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NKHANI YACHIKONDI YOKHUDZA MTIMA YA ADRIAN NDI TOBY

Adrian, wazaka 35, amagwira ntchito m'boma ndipo Toby, wazaka 27, amaphunzira Mbiri Yakale ndi Chingerezi pa digiri yophunzitsa. Amuna awiriwa omwe akumwetulira ndi dzuwa ochokera ku Germany anakumana mu 2016. Tinawapempha kuti afotokoze nkhani zaumwini chifukwa timachita chidwi kwambiri ndi moyo wawo wowala wodzaza ndi chimwemwe ndi chikondi.

NKHANI YA MMENE TIMAKOMANA

Adrian ndi ine tinakumana pa chibwenzi app ndipo kwenikweni anatenga kanthawi tisanakumane munthu payekha. Koma patapita nthawi tinagwirizana kuti tizipitako. Kunena zowona, madzulo amenewo mu Ogasiti 2016, sindinali wokonzeka kupita tsiku limenelo. Koma Adrian anandinyengerera kuti tidye chakudya chamadzulo pamodzi, zomwe zinachititsa kuti ndiphike kukhitchini kwake. Tinali ndi madzulo abwino, koma tonse tinali ndi malingaliro, sitikufanana kwenikweni. Chifukwa chake palibe amene adatumizira mnzake mameseji.

M’milungu itatu yotsatira, ndinakhala ngati ndamusowa Adrian ndipo ndinali kudzifunsa mmene alili. Iye ankawoneka bwino kwambiri, ngakhale kuti tonsefe tinali kukhala pa mapulaneti osiyanasiyana panthawiyi. Ndinamutumizira uthenga. Ndinamufunsa ndipo Adrian anavomeradi. Kuyambira pamenepo, onse aŵiri anayamba kuzindikira kuti timakondana wina ndi mnzake ndipo timayamba kukondana pang’onopang’ono. Tidakhala ovomerezeka pa Seputembara 17, 2016, m'mwezi umodzi ndi theka kuyambira tsiku lathu loyamba. Mu 2017 tinasamukira limodzi ndipo pa 6 December 2019 tinakwatirana.

TONSE TIKONDA

Tonse timakonda kuyenda, makamaka ku US. Takhala paulendo wapamsewu ku California, womwe unali tchuthi chathu chachikulu choyambilira pamodzi mmbuyo mu 2017. Zinakonzedwa kuti tikachezere kugombe lakum'mawa chaka chatha, koma chifukwa cha mliri tinayenera kuletsa mapulani athu. Koma Germany ili ndi magombe abwino, nawonso! Komanso timakonda maulendo apanjinga, makonsati, kukumana ndi abwenzi komanso kuphika.

LAMULO LATHU

Maubale onse ali ndi mavuto, tinalinso nawo. Koma tili ndi lamulo limodzi, ngati muli ndi vuto ndi chilichonse lankhulani. Kenako timayamba kukambirana za vutolo, kodi vutolo limachokera kuti ndipo tingatani kuti tithetse vutoli. Ubale umagwira ntchito ngati mumalankhulana ndi mnzanu ndipo ndizomwe timachita. Ndipo inde, ubale umafuna ntchito, tsiku ndi tsiku.

Chinanso chomwe timachita ndikuti timakondwerera tsiku la 17 la mwezi uliwonse. Timachitcha kuti chaka chathu cha mwezi uliwonse. Tili ndi chakudya chabwino kumalo odyera apamwamba kwambiri ndipo timangosangalala limodzi, tonse awiri. Umu ndi mmene timasungira chikondi chathu kukhala chaching’ono, posonyeza nthawi zonse kuti timakondana kwambiri.

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