U-NEIL HARRIS NODAVID BURTKA: Iminyaka eyi-17 eyonwabileyo kunye
Kutheni izidenge zithandana? Impendulo ihlala ingacacanga ngolu suku luka-Aprili lwezidenge, kodwa siyasazi ukuba kutheni uNeil Patrick Harris kunye noDavid Burtka bethandana.
Esi sibini sinamandla sathatha i-Instagram ukuze sihloniphene kwisikhumbuzo somhla wabo wokuqala kwiminyaka eyi-17 eyadlulayo. Kwaye kwizithuba zabo ezimnandi, kubonakala ngathi uthando lwabo aluyonto yobudenge.
“Isikhumbuzo esimnandi, David,” wabhala uHarris kwisihloko. "Ungoyena uphambili kum, ukukhuthaza kwam rhoqo, usana lwam, kunye nomhlobo wam osenyongweni."
Kulo mfanekiso, sibona isibini esonwabileyo sijonge kwikhamera kwinqanawa, ilanga elihle litshona ngasemva. Umdlali we-47 oneminyaka engama-XNUMX ubudala waqhubeka kwisithuba sakhe, "Ukuhamba nawe kwiminyaka elishumi elinesixhenxe edlulileyo? Eyona nto ingcono. Isigqibo. Nanini na.
“Enkosi ngothando, kunye nokuhleka, kunye nobomi. Ungogqibelele. @dbelicious.”
UBurtka uphinde wathumela kumajelo eendaba ezentlalo ngoLwesine ehlonipha umyeni wakhe, awathi watshata naye ngo-2014.
"@nph saqala ukuthandana kwiminyaka eyi-17 eyadlulayo namhlanje!" Umbhali wencwadi yokupheka oneminyaka engama-45 ubudala waqala i-caption yakhe, eyayidityaniswe nomfanekiso wamadoda amabini asangana ngokuthandana kwimagazini i-Out. “WOW — eyona minyaka ili-17 ibalaseleyo! Undinike ubomi endibuphuphileyo.”
UBurtka uqhubekile nenkcazo yakhe ngokudwelisa izinto ezininzi azithandayo ngoHarris, awabelana naye ngamawele aneminyaka eli-10 ubudala, uHarper Grace noGideon Scott.
“Ndihlala ndimangaliswe bubuchule benu bokukhulisa abantwana, indlela enizibhokoxa ngayo ekunyamekeleni intsapho yethu, indlela esisahleka ngayo, asizange siphulukane ‘yiyo’ kwicandelo lezothando yaye okona kubalulekileyo kukuba sisaphambene eluthandweni, ” waqhubeka. “Ndiyaxolisa ukuba asinakuba kunye namhlanje. Andikwazi kulinda ukubhiyozela xa usekhaya. Ndikuthanda ngentliziyo yam yonke."
Wongeze iihashtag #17yearsandcounting, #love, #modernlove kunye #loveislove.
UHarris noBurtka bavula ngothando lwabo kwimagazini ka-2012 ye-Out.
“Kukho into eyenzeka kuye nangobuntu bakhe,” utshilo uHarris ngoBurtka, awadibana naye ngomhlobo wakhe. “Unomtsalane, ukanti useyinkwenkwe ngamandla akhe. Inamandla amakhulu. Xa ndibona abantu abanomtsalane ngokulinganayo, badla ngokubonakala bezolile kwaye benobubele beMarlboro Man-y, kunye noDavide ukuphikisana naloo nto. Ufana ngakumbi noTigger.
“Mna ke, ndijonge kakhulu - umntu ocingayo, kunomenzi. Ndihlala ndivavanya iinketho phambi kokuba ndenze izigqibo, kwaye uDavid uchasene naloo nto. Siyafana kwaye sichasene ngokumangalisayo. Sabelana ngewodrophu. Sinesayizi yesihlangu esifanayo, ubukhulu bomzimba, ubude kunye nobunzima. Sobabini siGemini. Sobabini siyawuthanda umbono wosapho - hayi usapho lwenyukliya, kodwa usapho lwentlalontle. Nangona kunjalo, sichase ngendlela emangalisayo kwindlela esiqhuba ngayo ulwazi. "
UBurtka naye wabelana ngeenkumbulo zomhla wabo wokuqala kunye, esithi esona sihloko sibalulekileyo safika ngomhla we-1 kwaye sabumba ubudlelwane babo ngonaphakade.
Wathi: “Nangomhla wokuqala, sathetha ngabantwana. “Ukuba ebengabafuni abantwana, andiqondi ukuba besiza kuba kunye. Ndandisoloko ndicinga ukuba intsapho yeyona nto ibalulekileyo ebomini, yaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba ndenza ntoni na, nokuba ndingumpheki okanye ngumdlali weqonga okanye umdanisi, ukuba ngutata yeyona nto ndiyenza kakuhle.”
“Andifuni abantu bacinge ukuba singamaqabane afanelekileyo,” wongeze ngelitshoyo uBurtka kamva. “Akukho nto igqibeleleyo. Ubudlelwane ngumsebenzi kwaye buyatshintsha. Kwaye uhamba kunye notshintsho. Ngamaxesha amnandi kunamaxesha amabi, kodwa ayisoloko ilungile. Kufuneka woyise loo miba kwaye uqhubeke. Sineresiphi ebalaseleyo yobudlelwane obumangalisayo, kodwa asifuni ukuba ngamakhwenkwe epowusta kubudlelwane obufanayo. Asizami ukuzenza ngathi sifezekile. Sizama nje - ngendlela elungileyo, elungileyo, enothando - ukuphila ubomi bethu. "
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