MUSA UXINEZELEKO: INDLELA YOKWEHLISA UXINEZELEKO LWESICWANGCISO
Siyazi ukuba luxinzelelo kangakanani ixesha lokucwangcisa ngaphambi kosuku lokuqala lwesibini sakho kwaye ungakhathazeki siyazi ukuba singakunceda njani. Kweli nqaku uya kufumana amacebiso ngendlela yokunciphisa uxinzelelo lwakho lomtshato.
1. Hlala ulungelelanisa
Indlela yokucwangcisa yomntu wonke yahlukile, ngoko ke kubalulekile ukufumana okukusebenzelayo. Ungasebenzisa i-Equally Wed's LGBTQ+ izixhobo zomtshato ezibandakanyayo, uluhlu lwezinto eziza kwenziwa, ispredishithi, ikhalenda kaGoogle, ifolda yeaccordion, okanye uthenge umququzeleli wocwangciso lomtshato.
Nokuba uthatha ntoni na isigqibo, ukugcina umkhondo wokuba yeyiphi imisebenzi ekufuneka yenziwe ngowuphi umhla kunokuba yinto enkulu yokuphelisa uxinzelelo. Kunokuba luncedo ukuyibona yonke ibhaliwe ukuze imisebenzi ingaqhubi entlokweni yakho imini yonke. Ngaphandle koko, akukho nto eyanelisayo njengokuwela into kololuhlu.
2. Cela Uncedo
Wena neqabane lakho akufuneki niyenze le nto nodwa. Ukuba konke kuvakala ngathi kuninzi, fikelela kubahlobo, usapho kunye Nabathengisi ukubona ukuba ngubani onokwabelana nomnye womthwalo wokucwangcisa.
Ukuba kuhlahlo lwabiwo-mali, cinga ngokuqesha umcwangcisi womtshato okanye umququzeleli wosuku ngokunjalo. Banokuba ngumdlalo omkhulu wokutshintsha.
3. Ukuqesha abathengisi abaBandakanyayo
Qinisekisa ukuba abathengisi okhetha ukusebenza nabo LGBTQ +-iquka. (Khangela i-LGBTQ+ equka abathengisi bomtshato abakufutshane nawe.) Ngokufanelekileyo, kufuneka babe namava okusebenza kunye ne-LGBTQ + izibini. Kukho umahluko omkhulu phakathi kokuvuma nje ukusebenza nawe nokuba nemincili, ukufundisa nokuba namava. Ukukhangela abathengisi kwasekuqaleni kuya kuqinisekisa ukuba awuzukujongana nokungazi okanye ukungahloneli nangaliphi na ixesha kulo lonke uhambo lwakho lokucwangcisa umtshato.
4. Yiba Bhetyebhetye
Wena kunye neqabane lakho ningavumelani kuyo yonke into ngomtshato. Kubalulekile ukuba uzimisele ukugoba umbono wakho ukuze udibanise nowabo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, kukho imiba ethile yomtshato ebaluleke ngakumbi okanye engaphantsi kuwe. Yenza uluhlu lwezinto eziphambili zakho kwaye ucele iqabane lakho lenze okufanayo. Ngaloo ndlela, unokuba nombono weendawo apho kunokubaluleka kakhulu ukunika indlela iqabane lakho eliyifunayo, kwaye banokwenza okufanayo nakuwe.
5. Chitha ixesha elingacwangciswanga kunye neqabane lakho
Kungaba lula ukuba ugqitywe kwisicwangciso somtshato ukuba ulibale sonke isizathu sokuba utshatile okokuqala indawo: Uyathanda ukuchitha ixesha neqabane lakho. Zama ukubekela bucala ixesha qho ngeveki apho nichitha ixesha kunye ningathethi ngomtshato. Oku kuya kukukhumbuza ukuba kutheni uyenza kwasekuqaleni kwaye kuya kukunceda ubone ukuba eyona nto ibalulekileyo ekugqibeleni kukuba nobabini nitshatile.
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