshato wabo ngenxa yobhubhani we-COVID-19. Babephoxekile kakhulu kodwa besazi ukuba ubhubhane awuzukubanqanda. Bobabini uAntonio no-Anthony babhiyozela imihla yabo yokuzalwa ngo-Agasti (u-Anthony, ka-Agasti 29 kunye no-Antonio, nge-30 ka-Agasti), bagqiba kwelokuba batshate nge-31 ka-Agasti 2020.
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