Ibali lesiphakamiso sikaDanelle noChristina
Sadibana njani
UDanelle: Mna noChristina sadibana kwiminyaka eyi-10 eyadlulayo sidlala umbhoxo ekholejini kunye. Ikholeji yayilixesha ebomini bam ndafumanisa ukuba ubulili bam njengolutsha oluninzi. UChristina wayekho xa ndagqiba ekubeni ndixelele abahlobo bam kwaye bandazise ukuba kulungile kwaye ndingabi nazintloni. Ukubakho kwakhe ngelo xesha linzima kwathetha ihlabathi kum kwaye andisoze ndililibale.
Sazibophelela phezu kwekofu, uHarry Potter, yonke imidlalo, kunye nezinto ezifanayo zomculo. Asizange siqalise ukuthandana de emva kokuba siphumelele ekholejini, kodwa ukuqala kwexesha elide kwaqala ukuqhakaza kwiintsuku zekholeji. Emva koko xa sasithandana satya uGqirha Ngubani xa yayiseseNetflix. Uye kwimidlalo yebhola ekhatywayo, ihoki kunye nesoftball.
Iqhina ebesinalo ngoku sithandana nalo beliqina kakhulu. Sathandana. Siye sathandana sisekude iminyaka emininzi sikunye. Kwakunzima kakhulu, kodwa siye sasebenza. Ukususela ekholejini sasingahlali kwisixeko esinye. Emva koko izinto zaba nzima kwaye sahlukana ngenxa yokuba uChristina wayengekho kubazali bakhe. Loo nto yamsusa ekuzibopheleleni ngokupheleleyo.
Kungekudala uChristina wayibona impazamo awayeyenzile yaye wayesazi ukuba uyandithanda yaye ufuna ukuphila kunye. Wabaxelela abazali bakhe kwaye babengenakuvuya ngakumbi. Nkqu nomama wakhe wayesazi ukuba wayevuya kakhulu xa sikunye. Kwandithatha ixesha ukuba ndiphinde ndithembe kwakhona. Walinda ngomonde. Ke kwiminyaka emi-2 eyadlulayo wasuka e-KY waya eNashville nam. Asizange sibe namandla kwaye sikulungele ukuqhubeka nobomi bethu kunye.
Babuza njani
UDanelle: Isindululo. Malunga neenyanga ezi-2 ngaphambi kokuba isiphakamiso senzeke, uChristina wacela ukuba siye kufumana indlu yabazali ngempelaveki ngo-Oktobha. Ndingumongikazi wabantwana kwaye sicwangcisa iishifti zethu kwiinyanga kwangaphambili. Ngoko wayesazi ukuba ndiqiniseke ukuba ndinexesha emsebenzini. So ndathi sure akhongxaki ndingazithoba ukuba off that weekend uyobona abazali bakho eKY.
Ngokukhawuleza ukuya kwiiveki ezi-2 ngaphambi kokuba "uhambo" oluya kubazali bakhe, u-Christina ukhankanya ukuba ufuna nje ukuhlala ekhaya kwaye akasayi kubazali bakhe. Yayisisicelo esingaqhelekanga kuba umama kaChristina UYATHANDA xa sindwendwela. Malunga neveki kamva uChristina undixelela ukuba abahlobo bethu uKalleigh noLaura bafuna ukuya kwisidlo sangokuhlwa kwiBBQ. indawo kumbindi wedolophu yaseNashville, kwakhona kum esi yayisisicelo esingaqhelekanga.
Ke ndingumntu othandabuzayo ndinguye, ndaqala ukuqokelela ulwazi kubahlobo bam kwaye ndibone ukuba bajonge ntoni kulempelaveki. Khange kube yimpumelelo wonke umntu ebeBUSY. Ifikile i24 kaOkthobha ngomgqibelo sizakutya nezihlobo zethu. Ngalomini sazipholela ekhaya noChristina, sabukela ibhola ekhatywayo, sakrola amathanga, senza iqebengwana leqebengwana lendlu. Ngaloo mva kwemini uChristina wayefana "Heyi, ngaba ungathanda ukuhamba ngeenyawo kwiBhulorho ye-Pedestrian ngaphambi kwesidlo sakusihlwa, andizange ndibekho kwaye ndifuna ngokwenene umfanekiso wombono?". Le ngxelo indithumele ezininzi ezibomvu iiflegi, 1. UChristina ukucebisa ukuhamba kuphambene nje, loo ntombazana ITHANDA ukuhlala nje. 2. Ndandisele ndithandabuza ngayo yonke into eza kum. Ke ngoku kukho izigidi zeengcinga ezihamba entlokweni yam, ndifana nokuba ndinxiba ntoni???? Ngaba oku ngenene isidlo sangokuhlwa okanye kuyenzeka ngokwenene, ngokungathi akukho ndlela yenzeka ngayo le ngokuhlwanje.
Emva koko siqala ukulungiselela isidlo sakusihlwa. NDIHLALA emva kwexesha, kwaye ngoku bendibuza yonke into indenze yambi kakhulu. Ndaqala ndalala ndaza ndalala. Ndifihle icell phone ka Christina ndazivalela egumbini lam lokulala. I had so many emotions and ndandingafuni uChristina andibone ndisothuka. Saqala sakhwazana ngomnyango wegumbi lokulala. Ngokunyanisekileyo ukujonga ngasemva olu landelelwano lonke ibiyi HILARIOUS nje. Yayiyeyona nto "kaDanelle" endandinokuyenza. Ndinenkani kwaye ndisoloko ndifuna ukwazi ukuba kwenzekani. Yayininzi kuphela into endandinokuyilawula. EKUGQIBELENI SIYAKUPHENDUKA endlwini.
