7 Kuverenga Kwerudo kune LGBTQ+ Mhemberero

Tinoda aya ane kufunga, anofamba uye ane rudo kuverenga kweLGBTQ+ mitambo yemuchato.

naBrittny Drye

Kuverenga kunogona kupinza hunhu uye rudo mumhemberero asi, zvinobvumwa, zvinogona kuoma kuwana vanyori vakadetemba nenzira isina kwayakarerekera kune murume kana mukadzi. Takatora kuverenga kunomwe kwakakodzera mhemberero kubva munhetembo dzedu dzatinofarira, mabhuku evana uye kunyange mitongo yedare, inopemberera rudo, inorerekera kunharaunda yeLGBTQ+ uye inoratidza vakaroorana kumativi ose.

1. Musi waChikumi 26, 2015, Mutongi wedare repamusoro reUnited States, Anthony Kennedy, akaverenga pfungwa dzeruzhinji dzakachinja hupenyu hwemamiriyoni evaAmerica, zvichiunza kuenzana kwewanano munyika yose. Kutonga uku kwakanga kusiri kwenhoroondo chete, kwaiva kudetemba chaiko.

“Hakuna mubatanidzwa wakadzama zvikuru kupfuura roorano, nokuti inobatanidza mirangariro yakakwirira zvikurusa yorudo, kuvimbika, kuzvipira, kuzvipira, uye mhuri. Mukuumba mubatanidzwa weroorano, vanhu vaviri vanova chimwe chinhu chikuru kupfuura zvavaimboita. Sezvinoratidzwa nevamwe vevachemberi munyaya idzi, muchato unoratidza rudo runogona kutsungirira kunyange rufu rwapfuura. Zvaisanzwisisa varume nevakadzi ava kutaura kuti havaremekedze pfungwa yewanano. Chikumbiro chavo ndechokuti varuremekedze, varuremekedze zvikuru zvokuti vanotsvaka kuzviwanira kuzadzika kwarwo. Tarisiro yavo haisi yokutongerwa kugara vakasurukirwa, vasingabatanidzwi mune rimwe remasangano ekare ebudiriro. Vanokumbira kuremekedzwa kwakaenzana mumaziso emutemo. Bumbiro remutemo rinovapa kodzero iyoyo.”

-Mutongi Anthony Kennedy, Hodges v. Obergefell

2. Zvichifungidzirwa kuva ngochani kana kuti bisexual, zvinyorwa zvaWalt ​​Whitman zvakanyorwa kuti zvinotsamwisa nguva yavo. Asi chikamu chekupedzisira mu "Rwiyo rweMugwagwa Wakavhurika" chinomutsa chiitiko cherudo chinokatyamadza-uye chii chakanyanya kufadza kupfuura nekufara?

"Camerado, ndinokupa ruoko rwangu!

Ndinokupa rudo rwangu rwakakosha kudarika mari!

Ndinokupai ini pachangu ndisati ndaparidzira kana murayiro;

Uchandipa here iwe? Muchauya kuzofamba neni here?

Tichanamatirana mazuva ose here?

-Walt Whitman, ".Rwiyo rweMugwagwa Wakavhurika”

3. Basa raMary Oliver rinobatanidza rudo, zvisikwa uye mhemberero, uye akakurudzirwa zvikuru pakufamba-famba pamba pake muProvincetown, Massachusetts, iyo yaakagoverana nemumwe wake, Molly Cook, kwemakore 40 kusvika pakufa kwaCook muna 2005.

“Patinenge tichityaira murima,

mumugwagwa wakareba unoenda kuProvincetown,

kana taneta.

apo zvivakwa nemapaini ekukorobha zvinorasikirwa nechitarisiko chavo chavanoziva,

Ndinofungidzira tichisimuka kubva mumotokari yaimhanya.

Ini ndinofungidzira isu tichiona zvese kubva kune imwe nzvimbo-

pamusoro peimwe yemadutu akacheneruka, kana kuti yakadzika uye isina zita

minda yegungwa.

Uye izvo zvatinoona inyika isingakwanise kutikoshesa,

asi izvo zvatinokoshesa.

Uye chatinoona hupenyu hwedu huchifamba saizvozvo

kumativi erima ezvose,

marambi ekutsvaira rima,

kutenda muchuru chezvinhu zvisina kusimba uye zvisingagoneki.

Kutarisira kusuwa,

kunonoka kuunza mufaro,

kuita majana ese akarurama

kudzika kusvika kumigumo yegungwa,

masaisai anotenderera,

migwagwa yakamanikana, dzimba,

zvakapfuura, ramangwana,

musuwo waro

kwandiri newe."

-Mary Oliver, "Kuuya kumba"

4. Mutongo we 2015 SCOTUS usati waitwa, mutongo wedare repamusoro soro reMassachusetts wakaita kuti nyika ive yekutanga kubvuma zviri pamutemo kuroorana kwengochani ndiyo yaive yakakurumbira kuverenga panguva. ngochani muchato mhemberero. Inoramba iri pamusoro pechinyorwa chekuverenga, kunyanya kune vakaroorana vanoda kuratidza nhoroondo yekuenzana mumhemberero yavo.

