INDLELA YOKUXHASA ULUNTU lwe-LGBTQ KUMTHETHO WAM OMTSHATO
Usuku lomtshato wakho luyeza, siyazi ukuba uzilungiselele ngokupheleleyo kodwa ihlala i indawo ukwenza ngcono. Ukuba kwi-oyu kubalulekile ukubonisa indima yakho kwikratshi kwaye ufuna ukuxhasa uluntu kumsitho womtshato wakho, apha sineengcebiso ezilungileyo kuwe.
Zibandakanye nelizwi lakho
Ngelixa izinto ziye zaba ngcono kakhulu kule minyaka xa yena nomyeni wakhe ngoku babeza kubhukisha igumbi lasehotele kunye, kwakuya kulandela umtya wemibuzo: “Amagumbi amabini?” "Ibhedi enye okanye ezimbini?" Kwaye nangokunjalo. Kodwa yayingelulo uphando oluya kumkhathaza; yayilulwimi lobuso nolomzimba. “Kuyo yonke loo ncoko, yayilishiya eliphakamileyo elalidla ngokundicaphukisa kakhulu,” utsho.
Njengoko izibini zithumela izimemo zomtshato, musa ukwenza nayiphi na ingqikelelo ngamagama, afana 'noMnu. & Nks.' okanye 'Indoda nomfazi.' Endaweni yoko, cela iindwendwe malunga nezihlonipho zabo ezifunwayo kunye nezimelabizo kwangaphambili. Ukuba ubhukisha ibhloko yehotele ngosuku lwakho olukhulu, jonga kabini kumphathi ukuba bonke abantu bazo zonke iindlela kunye nezazisi zesini bamkelekile kwaye baya kukhululeka. Awusoze ufune ukuba abathandekayo bakho baqale ngeveki yomtshato kwinqaku elibi-ngakumbi elinokuba yingozi kakhulu.
Kukulungele ukubuza umbuzo
Xa ukhetha abantu abaza kuzibonela ukuqalisa komtshato wakho, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ubazi kakuhle. Kodwa njengoko uqhubeka nenkqubo yokucwangcisa umtshato, uya kudibana Nabathengisi zange udibane okanye udibane naye kwixesha elidlulileyo. Oku kuthetha ukuba ungasebenzisa isimelabizo esingachanekanga okanye uthethe into ebonisa ukungabi nantlonipho ungaqondanga. Okufanayo kunokuba yinyani kumntwana okanye kunye nomhlobo omnye okanye ilungu losapho elichonga njenge-transgender. Okanye, mhlawumbi, bebesandula kuphuma nje njenge-gay okanye i-bisexual. Ngeli xesha elibuthathaka, bafuna uthando olongezelelweyo, kwaye ukuba awuqinisekanga ngendlela yokunxibelelana naba bantu.
“Akukho mntu uyilungisayo okokuqala. Siluluntu singafunda njani ukuba nabani na ufuna sithethe naye ukuba asibuzanga?” uthi. “Njengomsitho umcwangcisi, uninzi lwezibini zam zivela kwiimvelaphi ezininzi kwaye zigubungela yonke iminyaka, isini, iintlanga, kunye neenkolo. Ndithatha ixesha lokubuza indlela esi sibini siziva sikhululeke ngayo xa sibhekisa kuzo zonke ezi ndidi zingentla, kwaye ukuba kufika umzuzwana ndingaqinisekanga, ndiyabuza. ”
Sebenza kuphela nabathengisi ababandakanya i-al
Umtshato lutyalo-mali olubiza kakhulu, kwaye kwizibini ezininzi okanye iintsapho, enye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo zokuthenga abanokuthi bazenze. Ke ukuba unayo imali oyichithayo, kutheni ungaqinisekanga ukuba iyahamba a umthengisi okanye indawo equkayo? Kwaye babonise ngenkuthalo inkxaso yabo kunye nobudlelwane kunye noluntu lwe-LGBTQIA +? Ngelixa imali ingeyiyo yodwa indlela yokuqhuba impembelelo, ukukhetha iinkampani ezingacaluliyo linyathelo eliya kwicala elililo elibhekiselele ekulinganeni kuzo zonke izibini kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zothando.
Impazamo kwicala lobubele
Kusenokubonakala ngathi akunangqondo, kodwa ububele buhamba umgama omde. Kwaye ukukhumbula ukuba iimpawu zesini kunye nesini ayizona kuphela iinkalo zobomi bethu ezisichazayo. “Nokuba unemvelaphi enjani, kuya kubakho amava afanayo esiwabelana ngawo sonke. Sebenzisa la mava ukuze ubandakanyeke kwincoko yakho,” utshilo.
Oku kuthetha ukungasabeli kuba indoda ikhankanya indoda yayo okanye ibhinqa likhankanya umfazi walo. Olu lubudlelwane bonke, njengazo zonke ezinye. Kulo lonke ucwangciso lwakho lomtshato - kunye nentsebenziswano yemihla ngemihla - ukubeka phambili ukwamkelwa kunye nokunyamezela rhoqo.
Shiya iMpendulo