Amanda Ford kunye noAmanda Whittle
Amanadas ama-2, imiphefumlo emi-2, iintliziyo ezi-2 kunye noThando olunye lweZimbini.
Uthando kwiTinder lukhona!
UAmanda Ford kunye noAmanda Whittle badibana eTinder ngaphezulu kweminyaka emi-5 eyadlulayo. UAmanda W. usuka eMzantsi Carolina kwaye uAmanda F. usuka eNew York. Bobabini bafudukela eFlorida ngenxa yemisebenzi yabo. Babeqala ngqa ukujola bobabini nomntu obhinqileyo.
Umhla wokuQala kunye nokuBoniwa kokuQala
Ngokwenyani, yayingengomhla ekuqaleni, nje kwinto yokuba Amanda W. profile wathi ufuna abahlobo. Kwaye inokuba njalo, kuba usanda kufudukela eFlorida.
Umhla wabo wokuqala yayikuhambo lukaFudo eJuno Beach, eFlorida apho babebukele ufudo lwaselwandle lubeka amaqanda alo.
Umboniso wokuqala ka-Amanda's Ford waseNew York:
“Usuka eMzantsi Carolina mna ndisuka eNew York. Sobabini safudukela eFlorida ngenxa yemisebenzi yethu. Xa sadibana okokuqala yena kakhulu reserved kwaye cwaka ngakumbi kunam. Ebengazimiselanga kwaphela ukuthetha nam okanye ukuba sexesheni. Xa wayethetha amazwi akhe ayenzima kangangokuba kwakunzima ukumqonda.”
Eka Amanda Encinci umbono wokuqala ukusuka South Carolina: "Ilizwi lakhe lalitswina kwaye linzima."
Ubunzima bokuqonda njengesibini esithandanayo esinabazali okanye abahlobo
Kuba yayilixesha lokuqala bobabini bajola nabafazi yaba yinguqu enkulu. Ekuqaleni bobabini abazali babo, ngaphandle kuka-Amanda's F. mama, babenengxaki enkulu ngayo. Abahlobo babo babephole ngokupheleleyo kuyo kwaye namanye amalungu osapho lwabo nawo. Kodwa ngoku bobabini abazali babo bafika benombulelo!
Isindululo esiphindiweyo
U-Amanada W. wathatha uAmanda F. wabuyela elwandle babenomhla wabo wokuqala. U-Amanda W. wamisa ipiknikhi entle ekutshoneni kwelanga, wenza uluhlu lokudlala lwazo zonke iingoma ezichaza ubudlelwane babo kude kube lelo xesha. Ucebise kuqala kodwa u-Amanada F. wayemthengele iringi kwiintsuku ezimbini ngaphambi koko kwaye wayebhukishele uhambo kusuku emva kokuba enze isindululo sokuya eBoston apho waye wamisela yonke into ukuze amcebise. UAmanda F. wamsa eProvincetown, MA waza wamcenga kwiintsuku ezimbalwa emva kokuba emcelile.
Ukungakhululeki emtshatweni
UAmanda F. wayengakhululekanga ncam emtshatweni wabo. Abafoti babenze ukuba benze izinto ezininzi zokufota imifanekiso yayingengabo ngokwenene. Mhlawumbi yayingamava abo okuqala besenza imitshato kunye namabhinqa athandana namanye ngoko ayengazi ncam ukuba mawabeke njani.
Izithethe zeNtsapho
Ukusukela nge-2-12 kaSeptemba baneholide yabo ebizwa ngokuba “ziintsuku zobumnyama zaseQuattlebaum.” Le yinja yabo iQuattlebaum yabaleka kwiminyaka emibini eyadlulayo xa babesekhefini kwaye abantu abahlala nabo babeyijongile. Inja ibilahlekile kangangeentsuku ezili-10. Babhabha besuka eMontana besiya kumkhangela kwaye isithuba esingaphezu kweveki bagalela igazi, umbilo neenyembezi bemkhangela. Ekugqibeleni ngomhla weshumi umntu obone enye yeeflaya zabo wakwazi ukumbamba kwaye baphinda badibana. Ebudeni bezo ntsuku zilishumi bancama into yokukhumbula ixesha elibuhlungu abaphulukene nalo kwaye babulele ukuba ulapha kunye nabo ngoku.
Iimvakalelo kunye nokulindela
Amanda F.
“Sisanda kufudukela kuMntla-mpuma sisuka eFlorida ngoko sonwabe kakhulu ukubeka iingcambu. Ndijonge phambili kumaxesha onyaka kwakhona kwaye ndicinga ukuba uAmanda uyakuvuyela ukuva ikhephu kubomi bakhe bemihla ngemihla. Lixesha elichulumancisayo ngokwenene, yonke imihla ndiziva ngathi ndiphila iphupha kuba ndinezinto ezininzi kunokuba bendicinga ukuba nazo.”
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