IFASHION YOMTSHATO: FUMANA AMACEBISO ABALULEKILEYO
Xa kuza ku Imitshato yeLGBTQ, isibhakabhaka kuphela umda wefashoni. Ziindaba ezimnandi ezo kunye neendaba ezimbi. Ngokhetho oluninzi, kunokuba nzima ukwenza isigqibo nokuba ungubani na, uchonga njani, okanye uqhele ukunxiba ntoni. Mbini Ugqoke? Iituksi ezimbini? Isuti enye kunye netuksi enye? Ilokhwe enye kunye nesuti enye? Okanye mhlawumbi uhambe nje super casual? Okanye ufumane matchy crazy? Ufumana ingcamango. Inye into eyinyani kuyo yonke ibhodi - ekugqibeleni akufuneki wonelise nabani na ngaphandle kwakho - kwaye ngethemba lokuba iqabane lakho liya kuba njalo. Njengoko usenza isigqibo sakho, Nazi ezinye izinto onokucinga ngazo.
YIBA NGUWE
Umtshato wakho ayiloxesha lempahla. Lixesha lokuzibonakalisa ukuba ungubani kwaye ufuna ukuba ngubani. Ngokwemvelo, oko akusoloko kulula. Kodwa ihlala ingcono ekugqibeleni. Ingaba ufuna ilokhwe ende okanye emfutshane. I-tux yakudala okanye yasendle. Isuti esemthethweni okanye engaqhelekanga. Ayisiyonto ofanele ukunxiba okanye omele ukuba ungubani. Imalunga nokuziva njengawe ngosuku lwakho olukhulu.
UKWENZA IKHUMBUZO
Uya kuba nefoto yakho ithathwe ngakumbi kuwe usuku lomtshato kunayo nayiphi na enye imini. Ke ngoku asiloxesha lokuzama inwele entsha kraca okanye i-make-up ongaqinisekanga ngayo. Ngoku asiloxesha lalo mzuzu wokugqibela ixolo lekhemikhali. Kwaye ngoku ngokuqinisekileyo asiloxesha lokuya kude kangaka kwilungu lefashoni eliya kukushiya usithi, “Bendicinga ntoni emhlabeni?” kwiminyaka ezayo. Awufuni kuzisola ukuba utshata nabani ukuya kwinto okhangeleka ngayo kwezo iifoto. Ngoko yicingisise. Musa ukuyidlala ngokukhuselekileyo. Kodwa musani ukuhamba nonke Zoolander.
UMDLALO NGEMANDLA
Kwezinye izibini, ukutshatisa yinto ebebengenakuyicinga ukuba AYIYENZI. Kodwa yazi nje ukuba akuyomfuneko. Cinga kwangaphambili ngendlela ofuna ukuba iifoto zakho zibukeke ngayo kwaye ufuna ukujonga njani kwindawo yomtshato wakho. Ngaphaya koko, kuxhomekeke kuwe nakwiqabane lakho ukuba wenza kangakanani – okanye awungqamanisi. Nobabini ninganxiba iilokhwe. Ninobabini ukunxiba iisuti. Kwaye isini ozelwe sona asinanto. Ekuphela kwento ekufuneka uyithathele ingqalelo kukuba yintoni ekwenza uzive njengawe kwaye yintoni eyenza nobabini nizive nimanyene – kodwa hayi ngokugqithisileyo ngokuhambelana ngokugqithisileyo (ngaphandle kokuba yinto yenu leyo!) isibini.
IMIBA YEMALI
Lusuku olukhulu, ewe. Kodwa – ngethemba – lelokuqala kwezininzi, ezininzi ezizayo. Ngoko, beka uqingqo-mali uze unamathele kulo. Kukho into ekhoyo kuyo nayiphi na ibhajethi nokuba yeyiphi na isitayile sakho. Qwalasela iisampulu zentengiso kunye neegawuni ezithandwayo ngaphambili kunye neesuti kunye nee-tuxes ukuba incasa yakho ingaphezulu lee kuhlahlo lwabiwo-mali lwakho. Okanye, mhlawumbi ubuze umntu obeceba ukukufumanela isipho sokufaka isandla kwibhajethi yakho yomtshato endaweni yoko. Khumbula nje – lusuku olunye. Yinto ebalulekileyo. Kodwa lusuku olunye kwaye awufuni ukuyihlawulela kunye / okanye ukuzisola ngokugqithisela okuphambeneyo kuzo zonke ezinye iintsuku ezizayo.
BIZA IMIBUSO
Ngoku lixesha lokucela iingcebiso kusapho lwakho kunye nabahlobo bakho obathembileyo. Kwaye, kwelinye icala, ngoku lixesha lokushiya ngasemva nabani na ogwebayo, ongenabubele, okanye onomona. Ufanelwe kukuba ube nabacebisi bakho obathembileyo abakufutshane nawe abaya kukuxelela inyani ngokuphandle kodwa abaya kukwenza uzive uxhaswa kwaye uthandwa ngokupheleleyo kwaye umhle ngokupheleleyo. Ngokuba wena!
THEMBELA IIPROS
Yiya kwivenkile oyithembayo kwaye ufumane abantu abahambelana nesimbo sakho, iimfuno kunye neminqweno. Qinisekisa ukuba bayayiqonda le nto uyikhangelayo, indlela ofuna inkangeleko ngayo, kunye nento onokukwazi ukuyichitha. Ukuba bakuxelela ukuba ukhangeleka umangalisa kuyo yonke into, banokungathembeki njengoko ucinga. Ukuba bayakutyhala kuhlahlo lwabiwo-mali lwakho, ayisiyiyo le nto uyidingayo. Kwaye ukuba abakunikeli ngqalelo yabo epheleleyo, ufanelwe ukufumana umntu okwenzayo. Ukuba uqeshe umcwangcisi/umnxibelelanisi/umyili omthembileyo kwisebe lesimbo – ngethemba lokuba uyakwenza – unokufuna ukuba naye eze naye.
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