Nkhani Yachikondi ya Ryan ndi Eric
Ryan: Tidakumana kudzera ku Scruff (ngakhale timakonda kuuza anthu omwe tidakumana nawo pa intaneti lol) ndipo titacheza kwa masiku angapo tidaganiza zokumana maso pa 4/14/18. Tonse tinali kudwala nyengo yachisanu ndikuyesera kuti tilowemo, kotero tinali kuyenda mu Minneapolis skyway system. Zachidziwikire, tidayiwala kuti tikukhala ku Minnesota ndipo chimphepo chowopsa cham'nyengo yachisanu chinagunda tsiku lomwelo lomwe tidayenera kukumana nalo. Koma, Eric adawona kuti misewu yayikulu mwina ili bwino, ndipo motsutsana ndi malingaliro a yemwe amakhala naye Ryan, tidayenda kudutsa mumphepo yamkuntho kupita kumzinda wa Minneapolis.
Tinkayenda ndikuyenda, kukambirana za moyo, pasitala, zokonda mu nyimbo ndi ziwonetsero, kugawana kuseka koyipa pamene anthu adagwa ndi chipale chofewa kunja ... tsikuli linali losavuta ngati tikudziwana kale. Pambuyo pa maola a 3 + zinkawoneka ngati zanzeru kuyesa kuyendetsa galimoto kunyumba, ndikupsompsonana molota m'galimoto yoimika magalimoto, ndinadziwa kuti ndikwatiwa ndi munthu wodabwitsa uyu yemwe adangokumana naye.
Chiwonetsero Choyamba
Ryan: Ndidafika koyamba ndikuwona Eric akutsika mmwamba kupita kumalo olandirira alendo kunja kwa Target. Eric amawoneka wokongola kwambiri pamunthu ... komanso womasuka pamavalidwe ake achangu. Ndinazindikira kuti mnyamatayu anali wotsimikiza pamene amatanthauza kuti akufuna kukayenda, ndipo ndinanong'oneza bondo chovala chokongola (chotentha kwambiri) chomwe anaganiza kuvala. Eric anali wosavuta kulankhula naye ndipo maso ake ankasonyeza kukoma mtima kwake.
Eric: Nthawi yomweyo Eric anaona kumwetulira komanso khalidwe lake losasamala.
Yambani chibwenzi
Ryan: Tinakumananso tsiku lotsatira (titachoka pansi pa 20 + mainchesi a chipale chofewa) ndipo mwamsanga tinalowa m'chizoloŵezi chokhala pamodzi masiku angapo pa sabata, ndiyeno zambiri, ndi zina. Zinamveka bwino, ndipo ndimafuna kukhala pafupi ndi Eric momwe ndingathere ndikumupatsa Eric danga ankafuna.
Zovuta pozindikira kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha
Ryan: Ndinauza Eric kwa anzanga mwamsanga ndiponso makolo anga patapita miyezi ingapo atabwera kudzacheza. Eric anatenga nthaŵi pang’ono, ndipo panali zokayikitsa, koma kwa okondedwa athu ambiri, zinali zoonekeratu kuti tinali kusamalana ndi mmene tinalili achimwemwe.
Maina a mayina
Ryan: Ndimamutcha Eric Babe kwambiri…
Mikangano
Ryan: Ndizosamvetseka, koma sitikangana. Chokhacho chomwe timakangana mwakachetechete ndichoti ndani azidzuka pakati pausiku kuti atulutse kalulu akamalira. Kubadwa kwina kumakambitsirana zinthu zomwe tikumva ndipo zimayendera limodzi ndi kuyenda.
Kutsatsa
Ryan: Zaka 2 pambuyo pake, tikukhala ndi mwana wathu Lola, ndipo tikukamba kale za ulendo wathu woberekera, tinaganiza kuti inali nthawi yoti tikwatirane madzulo ena pabwalo lathu. Izo sizinali zonyezimira, pansi pa bondo limodzi ndi a mphete m'manja ngati mphindi, koma zinali zangwiro komanso zosangalatsa chimodzimodzi.
Mapulani aukwati ndi kukonzekera
Ryan: Tikuyenera kukwatirana pa 12/19/2020 koma zachisoni chifukwa cha Covid-19 adayimitsa tsikulo kukhala 4/17/2021. Ukhala madzulo ang'onoang'ono, okondana kwambiri pamalo odyera odziwika bwino, afamu ndi tebulo ku South Minneapolis.
Kukonzekera.
Ryan: Tinasankha malowo ( Copper Hen) ndi woimba (Joshua Schmidt) poyamba, ndikuyamba kugwira ntchito ina. Ogulitsa kuchokera pamenepo, kuyankhulana ojambula, ojambula mavidiyo, kujambula zithunzi zachinkhoswe, kuyesa ma tuxedos, ndi zina zotero. Zinali zoonekeratu kuti timafunikira katswiri kuti atithandize pokwaniritsa masomphenya athu, kotero tinalemba ganyu wotsogolera ukwati wodabwitsa (Whitney James Events).
Amalankhula ndi ogulitsa.
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Mavenda athu aukwati
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