INDLELA YOKUBA LULUNDWE ELIQHELEKILEYO KUMTSHATO we-LGBTQ
Ukuba uceba ukuya kwi real Umtshato weLGBTQ, kwaye unamathandabuzo malunga nesigama okanye imithetho kolu hlobo lweziganeko, eli nqaku linokukunceda ukuba ube lundwendwe olugqibeleleyo kwi-LGBTQ yokwenene yomtshato.
1. UNGAJONGISI NGOMTSHATO NJENGETHEKO
Ngokuqinisekileyo ayingomsitho, umsitho wokuzibophelela okanye umbhiyozo, ngumtshato. Kwaye ngeli thuba ndikuloo nto, musa ukubhekisa kuwo nawuphi na umtshato njengepati; nokuba ithe ngqo okanye i-LGBT+. Inokunika abantu ingcamango yokuba awuwuthathi umtshato wabo kunye / okanye ubudlelwane njengento ebaluleke kakhulu njengoko unokuthatha abanye.
Esi sibini ngokungathandabuzekiyo sityale umzamo omkhulu, ixesha kunye nezixhobo kusuku lwabo olukhulu. Yiba nolwazelelelo ukuba ungalonakalisi kubo ngokulibiza ngenye into ngaphandle kwale nto likuyo.
2. YIMA UZE UCINGE PHAMBI KOKUBA USEBENZISE IMIGAQO YOBUNI
Ungazazi okanye ungazi izigama ezichanekileyo onokuthi uzisebenzise malunga okanye kumtshato weLGBT+; ukungazi, ukungazi, kunye nokuziva ungakhululekanga konke oko kunokuthetha ukuba akuyazi indlela yokubiza amagama kwincoko ngokubanzi.
Kodwa awukwazi ukukhetha nje ukugqabhuza isigama semveli, isini esingangqalanga kwesi sibini. Ingabonisa ukuba ubungabakhathalelanga ngokwaneleyo ukufunda ukuba zeziphi izimelabizo kunye nolwimi olubafaneleyo.
3. FUNDA ISIGAMA ESILUNGILEYO
Sonke isibini, nokuba yi-LGBT + okanye ngqo, sinokukhetha kwabo.
Ukuqhelana ngokuyintloko nezibini ezithe tye kwixesha elidlulileyo kuthetha ukuba isigama kunye nolwimi olubhekiselele kubo luza ngokwemvelo kuwe. Nangona kunjalo, kuya kufuneka uphande malunga neendlela ezahlukeneyo zokuqhelaniswa nesini phambi kokuba uye kumtshato weLGBT +. Oku kubonisa ukuba uyasihlonipha eso sibini.
Ukuphulaphula ngenyameko isibini kunye nokunamathela kwisigama esifanayo ngumbono olungileyo.
Ukwenza ireferensi, kulula kakhulu ukusebenzisa amagama okuqala amaqabane okanye ukubhekisa kubo njengesibini, izithandwa, wena/aba/abo babini okanye esi sibini.
Kodwa ukuba unobudlelwane obuhle nabo (endiyathemba ukuba unabo xa umenyiwe emtshatweni wabo) kwaye awazi, BUZA kubo ukuba bakhetha ziphi izimelabizo (yena, yena, bona, bona). ).
4. MUSUKUTHI “NIFANA NASEZINYE IZIBINI”
Usenokuziva unemfesane ngequbuliso kwinto eyenziwa zizibini ze-LGBT +, kodwa imitshato ayisosihlandlo sifanelekileyo sokwabelana ngesityhilelo sakho.
Ukuhambisa iimvakalelo zakho kwizincomo zokwenyani ezinje, "Ndinivuyela kakhulu" kwamkelekile kwaye kufanelekile. Akuyomfuneko ukuba wenze kucace ukuba ubukhe wacinga ukuba ahlukile komnye umntu.
5. LUNGISELELA UKUBONA IIMTHETHO ZOMTSHATO EZINGAVUMI ZEMVELI
Usenokuba ufumene izithethe zesini kuphela kwixesha elidlulileyo. Ngokomzekelo, usenokuba uye wambona kuphela uyise womtshakazi ehamba naye esihla ngepaseji ngexesha lomngcelele.
Kumtshato we-LGBT + unokubona enye okanye akukho nanye, kuxhomekeke kukhetho lwesibini - zama ukugcina ingqondo evulekile.
Ukuba unethamsanqa, unokungqina isilo-qabane esithandekayo njenge ngqinela umthwali. Ewe, imitshato ye-LGBT + mihle ngolo hlobo, kunye nezongezo ezifana nemitshato yobuhlobo kunye ne-DIY bouquets njl.
6. UNGALISEBENZISI IKHADI LE-RSVP UKUVAKALISA UVO LWAKHO
Ungasoloko ukhetha ukungayi kumtshato weLGBT + ukuba awukhululekanga.
