Ibali leSindululo sokwenyani likaOlivia noAshley
INDLELA ESIHLANGANE NGAYO
U-ASH: Bendisandula ukubuya kuhambo lwam lwesithandathu lwaphesheya, ndaqhawuka, ndihlala kwindawo ethile ephezulu kwizinyuko zomhlobo, lol. Ngenye imini, ndandizimele kwihlabathi, ndifunda, kwaye u-Olivia weza kwindlu yalo mhlobo (intombi yakhe yangaphambili) (apho wayehlala kuyo kwiminyaka embalwa ngaphambili), ukuze adlale isiginci kwaye acule. Wenyuka ngezinyuko, saziswa, kwaye owu thixokazi wam, loo mehlo aqaqambileyo, olo ncumo luqaqambileyo, ubuhle bakhe obukhazimlayo. Ndandisazi ukuba ndisengxakini!
LIV: Bendizama imeko entsha “yobuhlobo” neqabane lam lokuqala elibalulekileyo, owathi kutshanje wafumana umntu ahlala naye omtsha (kwindlu ebesisabelana ngayo) kwaye wathi ebecinga umntu omtsha endihlala naye. “Siyavana ngokwenene.” (Wayengazi ukuba siza kuvana, kanye…) Ndadibana no-Ash ngelixa ndinyuka izinyuko zendlu endandidla ngokuhlala kuyo nomntu endandithandana naye. Yakhelwe kwiindonga zesi zitephusi ezi ndawo zincinci "ze-nook" kwaye uAsh yenzeka ukuba "ezimele kwihlabathi" kunye nebhedi yakhe engamawele kunye neencwadi zakhe kwenye yazo. Savala amehlo, kwaye njengoko uAsh ebeka, sasisazi ukuba kuya kubakho ingxaki… 😉
INDLELA ABABUZA NGAYO
ALU: Ewe, kulungile. Kunyaka wethu wokuqala sikunye, uLiv wayesazi ukuba ukule nto yobomi. Uthenge a ngqinela ukusuka kuhlobo lukamama ebomini bam kwaye wabuza ukuba ndingatshata naye. Ndamxelela ewe, but I am SO not ready, mandikubuze ngenye imini xa NDIM. Kwiminyaka emi-4 kamva, ndatsho! Ndicebe usuku olucacileyo lokuzonwabisa kuthi eMarin, kunye nendalo kunye neendawo ezithile ezinomdla kwi-Atlas Obscura, eyaphela ngokusasazwa kweTarot yothando kunye neepetali zerozi, amakhandlela, kunye neringi phakathi. Umongo ngakumbi nangona kunjalo, kwaye ndiza kuzama ukuwenza mfutshane. Kunyaka ongaphambi kwesi siphakamiso sesibini, sasiye sahlukana kangangeenyanga ezi-6-8. Ndakhe ndanengxaki yokusela, (ukwenzakala kwasebuntwaneni kwandifumana), ndamfaka uLiv esihogweni. Okumangalisayo kukuba, uqhawulo-mtshato lwafika kanye xa ndizinikele ekuziphatheni, ngoko ke entliziyweni yam, ndahamba ndaya e-SE Asia ukuze ndibe kwindawo ethile yobuBhuda kwaye ndenze nzulu indlela yam yokuchacha ngokucamngca kunye nokuhamba ndedwa.
Ndaphela ndiseNepal, yaye emva kosuku ndifikile, kwabakho inyikima enkulu. Lelinye ibali ngokwalo, kodwa ndiqinisekile ukuba, ndibuyele ekhaya kwinyanga elandelayo ndophule iinyanga zam ezili-9 zokuzingca, ndihambile ngaphambi kokuba ndizive ndenze inkonzo eyaneleyo emva, kunye nokuchukumisa i-PTSD. Ngombulelo, mna no-Liv saphinda sadibana (kumthendeleko, apho sasingazi ukuba enye yayiyiyo de sadibana), kwaye saphinda saphinda saluqhawula ubudlelwane bethu kwiinyanga ezimbalwa. Ke, ngelaxesha lesicelo sam esinyanisekileyo, intliziyo yam yayikuyo, kodwa ndandisendikhathazekile ngokwasemoyeni kwaye ndinengxaki yokunxibelelana nobomi bam.
Sahlala kunye, kodwa saba namaxesha anzima. Dlulisa phambili ukuya ku-2018. Ndibuyele eNepal kwisikhumbuzo sesithathu senyikima, kwaye 6nally ndafumana ukuvalwa bendikudinga. Ngelixa ndindedwa kwakhona iiveki ezimbalwa, yonke into endandicinga ngayo yayiluthando lwam kwaye ndifuna ukuzibophelela ngokupheleleyo kubomi bethu kunye, 6nally. Uye wandijoyina, kwaye kuhambo lwethu lwebhasi olwalandelayo oludlula eNepal naseIndiya, sathetha malunga 6nally ukwenza ukuba kwenzeke. Kwiintsuku zethu ezimbalwa zokugqibela apho, safumana iitattoos kunye nemisesane yedayimani ehambelana neyomnye nomnye (khange iplani ukuba), kwaye wabuyela ekhaya, sithandana, stoked, yaye 6nally ukucwangcisa umtshato wethu wamaphupha! <3
LIV: Ndandisazi ukuba ndiyamthanda kwasekuqaleni. Iminyaka emi-6, iingxoxo ezininzi, kunye nezindululo ezi-3 emva koko, iqabane lam lomtshato ngoku lindothusile ekufikeni kwam eKathmandu (ukudibana naye uhambo oluthile) ndinomdla onyanisekileyo wokushiya olu hambo luthile lunemisesane. iminwe yethu kunye nesigqibo esibambekayo esenziwe. Olu hambo lwasithatha eNepal kunye neninzi ye-Northern India, kwaye kuyo yonke loo nyanga (phantse) sathetha kakhulu malunga nento esiyenzayo ebomini bethu, kubudlelwane bethu, kunye nalapho sifuna ukuya khona / into esifuna ukuyenza ngokulandelayo.
Ngexesha lethu eTaj Mahal, ngenye intsasa entle ekuphumeni kwelanga- ndiye ndaseta i-iPhone yam emhlabeni, ndaseta i-self-timer ukuya kwimizuzwana eyi-10, ndabaleka ndibuyela e-Ash kwaye ngengozi ndabamba eyona nto iya kuhlala iyeyona nto siyithandayo. iifoto kunye (nanini) kwaye ngokukhawuleza yaba yifoto ebesiyisebenzisa ukubhengeza ukubandakanyeka kwethu xa sibuyela ekhaya eMelika. Ekupheleni kohambo lwethu, emva apho saqala khona, e-Kathmandu, u-Ash wafumana ivenkile yedayimani ENYE (ezweni?!) kwaye sahamba kunye nemisesane emangalisayo, ekhethekileyo, epheleleyo-ye-thina, enye kanye-e-a -Iinkumbulo zobomi, kunye nebali lokuzibandakanya elithatha iminyaka + nakwihlabathi liphela!
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