ALI KRIEGER, ASHLYN HARRIS NDI CHIWAMBO CHAWO CHODALITSA CHAUKWATI
Pa Disembala 28, 2019, Ali ndi Ashlyn adasinthana malumbiro pabwalo la Vizcaya Museum and Gardens ku Miami. Chochitikacho chinadziwika kuti "Krashlyn" ukwati. Krieger adavala chovala cha Pronovias motsutsana ndi suti ya Thom Browne ya Harris. World Cup Akazi
Kaputeni wa timu ya MVP ndi USWNT Megan Rapinoe, yemwe tsopano wapanga chibwenzi ndi katswiri wa basketball Sue Bird, adakhala ngati mdzakazi wolemekezeka.
“Ine ndi Ali tinakhala pansi ndipo tinali okonzekera bwino za momwe timafunira kukonzekera ukwati wathu; zomwe timafuna kuti ziwonekere. Kuwoneka ndikofunikira kwa ife, "Harris adauza The Knot. "Tinkafuna kuti anthu awone mathero osangalatsa atha kuchitika pakati pa akazi awiri okongola, omwe ali ndi nkhani yachikondi." Mosaiwalika anaphatikizamo zopangira zolingalira bwino, keke yaukwati wa utawaleza, pakati pa zina zokhuza makonda. "Ndalama kwa Ali: zambiri zomwe adapereka kuti apereke ulemu kwa onse omwe adatsata gulu lathu la LGBTQ + zinali zopambana. Gome lililonse linali ndi chowongolera komanso mtsogoleri yemwe adatsegula njira kuti tikhale ndi ufulu komanso moyo wabwino kuti tikwatire movomerezeka, "adatero Harris. “Iyo inafotokoza nkhani ya zolakwa zawo kuti ife tikhale ndi ukwati. Unali mwayi woti aliyense aphunzire.”
Awiriwa anakumana koyamba akusewera timu ya US Women's National Team mchaka cha 2010, ndipo tsopano ndi anzawo a Orlando Pride. Adalengeza za chinkhoswe mu Marichi 2019. "Ndili mwana, ndinalibe mwayi wotsegula magazini kapena kuwona pa TV, anthu awiri omwe amafanana ndi ine ndi Ali," Harris adadandaula. "Kwa Ali ndi ine, mukamawona china chake, mutha kuchikwaniritsa. Chimenecho chinali cholinga chathu paukwatiwo. Sitinafune kukhala odzikonda komanso achinsinsi. Tinkafuna kuti anthu awone nkhani yathu yokongola yachikondi. Zinakhala zazikulu kuposa momwe timayembekezera. Kanema wathu waukwati wathu adawonedwa nthawi zopitilira miliyoni. Zimenezi n’zofunika kuti achinyamata aziona, choncho asamachite mantha. Amathanso kudzionera okha mathero osangalatsa.”
Malangizo a Ukwati wa Ali Krieger ndi Ashlyn Harris
Awiriwa adakondwerera tsiku lawo loyamba laukwati mu Januware 2021. "Tikukhulupirira kuti sitikhala kwaokha ndikukondwerera kwinakwake," adatero Harris. "Takhala tikufuna kupita kumadera angapo ku US kuti tikakhale otetezeka komanso athanzi panthawi ya mliriwu."
Ngakhale kuti othamangawo sankayembekezera kuti chaka chawo choyamba chaukwati chidzakhala kwaokha, zochitikazo zakhala zopindulitsa. "Kwa Ali ndi ine, chomwe chakhala chisomo chathu chopulumutsa nthawi yonseyi, ukwati, takhumudwa, kukhala patokha ndikofunikira kwa okwatirana komanso omwe tikukhala nawo ndikulumikizana," adatero Harris.
“Adziwitseni anthu mmene mukumvera ngati mukufunikira danga, ngati mukukhala ndi tsiku lovuta, ndilofunika kwambiri. Imakulitsa zomanga zazikulu zotere kuti mupititse patsogolo ubale wanu. Ndicho chinthu chovuta kwambiri ndi maanja: kukhala oona mtima osati okhwima nthawi zina. Kuyambira tsiku loyamba, ine ndi Ali tidadziwa kuti zokambirana zolimba zimafunikira nthawi zonse kuti tipite patsogolo. Sitimadzitengera okha, ndipo ichi ndi chizolowezi chomwe tachita kwa nthawi yayitali. Tachita bwino m'malo okhala kwaokha… tamvetsetsa zomwe tikufuna komanso zosowa zathu. Ndi kudzera mukulankhulana.”
"Sizikutanthauza ukwati wanu ngati simungathe kukhala ndi ukwati wosangalatsawu womwe mumaulakalaka ... si mathero a zonse ndipo zimakhudza momwe mumakhalira limodzi," adatero Krieger. "Mukachotsa malingaliro anu pa zonyezimira ndi zokongola zomwe mudapeza, mgwirizano wa anthu awiri, ganizirani ngati anthu awiri omwe amamanga moyo wanu limodzi. Mutha kukhalabe ndi ukwati wamaloto anu, ngakhale utachepetsedwa pang'ono. Ukhoza kukhala ukwati wamaloto umene umauganizira.”
Siyani Mumakonda