Esi sibini sikumeme ukuba ube yinxalenye yosuku lwaso kuba sikholelwa ukuba uyaluxhasa umanyano lwaso emtshatweni. Ukuba awufuni ukuya, ungasala ngembeko isimemo. Nangona kunjalo, musa ukusebenzisa i-RSVP yakho ukuchaza izizathu zakho zokuba kutheni ungayi.
7. UNGAWWWONA MTSHATO OKANYE UZIZE ONGAMENYWAYO.
Unokuba nomdla nje ngemitshato ye-LGBT + kwaye kulungile.
Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo akulunganga ukuwisa umtshato ongamenywanga kuwo. Kananjalo, musa ukuzisa umntu ogama lakhe lingakhankanywanga kwisimemo esithunyelwe kuwe.
Hlonipha ukhetho lwesibini.
8.THENGA AMAKHADI NEZIPHO EZINGAZIPHIYO
Awunakusuka nje ucinge ukuba wonke umtshato unomyeni nomtshakazi. Jonga ngokusondeleyo isimemo somtshato kwaye uya kuqaphela isigama esithandwayo sesi sibini.
Ungakhangela kwi-intanethi izipho ezilungiselelwe wena okanye ngcono nangoku, zenzele ezakho! Zininzi izixhobo ezithetha ixesha elide malunga nesipho somtshato seLGBTIQ izimvo.
9. HLONIPHA UKHETHA LWESIBINI NGOMbala OKANYE UMONGO
Imitshato ye-LGBT + inokugcwala umbala kunye nobuchule. Isenokuba ngumtshato ongafakwanga kwiplagi okanye umtshato onesihloko sevintage, kodwa nceda unamathele kukhetho lwababuki zindwendwe bakho. Isibini simele ukuba sigqibe ngomxholo obalisa ngaso nebali laso. Yiba nobulumko kwaye uwuhloniphe umxholo wabo womtshato. Akusoloko kufuneka uthenge impahla entsha, cinga ngokuboleka okanye ukuqesha impahla okanye ubuncinane uzame ukuphinda into efana nombala okanye umxholo oceliweyo.
10. LIHLONIPHELE IMFIHLO YESIBINI
Esi sibini siya kuba namava oxinzelelo olufanelekileyo ngosuku lwaso olukhulu; awufuni ukongeza kuyo. Inkxalabo yakho kunye nabakhenkethi iyaqondakala, kodwa asiyonto iphambili kwi usuku lomtshato. Ungabuza isibini imibuzo yakho emva koko xa bekwingqondo ekhululekileyo.
11. MUSA UKWABELANA NGEMFANEKISO ZESIBINI PHAMBI KOKUBA SENZE
Uninzi lwezibini zisenokungakhululeki ukwabelana nazo iifoto kwimidiya yoluntu. Kungcono ukubuza ngaphambi kokuba wabelane ngeefoto zabo kwi-intanethi.
12. MUSA UKUTHETHA IZINTO EZIFANA NEZINTO EZIFANELEKILEYO.
Amanye amazwe kunye namazwe asenokungawugqali ngokusemthethweni umtshato, kodwa iseyinyani kakhulu kwisibini. Qonda ukuba, kubo, lo mtshato unokuba yinyani njengoko uya kuze ufumane.
Yiba novelwano kwaye uxhase iinjongo zabo kunye nobudlelwane babo nangaluphi na uhlobo oluthathayo.
13. YENZA ISIBINI UKUBA UBAKHONZA KWAYE UBAHLONIPHE NGENXA ABAYIYO.
Izibini ze-LGBT + ziye zadlula kakhulu kwixesha elidlulileyo kwaye kwiimeko ezininzi, zisalwela ukulingana namhlanje. Unokwaziswa okanye ungazi, kodwa njengomhlobo okanye ilungu losapho, kufuneka ubaxhase, nangona kunjalo. Qinisekisa ukuba ubonisa ukuba ubakhathalele kwaye uyabahlonela ngenkalipho yabo.
14. UKUBA AKUNANTO EMNANDI ONOKUYITHETHA
Kulungile ukuba nezimvo zakho, kodwa akulunganga ukuzithetha ngokuvakalayo ukuba kubuhlungu umntu. Gcina izimvo kunye neengcinga zakho kuwe ngaphandle kokuba uqinisekile ukuba ayizukumenzakalisa omnye umntu.
15. UNGAKUNXAKI KAKHULU
Kulula kakhulu ukuhamba ngokuqukwayo kunye nokubhiyozelwa komtshato we-LGBT + kwaye ube nesantya esiphezulu, ngokukhawuleza okukhulu. Uya kuzisola kamva. Kodwa ukuba uyakwenza, qiniseka ukuba ucela uxolo kwesi sibini.
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