“Muchato isangano rinokosha revanhu. Kuzvipira kwega kwevanhu vaviri kune mumwe nemumwe kunosimudzira rudo uye kutsigirana; kunounza kugadzikana munharaunda yedu. Kune avo vanosarudza kuroora, uye kuvana vavo, roorano inopa kuwanda kwezvibatsiro zvepamutemo, zvemari, uye zvenzanga. Mukudzoka kunoisa zvisungo zvakakura zvemutemo, zvemari, uye zvemagariro….Pasina mubvunzo, kuroorana kwehurumende kunosimudzira 'garikano yenharaunda.' Iyo 'social institution yakakosha zvakanyanya…

Roorano inopawo zvikomborero zvakakura zvikuru zvomunhu oga uye zvenzanga kune avo vanosarudza kuroora. Muchato wehurumende kamwe kamwe kuzvipira kwakadzama kwemunhu kune mumwe munhu uye kupemberera kuri pachena kwezvinangwa zvekubatana, kufambidzana, hukama hwepedyo, kuvimbika, uye mhuri…. Nemhaka yokuti inozadzika zvishuvo zvechengeteko, nzvimbo yakakotsekana, uye batano izvo zvinoratidzira hunhu hwedu tose, roorano yehurumende isangano rinokosheswa, uye chisarudzo chokuroora kana kuti ndiani chiri pakati pezviito zvinokosha zvoupenyu zvokuzvitsanangura.”

-Mutongi Margaret Marshall, Goodridge v. Department of Public Health

5. Yakatorwa kubva mubhuku rine mukurumbira reYA Wild Awake, chidimbu ichi chinogona kududzirwa semhemberero yekuzivikanwa kwevanhu, uye rwendo rwekuva iwe pachako, zvisinei kuti pangava papi pane gender-identity spectrum, uye kuwana kuti munhu anokosha anokuda kuti uri iwe.

“Vanhu vakaita semaguta: Tese tine mikoto nemapindu uye matenga edzimba akavanzika uye nzvimbo dzinomera maruva pakati pemitswe yenzira, asi nguva zhinji chatinongoonana chete chiratidziro chepositikadhi chedenga kana kuti sikweya yakakwenenzverwa. Rudo runoita kuti utsvage nzvimbo dzakahwanda mune mumwe munhu, nyangwe dziya dzavaisaziva kuti dziripo, nyangwe nedzavaisazofunga kuzviti dzakanaka.

—Hilary T. Smith, Wild Awake

6. Uku kuverenga kubva mubhuku revana The Velveteen Tsuro inonyanya kufarirwa pakati pe LGBTQ vakaroora, nekuda kweiyo isiri-yevakadzi verbiage. Tinoda zano remwana ari kuverenga izvi, kune imwezve kubata kwe "awww."

"Chii chinonzi REAL?" akabvunza Tsuro rimwe zuva vakazvambarara pedyo nepanokwirirwa vana, Nanna asati auya kuzorongedza mumba. "Zvinoreva here kuva nezvinhu zvinobhowa mukati mako uye mubato unonamira kunze?"

“Chaizvoizvo handiwo masikirwo awakaitwa,” akadaro Skin Horse. “Chinhu chinoitika kwauri. Kana mwana akakuda kwenguva yakareba, kwete yokungotamba naye chete, asi anokuda ZVACHOKWADI, ipapo unova Chaiye.”

"Zvinorwadza here?" akabvunza Tsuro.

“Dzimwe nguva,” akadaro Skin Horse, nokuti aitaura chokwadi nguva dzose. "Kana uri Wechokwadi hauna hanya nekukuvadzwa."

"Zvinoitika kamwechete, sekunge kuvharwa," akabvunza, "kana zvishoma nezvishoma?"

“Hazviitike kamwe chete,” akadaro Skin Horse. “Iwe unova. Zvinotora nguva yakareba. Ndicho chikonzero nei zvisingawanzo kuitika kune vanhu vanotsemuka nyore nyore, kana vane mipendero yakapinza, kana vanofanira kunyatsochengetwa. Kazhinji, panguva yaunenge uri Chaiyo, vhudzi rako rakawanda rave richida kubva, uye maziso ako anodonha uye unosunungurwa mumajoini ako uye shabby yakanyanya. Asi zvinhu izvi hazvina basa zvachose, nekuti kana wava Chaiye chete haungave wakashata, kunze kwevanhu vasinganzwisise.

—Margery Williams, The Velveteen Tsuro

7. Pane zvakawanda zvakatorwa nenhetembo zvatingagona kudhonza kubva kune ane mukurumbira mudetembi uye murwiri wekodzero dzengochani Maya Angelou anonzwa akasununguka pamhemberero, asi madingindira eushingi nerudo ari maari "Touched by an Angel" prose yakanaka, uye. zviri pachena, sarudzo ye LGBTQ vakaroorana. 

“Isu, hatina kujaira kushinga

vakadzingwa kubva mumafaro

kugara wakaputirwa mumakwati ekusurukirwa

kusvikira rudo ruchisiya temberi yaro tsvene yakakwirira

uye anouya pamberi pedu

kutisunungura muhupenyu.

Rudo runosvika

uye muchitima chayo munouya mafaro

ndangariro dzekare dzemafaro

nhoroondo dzekare dzemarwadzo.

Asi kana tine ushingi.

rudo runobvisa ngetani dzokutya

kubva mumweya yedu.

Takarumurwa kubva mukunyara kwedu

Mukupenya kwechiedza cherudo

tinoshinga kushinga

Uye pakarepo tinoona

kuti rudo runodhura zvose zvatiri

uye zvicharamba zvakadaro.

Asi rudo chete

izvo zvinotisunungura.”

-Maya Angelou, "Akabatwa neNgirozi"

Brittny Drye ndiye muvambi uye mupepeti mukuru we Rudo Inc., bhaibheri remuchato rakaenzana rinopemberera zvose zvakananga uye rudo rwepabonde, zvakaenzana.