USarah noCindy-Uthando lwaseKholejini
Isiqalo sebali
Baye badibana nonyaka wabo wokuqala wekholeji ngobugwenxa babo, kwindibano eyayiseChapel Hill, NC. Bobabini babelapho bodwa kwaye kwakufuneka bahlale nomntu, yaye uSarah watsaleleka ngoko nangoko kuCindy.
Yayintsha ngokupheleleyo. USindi wamenza uSarah wakuvuyela ukuba kunye naye. Wenza uSara wahleka nje ngokukhona. UCindy wayengumntu wokuqala ukuba uSarah adibane naye ngolo hlobo.
Ukupasa kokuqala
USarah: “Wayeneenwele ezimdaka ngebala kunye ne-florida skater vibes, kunye nesincamathelisi sikaHarry Potter kwilaptop yakhe. Ndahlala ecaleni kwakhe xa ndisiya endibanweni yaye andizange ndiyeke ukuhlala naye. Ndeza nazo zonke izizathu zokuba ndibe naye. Wayekrelekrele, ehlekisa, enenkathalo kwaye ndandisazi nje ukuba siza kuba ngabahlobo abasenyongweni. "
Cindy: “Damn, umhle!”
Qala ukuthandana
Baqala ngokusemthethweni ukuthandana malunga neenyanga ze-6 emva kokuba bedibene. Akukho namnye kubo “owayephumile” kwiintsapho zabo, ngoko ke ukuqonda ukuba bayathandana kwaza kwahambisana nokuqonda ukuba kwakuza kufuneka axelele abahlobo nentsapho yakhe.
Amanyathelo okuQala
Okokuqala "Ndiyakuthanda". USindi wayithetha kuqala, kodwa uSarah wayitsho kwangoko! Bebehleli phantsi kwigumbi lokuhlambela kumcimbi woburhelemnqa kwavele kwachitheka yonke into.
Okokuqala kiss. USindi noSarah beza nazo zonke izizathu zokubonana, kwaye ukuncamisana kwabo kokuqala kwenzeka ngobusuku obunye behleli nje. Babehleli esofeni kaSarah, bencokola nje, kwaye kwenzeka. USarah wafumana isidingo esikhulu sokuncamisa uCindy, wenjenjalo. Kwaye akazange ayeke.
Ubunzima bokuqonda njengesibini esithandanayo
Babhideke kancinane ekuqaleni, kodwa baye banenkxaso emangalisayo. Zombini iintsapho zabo zithandana kakhulu. Ziyamangalisa zonke! Bahlala ngaphantsi kwemizuzu eli-10 kuzo zonke iiseti ezi-3 zabazali kwaye bababona rhoqo. Iyamangalisa nje into yokuba bonke babawole njengesibini ngoko nangoko.
Umkhwa ongaqhelekanga omnye komnye
ULUHLU! USindi ngumenzi woluhlu olubalaseleyo, kwaye unoluhlu oluninzi entlokweni yakhe, ephepheni nakwifowuni yakhe nangaliphi na ixesha.
Proposition
UCindy ucebise uSara ngempelaveki yokuzalwa kwakhe ngo-2018. Babemise iinkampu ezintabeni kwaye uCindy wayesoloko exelela uSara ukuba kufuneka asebenzise igumbi lokuhlambela! Ngoko ngokucacileyo, uSara wahamba naye 
UCindy uye wakwenza oku kabini ngaphambi kokuba athi, “Kulungile. Ukuhamba. Wena. Hlala. Apha."
Ngoko uSara wahlala! Emva kwemizuzu embalwa, uCindy ubuyela ententeni esebeza, “Khawuleza baby yiza ujonge! Kukho usapho lwamaxhama ngaphandle!”
USarah waphakama waphuma ententeni ebaleka ukuya kubona ixhama, kwathi ngequbuliso kwathi gqi izibane, waqonda ukuba kwenzeka ntoni. Izibane zaqalisa ukukhanyisa, zimkhokelela kwindledlana encinane. Amanyathelo ambalwa ekulandeleni izibane, indawo yokuphela ikhanyisa. Luphawu (lokuba uCindy wayefihle ngandlel’ ithile kwinqwelo-mafutha yabo ababesiya nayo enkampini) enezibane zentambo, ebhala amagama athi, “Nditshate?”
