UJAYMES VAUGHAN NO JONATHAN BENNETT: UNGAWUCWANGCISA NJANI UMTSHATO WEPHUPHA LAKHO
“Akukho migaqo. Sicinga ukuba kukho imigaqo kuphela,” yatsho iMean Girls inkwenkwezi yomtshato wakhe noVaughan ongaqhelekanga.
ABANTU bajonge ngokukhethekileyo kumcimbi we-Knot's Summer 2021, esi sibini savula umlomo malunga nemitshato yabo ezayo.
“Siyahlukana nesithethe kancinci, kuba kunceda ngantoni? Ngumtshato wakho. Unokwenza nantoni na oyifunayo. Akukho mithetho. Sicinga ukuba kukho imigaqo kuphela, ”utshilo umlingisi weMean Girls, 39.
Umdlali weqonga uveze indlela yena noVaughan, 38, ababewenza ngayo umtshato wabo. “Asizukuba nabakhweli okanye amadoda abalaseleyo. Siza kuba namantombazana ethu angcono kunye nabafana ebomini bethu, kwicala ngalinye lethu, senze itheko elikhulu lomtshato,” utshilo uBennett. “Elinye isithethe esisitsibayo kukungaboni ngasonye ngemini yethu yomtshato. Ngumhlobo wam osenyongweni. Ukuba andimboni phambi komtshato ndizothetha nabani? Nangona singamaqabane, singabahlobo abasenyongweni kuqala.”
UVaughan wongeze wathi, “Siyafunana kuba siyayazi into efunwa ngabanye. Eyona ngongoma kukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye njengentsapho size simke njengentsapho enkulu ngakumbi.”
UVaughan ucebise uBennett ngokumbhalela ingoma yakhe yothando kunye nokuguqa ngedolo elinye, esi sibini satyhila ABANTU ngoNovemba ka-2020.
“Undibhalele iculo! Sasihlala sisiva Konke iingoma ezipheleleyo uze ucinge, ‘Owu ibiya kuba yingoma yethu leyo ukuba nje le nxalenye okanye loo nxalenye yahlukile,’ ngenxa yoko, sasingenayo ingoma ethi ‘yethu,’” uBennett uxelele ABANTU ngelo xesha. UVaughan, umsasazi weTV kunye ne-ankile ephambili yePhepha loSaziwayo, bakwazile ukuhlanganisa iintsapho zabo "kwikhadi losapho lweKrisimesi" njengesizathu sokuba kubekho abo babathandayo.
“Usisi wam wandikhwaza ukuba ndiphume phandle ‘ngokukhawuleza ngokwenene’ yaza iFOMO yam yakhaba ngoko ndabalekela phandle. Emva koko ndajonga ndabona uJaymes ephethe umqondiso othi, 'Asizange siyifumane ingoma yethu, ngoko ke ndikubhalele yona,'” ukhumbula uBennett. “Kulapho ndaye ndazi ukuba kuyacelwa ukuba ndicelwe kuba yayikwaluhlobo olunye lophawu awalubonisayo xa wayendixelela ukuba uyandithanda okokuqala. Ndaye ndaqalisa ukukhala kakubi esona sikhalo sakhe sakha sakhaliswa mntu.”
UBennett wongezelela ngelithi: “Andinakulinda de nditshate!”
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