DON LEMON NGENXA YAKHE OMANGALISAYO UTIM MALONE
Yeyiphi eyona nxalenye imangalisayo ngayo Don Lemon kunye neqabane lakhe, uTim Malone?
“Indlela 'esiqheleke ngayo',” watsho uLemon encumile.
I-anchor ecacileyo ye "CNN Tonight with Don Lemon" ibethelela xa ethetha ngobudlelwane bakhe neMalone, i-arhente yezindlu enelayisensi kunye noDouglas Elliman, uluhlu lwakhe lubandakanya ukuhlala kwezigidi zezigidi zeedola eManhattan naseHamptons.
"Ngamanye amaxesha siyaqhula ngayo nabahlobo bethu - indlela esine-heteronormative ngayo," watsho uLemon ehleka. "Siyakuthanda ukubukela ibhola, sihamba nge-ice skating, sipheka isidlo sakusihlwa, senza iipuzzle."
Amaphepha abo e-Instagram ajongeka njenge-remake ethi "Bubomi Obumangalisayo" kunye neHamptons twist - ukuhamba ngesikhephe, iibarbecues, iilwandle, ukudlala nezinja zabo ezintathu zokuhlangula, kunye nokutsibatsiba kwindawo yokutyela.
Konke kwaqala xa esi sibini sadibana ngobusuku bangoLwesihlanu ngo-2015 eAlmond eBridgehampton.
“NgoLwesihlanu ebusuku kufana nomxubi we-gay,” utshilo uLemon, owachaza ukuba wayehlala enxibelelana neMalone de esi sibini saqala ngokusemthethweni ukuthandana ngo-2016. ULowe useRiverhead uyokuthenga iKrisimesi imihlobiso kwinqwelo yeediliya zabo zika-1987 iFord Country Squire Woody wagon - ukuphosa umva kwimoto usapho lukaMalone lwakhulela eSouthampton.
“Yayibubuntwana obuqhelekileyo,” utshilo uMalone, ophumelele kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo iSouthampton. “IiHamptons zazithe cwaka ngelo xesha. Ndicinga ukuba intshukumo ye-'dot com' ekupheleni kweminyaka yoo-'90 yatshintsha i-Hamptons kwaye yabenza bavuthela. Yenye into eyandenza ndangena kwi-real estate - ukubukela i indawo phuhlisa kwaye ubone ngenene umhlaba omhle uguquka ngokuhamba kweminyaka. ”
Njengabanye, iLemon kunye neMalone bakhethe ukuhlala empuma ixesha elizeleyo xa i-COVID ibetha, nangona bebuyile kutshanje kwigumbi labo eManhattan.
“Ndinendlu [eSag Harbour] ukusukela ngo-2016, ke bendihlala ndiziva ngathi luluntu lwam-kwaye yayibunewunewu ukuhlala apho ngexesha lokuvalelwa... Kwandibuyisela ebuntwaneni bam,” utshilo uLemon, owakhula. phezulu eLouisiana. “Abantwana babeza kukhwela iibhayisekile zabo, uva ivumba elimnandi elivela kumakhaya abantu…
Ukuza ngobudala kwidolophu yakowabo iBaton Rouge, nangona kunjalo, kwakungeyonto intle kwiLemon.
"Kum, yayiphindwe kabini," watsho. “Kaloku wawunogwayimbo olunye kuwe ngenxa yokuba ungumntu oNtsundu, emva koko ube gay eMzantsi — kunzima ngokwenene. Ndiphume ngexesha elahluke kakhulu kunoTim. Kwakungamkelekanga ukuba yi-gay nokuba ngaphandle. Abantu bebesatshata abafazi, bebesegumbini, unomntu ohlala naye. Ndayishiya iLouisiana ukuze ndibe ndim, kwaye ndeza eNew York ukuze ndiphile - kwaye andizange ndijonge ngasemva. "
KuMalone, umceli mngeni awuzange uphume kangako, kodwa ulungelelanisa ubomi nentatheli yexesha eliphambili.
“Njengesibini, ndicinga ukuba sinebali elinomdla kakhulu, ngokomahluko wethu weminyaka,” utshilo uMalone, ogqiba iminyaka engama-37 ngo-Epreli. U-Lemon usandul 'ukugqiba iminyaka engama-55. Uluhlu… Ibimalunga 'ngomntu osemehlweni kawonke-wonke' kunayo nantoni na, nto leyo eyayifuna ukuqhelana noko.”
Ukongeza kwigig yakhe yasebusuku kwi-CNN, iLemon ibamba ipodcast, "Ukuthula ayisiyiyo iKhetho." Incwadi yakhe entsha, "Lo ngumlilo: Into endiyithetha kubahlobo bam malunga nobuhlanga," ekhutshwe nge-16 kaMatshi, yeyomntu kwaye inomdla.
"Ndicinga ukuze kulungiswe ingxaki yobuhlanga - kuba yingxaki kwaye ifuna ukulungiswa - kufuneka sikhokele ngothando, kuba ukuba ukhokela inzondo okanye umsindo, ke into oza kuyifumana yintiyo nomsindo. ,” yatsho iLemon.
“Ucalucalulo,” wongeze watsho uLemon, “kuyingozi njengokungalingani kwamandla okanye umntu okuhlukumezayo emsebenzini kuba ephelisa ubuchule bakho bokuyila, kunokukuyekisa ukuqhubeka nomsebenzi wakho, kwaye kunokuba neziphumo zobuqu.”
“Ndinqwenela ukuba bekukho intshukumo ethi '#UsToo' yabantu abaNtsundu okanye iindawo zoluntu ezingakhathalelwanga ngocalucalulo nocalucalulo emsebenzini nanjengoko kukho umbutho '#MeToo',” utshilo.
Ukujonga phambili, esi sibini sifuna ukudlula ubhubhane kwaye sitshate. Bakwajonge phambili kwithemba lokuba nabantwana.
“UTim kufuneka abe nabantwana kuba emncinci,” waqhula watsho uLemon. “Kusafuneka sijonge ukuba isiseko sasekhaya sizakuba phi. Kuyavuyisa, kwaye kuyoyikisa kancinci, ukuba nobomi obuncinci esiza kuba noxanduva kubo. ”
Okwangoku, iLemon kunye neMalone bayakonwabela ixesha labo lokuphumla bephumile empuma, kwindawo apho baziva "imvakalelo yokwenyani yoluntu kunye nekhaya kunye nosapho."
“Abantu bacinga ngeeHamptons kwaye bacinga ukuba 'Owu, intle kwaye ityebile okanye nantoni na' - kwaye siphila nje obuqhelekileyo apho," utshilo uLemon. UMalone uphinda le mvakalelo: “Eyona nto iphambili—kukubaleka.”
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