Besifanele ukuba sikwisidlo sangokuhlwa ngo-6. Saphuma endlwini yethu ngo-6:10. Ke okwangoku ndingathi kufuneka singqale ngqo kwisidlo sangokuhlwa sele sisemva kwexesha, kodwa uChristina wanyanzelisa ukuba sisenalo ixesha lokuhamba kwe-DANG ebethetha ngayo ekuqaleni kwemini. (Ibhulorho yabahambi ngeenyawo ijonge ezantsi kwedolophu yaseNashville, uninzi lwabantu luyisebenzisa ukuhamba ukusuka eTitans Stadium ukuya kwibroadway okanye i-visa versa, i-AKA imbonakalo entle yesixeko) Ke sifika kwibhulorho, ekugqibeleni bendiziqokelele emva kokulungiselela ikhefu. phantsi bendinazo. Siyahamba kwaye bendifana ndilungile nantsi indawo entle yefoto yakho, emva koko uChristina uye "Oh yeah ilungile" Utsale ifowuni yakhe ukuze afote umfanekiso. Emva koko akathethi nto aqhubeke ehamba.
Engqondweni yam ingathi ndiyamlandela. Ke unamanyathelo ambalwa ngaphambili kwaye ngokunyaniseka umbono webhulorho umhle. Ndithatha ixesha lam lokuhamba kwaye emva koko sifika kwiibhentshi ezimbalwa kwibhulorho kwaye uChristina uya "Owu, jonga iTARDIS.". I-TARDIS nguGqirha Ngubani i icon kwaye yayikwimo encinci ibhokisi yeringi. Ngelo xesha ndaphulukana nayo ndaza ndaqalisa ukukhala. Ifike njani lonto ndazibuza, kwabe kukho nencwadi phantsi kwe ring box. Incwadi yeekhathuni zikaChristina kunye nam kunye nobomi bethu kunye kule minyaka ili-10 idlulileyo. Undinika incwadi, ndayifunda iinyembezi zam. Wade wafaka nenxalenye yokwahlukana kwethu apho ndasuka ndalila ngakumbi. Ukufunda le ncwadi kwandinika ukukhanya kwezi nkumbulo. Bendizaliswe luthando novuyo olukhulu ndikhumbula onke la maxesha. Ekupheleni kwencwadi wandicela ukuba sitshate. Ngenene ndathi ewe!
UChristina wenza oku ngokugqibeleleyo, kwabakho a mfa nekiso kwibhulorho apho ukuthatha iifoto zayo yonke into! Wafika ngolo hlobo ke umsesane nencwadi apho! Emva kokuba ndithe ewe umfoti omnandi wasifota. Emva koko wayengathi kulungile ndiza kunivumela nifumane isidlo kunye nabahlobo benu! Bendingathi OH CRAP injalo ndiyaqikelela ukuba sisenesidlo sangokuhlwa sokuzimasa. I am on such a emotional high khange ndikwazi nokucinga ngqo kuhambo lwethu lokuya kwisidlo sangokuhlwa.
Sifike kwindawo ye-BBQ kwaye singene ukuze sifumane abahlobo bethu abasele bekhona, kodwa andizange ndibabone etafileni emva koko sihamba ngasemva apho banamagumbi omcimbi wabucala. Entloko bendifana nokuLINDA, akukho ndlela yokuba sisidlo esincinci esi./ Sifike egumbini kwaye ndixelele uChristina "Kungcono kungabikho sisigidi sabantu apha!" , "Akukho sisigidi sabantu apho." Utsho ebuya. Emva koko singena kwigumbi elincinane eligcwele BONKE abantu bethu. Ndijike kumothuko ococekileyo kwaye ndiphume umzuzwana, emva koko ndibuyele ngaphakathi. Kukho umama notata, umama notata kaChristina, abahlobo bethu abasondeleyo bekholeji, kunye nomhlobo wam osenyongweni kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo. Yayihonjisiwe yonke ukubhiyozela ukudibana kwethu.
Ndiye ndaya kuye ndiyokuwola umama kaChristina kwaye emva kokuwola wathi “Ulungile?”, “Ulungele YINTONI?” Ndabuza, kuba ngoku yintoni enye endinokuyilungiselela. Emva koko emva kocango emva komama kaChristina yaba ngabahlobo bam aba-2 abasenyongweni uLauren noNatalie bobabini ababefudukele kumakhaya abo kule minyaka mi-2 idlulileyo. Sonke sobathathu sasisebenza kunye kwiyunithi enye eVanderbilt Childrens. Bebengabantu bam emva kwekholeji. Ngamantombazana am kwaye ahlala ekhona kum. Ndathathwa ukuba nabo bakhona ngowona mzuzu mkhulu ebomini bam. Ndaphinda ndalila! Kwakhona, umfoti ebekhona ngesidlo sangokuhlwa naye, wasibetha apho! Ngokunyaniseka, ndinoyena mhlobo ubalaseleyo, usapho kunye nabahlobo.
Loo mpelaveki yayiyeyona ikhethekileyo yaze yaphela yayinto eyothusa kakhulu. Nokuba zeziphi iinzame zam zokuyichitha. UChristina wacinga ngayo yonke into, iifoto zobuchwephesha, eqinisekisa ukuba bonke abantu bethu babekhona, nabangaphandle kwelizwe KUNYE nokutya. Lithetha ilizwe kum kwaye soze ndililibale. Umhlobo wam uNatalie ke naye ucwangcise i-brunch yothethathethwano eyothusayo ngeCawa kunye nabo bonke abahlobo bethu baBantwana baseVanderbilt. Abongikazi babantwana benza iibhondi ezikhethekileyo kwaye sineqela eliqinileyo kuthi.
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