Ngaphambi kokuba uSarah agqibe ukufunda umbhalo, wajika wabona uCindy eguqe. USarah wayesandohlulwa lulonwabo kunye nemincili. Emva kokuba uCindy enze isindululo, wanika uSarah ihempe ethi "enGAYged" kwaye baye baphumla kakhulu kuhambo lwabo.
Emva kweveki, yayilithuba likaSarah! USarah ekugqibeleni weza necebo lokuba acebise uCindy. USindi kwafuneka asebenze ngaloo ntsasa yangoMgqibelo, ngoko uSarah wambona edutyulwe. USarah uprinte iqela le imifanekiso bawadibanise kwaye bawadibanisa baphuma baya kwipaki uCindy angazange aye kuyo. USarah wahamba kancinane endleleni waze wabophelela umtya wakhe wemifanekiso phakathi kwemithi emibini. Emva koko, walinda. Uye walinda. USindi bekufanele ahambe ngo 12, kodwa ude wafika pha ngabo 1.
USarah wadibana naye ngaphambili ukuze amhambise apho wayemise khona. Ke, xa babesiya kuyo, abantu baqala ukuthetha izinto ezinje, "oh yimifanekiso yakho leyo?" “Halala!” “Owu nibahle kanjani nobabini!” “Jonga ngabantu abasemifanekisweni!”
Bahleka kwaye besiya kwindawo yesicelo sikaSarah, uSarah waguqa ngedolo kwaye waxela uthando lwakhe kuCindy ngelixa usapho lwalusondla amadada emva kwabo. Yayingagqibelelanga, kodwa yayigqibelele.
umtshato
Yayiyintsomi! Batshata nge-19 kaSeptemba 2020, yayilusuku lokuzalwa lukaSarah! Batshata kwiB&B entle kwiGadi yasePleasant, eNorth Carolina ebizwa ngokuba yiWalnut Lane. Yayikhelwe emahlathini kumbindi welizwe, kwaye ikhangeleka ngathi yinto ephuma kwincwadi yamabali. Kwafuneka bahlale etafileni Indawo ukususela ngoLwesihlanu-ngeCawa.
NgoLwesihlanu, balungisa yonke into! Iintsapho zabo zombini beza kunceda kwaye ngenene bekumnandi kakhulu! NgoMgqibelo, babechitha intsasa bebodwa kwindawo ababeqhutyelwa kuyo indibano. Bakhetha ukuba bangabi nawo amatheko omtshato, ngoko bazilungiselela bodwa. Baye bathatha ixesha labo kwaye kwakuzolile kwaye kuhle.
Emva kokuba bezilungisile, benza imifanekiso yabo yomtshakazi bejikeleza indawo leyo. Baziva bedumile ngabafoti babo aba-2 kunye nendawo entle. Emva kokufota eyona mifanekiso imangalisayo, intsapho yabo yaqalisa ukufika. Babekwazi ukubona wonke umntu ongenayo, kodwa akukho mntu ubabonayo.
Lathi lakufika ixesha, balungiselela ukuphuma.
Baye babambana izandla benyuka omnye nomnye epasejini. Badibana nomhlobo wabo osenyongweni ngaphambili, waze wabanika owona msitho umhle kakhulu ababenokuwucela. Yayithetha yonke into kubo ukuba wenze umtshato wabo.
Bafunda izibhambathiso zabo kumaphetshana amancinane ababewabhale kwangethuba ngaloo mini besitya ipizza. Umsitho wawugqibelele.
Bahamba bebuyela epasejini kunye nababathandayo bevuthela amaqamza kunye neentsimbi ezikhalayo.
Emva komsitho, badanisa ubusuku bonke nabahlobo babo kunye nosapho kuluhlu lokudlalwayo udade kaSarah oneminyaka eli-16 ubudala wayebaleka. Yaba yiyo yonke into ababekade beyifuna, kwalandela abanye.
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