U-TAN NO-ROB FRANCE: IBALI LOTHANDO
Kuninzi okwenzekayo kubomi be-Queer Eye's Fab Five ngoku-ingakumbi kwi-Tan France, ngoku ulindele ngokusemthethweni umntwana wakhe wokuqala kunye nomyeni wakhe, uRob France.
Esi sibini sitshatile iminyaka engaphezu kweshumi (!) Kwaye, njengoko kuvela, sinoRob ukubulela ngokufumana i-fashion guru esiyithandayo ukuba ibonakale kumboniso.
Yup, kudliwanondlebe kunye neMirror, uTan watyhila ukuba ngumyeni wakhe owamtyhala ukuba enze i-Queer Eye, nangona wayefuna ukuyijika.
Ukususela ekudibaneni kwabo kwi-intanethi ukuya kusapho lwabo olukhulayo, nantsi yonke into esiyaziyo ngomyeni kaTan, uRob.
1. NGUBANI I-TAN FRANCE'S UMYENI, ROB?
Ungumzobi ozifundisayo ozifundisayo othengisa iziqwengana zakhe ezizodwa, zoqobo kwi-intanethi. Ngokutsho kwewebhusayithi yakhe esemthethweni, ugxile kwimifanekiso kunye nemifanekiso yemifanekiso. (Jonga umfanekiso wakhe kaTan ngasentla).
Nangona kunjalo, wayengasoloko ekwikhondo lomsebenzi wezobugcisa. Kudliwano-ndlebe luka-2015 kunye neCity Weekly, uRob wathi ngenene wayengumongikazi wabantwana owayezibandakanya nobugcisa ecaleni. Owu, kwaye ngaba sikhankanye ukuba unemithombo yeendaba enkulu yentlalontle elandelayo?
Umongikazi wabantwana, igcisa kunye nefuthe kwimidiya yoluntu? Inomtsalane kakhulu.
2. WADIBANA PHI UTAN?
Kudliwano-ndlebe olukhethekileyo kunye ne Post New York, UTan utyhile ukuba yena noRob badibana kwiwebhusayithi yokuthandana emva kwe-2008 kwaye ngokukhawuleza bayibetha. (Siqikelela ukuba abanye abantu abadumileyo abahlukanga kangako kuthi emva koko).
Xa wayexubusha ngesizathu sokuba aba babini bavane—abaneemvelaphi ezahlukahlukeneyo—umyili wefashoni wathi unqulo lunendima enkulu.
“Kwakwenza kwalula ukuthandana nomntu ofana nam. Andiseli tywala, anditshayi,” utshilo uFrance. Ezinye zeenkonzo zethu sizenza. Asiziqheliseli zonke. Senza oko kusisebenzelayo.”
3. UHLALA PHI?
Nangona wazalelwa e-Wyoming, uRob uye waphila inxalenye enkulu yobomi bakhe e-Utah-ngokukodwa, eSalt Lake City. Kungekudala emva kokuba bobabini beqale ukuthandana, esi sibini sasisazi ukuba sifuna ukuchitha ubomi babo kunye, kwaye bahlala kwindawo efanayo. UTan, owayehlala e-NYC ngelo xesha, wayesele enothando lweSalt Lake, kwaye emva kokuthandana ngokukhawuleza noRob, wagqiba ekubeni enze intshukumo.
“Siqale ukuthandana emva koko, ewe, ndiye ndaqonda ukuba ibinguye kwakamsinya emva koko,” utshilo uTan ISalt Lake Tribune. Ke ndicwangcise ukuba i-Utah ibe likhaya lam.
4. BAKWETSHANA NINI?
Kwisiqendu sesibini sesizini yesibini ye Iliso le Queer, sifumene incasa encinci ye-non-proposal kaTan kuRob.
“Uyazi ukuba bekungekho sindululo sokwenyani. Yayiyimeko yokuba, 'siza kutshata ngenye imini, akunjalo?' 'Ewe, kunjalo,'” uTan waxelela oogxa bakhe. "Besivumelene ukuba izokwenzeka ngenye imini emva koko salungiselela umhla."
5. INGABA BANABO ABANTWANA NDAWONYE?
Okwangoku, kodwa banayo enye esendleleni!
The Eyie inkwenkwezi isandula ukwabelana ngeendaba ezimnandi kwi-Instagram yakhe yobuqu ngokuthumela ifoto yakhe engenahempe ephethe i-sonogram esiswini sakhe. “Ndivuya kakhulu ukuba ekugqibeleni sabelane ngokuba SINOMNTWANA!!” Wabhala umbhalo ngaphambi kokuba acacise, "Hayi, andikhulelwanga, ngaphandle kwalo mfanekiso oyinyaniso."
UFrance uqhubekile wathi, “Ngesona sipho sikhulu/uncedo lolona mntwana umangalisayo, mna noRob sinethamsanqa lokuba sisendleleni yokuba ngabazali, ngeli hlobo. Into ebesiyifuna iminyaka SOooo emininzi. Iintliziyo zethu zigcwele ngoku. Andikwazi kulinda ukubamba lo mntwana, kwaye ndimbonise uthando olungaka. "
Ngaphambi kokukhutshwa kwexesha lesibini le Iliso le Queer ngo 2018, Tan wavula ukuya Cinezela malunga nomnqweno wakhe wokuba nabantwana abathandathu (ewe, ufunda oko ngokuchanekileyo) abantwana nge-surrogacy kunye ne-hubby yakhe.
"Ndicinga ukuba le nto siyenza kakuhle kumboniso, okanye into eyenziwa yiNetflix kakuhle, iphoswe ngabantu abahlanu abathetha ngokuphandle kwaye banezimvo kunye nelizwi kwaye ndingomnye waba bantu kwaye ndiziva ndinelungelo lokuba kwindawo apho ndifika khona. thetha ngento endifuna ukuyenza. Kwaye ukuba ndifuna ukuba nabantwana ndifuna sithethe ngayo kwaye akukho mntu unokuthi ayilunganga ahlukane nayo,” utshilo uTan. Ndiyazifuna ngokwenene ezintandathu. Ndizakuhlala ubuncinane besine. Kwaye hayi, isithandathu asiyomithwalo. Kwanele nje.”
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