Isibini se-Queer softball-UDANIELLE NOCarolyn
Ibhola ekhatywayo. uthando lokuqala. amava okuqala kunye nomfazi
UDanielle wadibana noCarolyn kwimidlalo ye-softball. Yayisisihlandlo sokuqala uDanielle wajola nentombazana. Kwaye wayengaziqondi kakuhle zonke iimvakalelo awayenazo. UDanielle wakhawuleza watsaleleka kuye.
Ukudibana kokuqala kunye nokuQiniseka kokuQala
Umbono wokuqala kaDanielle kaCarolyn
UDanielle wayenamandla malunga noCarolyn awayengenako ukufumana okwaneleyo. Emva kwemidlalo emininzi ye-softball, iqela liya kusela isiselo emva kokuba uDanielle ehlala elinde emotweni de wabona uCarolyn engena kwindawo yokupaka ukuze bahambe kunye :)) Wayefuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba bahlala ecaleni komnye nomnye. ibha!
Umbono wokuqala kaCarolyn ngoDanielle
Ngaphambi kokudibana noDanielle Carolyn udade wabo wadibana naye kuba wayedlala kwiqela le-softball. Uxelele uCarolyn ukuba kukho umntu kwiqela awayecinga ukuba uCarolyn angathanda. Xa uCarolyn wadibana noDanielle, ngokuqinisekileyo wayenomdla kuye, kodwa wayengekaphumi kwaye wayethandabuza ukungena kubudlelwane nomntu owayengekho kwintsapho kunye nabahlobo bakhe. Ekugqibeleni, akazange akwazi ukuxhathisa. Unobubele kwaye ungumntu osoloko ufuna ukuba naye ngenxa yokukhanya akuzisa kuyo yonke indibano.
Amanyathelo okuqala
Ngexesha lebhola ekhatywayo bakhawuleza baba ngabahlobo kwaye baqala ukuthumela imiyalezo yonke imihla. Okukhona bethetha kwaba kokukhona bevulelana iindlebe. UCarolyn wemka waya kuqeqesho lwakhe lootitshala beyoga kangangenyanga kwaye baxhonywa enye kwenye ngeveki awabuya ngayo kwaye waqhubeka esondela. Kungekudala emva kokuba izinto zaqala ukuba zinzima kakhulu kwaye emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa uCarolyn wacela uDanielle ukuba abe yintombi yakhe xa beyenziwe eMelika eFiladelphia ngokuthe ngqo emva kokubona uNick Jonas enza. UCarolyn wayenxibe icladdagh ngqinela kwaye waphendukela kuDanielle waza wambuza ukuba wayenokuyibeka ngendlela "efanelekileyo".
Okokuqala kiss. Ngomhla wokuzalwa kukaDanielle we-23rd ebhedini yakhe kwindlu yomzali wakhe. Yhuu...
Okokuqala - ndiyakuthanda! UCarolyn wayengowokuqala, wanika uDanielle intsimbi yeKrisimesi kwaye yathi "Ndiyakuthanda" kwikhowudi ye-morse. Walila xa wayeqala ukuyibalisa.
Ubunzima bokuqonda njengesibini esithandanayo esinabazali okanye abahlobo
UCarolyn wayeyintombazana yokuqala uDanielle owakha wathandana ngoko ewe oku kwakunzima. Ngokukhawuleza nje akuba uDanielle eqonda indlela awayevakalelwa ngayo ngaye, waqonda ukuba umele axelele intsapho nabahlobo bakhe. Ngokuqinisekileyo kwathatha iminyaka embalwa ukuba abazali bakhe bafike. Kodwa abahlobo bakhe babelungile. Yaye ngethamsanqa, ngoku intsapho yakuloDanielle inenkxaso enkulu. UCarolyn wayesele ephumile iminyaka eyi-5 ngoko intsapho yakhe yayihlala ilungile malunga nokuthandana kwabo!
Kwaye abazali bakaDanielle bahambe umgama omde kwaye babevuya kakhulu xa babethembisene ngomtshato. UCarolyn wayesoyika ukuxelela abazali bakaDanielle. Ucebe ukucebisa kodwa wathi incoko ibingcono kunokuba ebecinga.
Umkhwa ongaqhelekanga omnye komnye
D: "Sobabini sikhuphisana kakhulu kwaye sikuthiyile ukuphulukana. Xa sidlala imidlalo, nto leyo esiyenza kakhulu, umntu usoloko ecaphukile xa ephulukene nomnye uyachulumanca.”
Usuku lwesindululo
Bobabini bakhulela e-NJ kodwa bafudukela eDenver, CO ngoJulayi odlulileyo. UCarolyn wayefuna ukuba usapho lubekho xa ecela icebo, wakwenza oko xa bobabini babuyela eNJ kwiholide. UCarolyn wenze ugcino kwindawo yentselo eluphahleni ukuze “afumane iziselo” nodade wabo kunye nomlanya wakhe ngaphambi kokuba aye kootata bakhe kwisidlo sangokuhlwa ngobo busuku. Wenza isiphakamiso phezu kophahla. Udadewabo wabuza ukuba banokufumana na imifanekiso phaya phezulu kuba bekumnandi kakhulu.
Emva kokufumana umfanekiso wethu sisecaleni, uCarolyn waguqa ngamadolo waza wathi “Ngaba uyayazi indlela endikuthanda ngayo? Unganditshata?" Ngokuqinisekileyo wathi EWE (UDanielle naye wayenemvakalelo ezayo. UCarolyn akazange abuze imifanekiso!)
Bathe bakufika kootata bakaCarolyn ndothuka kukubona usapho lwam nalo! UCarolyn naye walungiselela ukuba umhlobo osenyongweni kaDanielle kunye neqabane lakhe beze kwaye bonke babhiyozela ukudibana ngobo busuku. Yayibubusuku obukhethekileyo kwaye kwakumnandi ukuba neentsapho zethu zombini kunye ukuze sibhiyozele. Umama kaCarolyn naye wanika uDanielle Carolyn umsesane wesicelo. Yayiyiringi kamakhulu wakhe kwaye uCarolyn wayeyibuyisele.
Izicwangciso zexesha elizayo
D: "Sikwinkqubo yokucwangcisa umtshato wethu ngoku. Sijonge u-2022 kuba sobabini siphuma kwiintsapho ezinkulu kwaye sifuna ukubhiyoza nomntu wonke."
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