Amanda Ford ndi Amanda Whittle
2 Amanadas, Miyoyo iwiri, Mitima iwiri - ndi Chikondi chimodzi kwa Awiri.
Chikondi pa Tinder chilipo!
Amanda Ford ndi Amanda Whittle anakumana pa Tinder zaka zoposa 5 zapitazo. Amanda W. aku South Carolina ndipo Amanda F. akuchokera ku New York. Onse awiri anasamukira ku Florida kukagwira ntchito. Aka kanali koyamba kuti onse awiri akumane ndi mkazi.
Tsiku Loyamba ndi Kuwona Koyamba
Kwenikweni, sikunali tsiku loyamba, basi kuchokera ku mfundo yakuti Mbiri ya Amanda W. inanena kuti akufuna mabwenzi. Ndipo zikhoza kukhala choncho, chifukwa adangosamukira ku Florida.
Tsiku lawo loyamba linali kuyenda kwa Kamba ku Juno Beach, Florida komwe adawonera kamba wam'nyanja akuyikira mazira.
Chithunzi choyamba cha Amanda cha Ford kuchokera ku New York:
"Iye ndi waku South Carolina ndipo ine ndimachokera ku New York. Tonse tinasamukira ku Florida kukagwira ntchito. Pamene tinakumana kwa nthawi yoyamba iye anali wosungika kwambiri komanso wodekha kuposa ine. Ankaoneka kuti sankafuna kulankhula nane kapena kukhala pa chibwenzi. Pamene ankalankhula mawu ake anali ochuluka moti zinkandivuta kumumvetsa.”
Amanda pa White koyamba kuchokera South Carolina: "Mawu ake anali akunjenjemera komanso ovuta."
Zovuta pozindikira kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe ali ndi makolo kapena abwenzi
Poti kanali koyamba kuti onse awiri akumane ndi akazi kunali kusintha kwakukulu. Poyamba makolo awo onse, kupatulapo amayi a Amanda F., anali ndi vuto lalikulu. Anzawo sanasangalale nazo ndipo achibale awo ena anali nawonso. Koma tsopano makolo awo onse anafika moyamikira!
Malingaliro Awiri
Amanada W. anatenga Amanda F. kubwerera ku gombe iwo anali ndi tsiku lawo loyamba. Amanda W. adakhazikitsa picnic yokongola dzuwa litalowa, adapanga mndandanda wa nyimbo zonse zomwe zinafotokozera ubale wawo mpaka nthawi imeneyo. Adafunsira kaye koma Amanada F. adamugulira mphete masiku awiri izi zisanachitike ndipo adasungitsa ulendo patadutsa tsiku lomwe adafunsira ku Boston komwe adapanga chilichonse kuti amufunsira. Amanda F. anamutengera ku Provincetown, MA ndipo anamufunsira patangopita masiku ochepa kuchokera pamene anamufunsira.
Kusapeza bwino paukwati
Amanda F. sanamve bwino paukwati wawo. Ojambula adawapangitsa kuti azichita zinthu zambiri zithunzi amene sanali kwenikweni iwo. Mwina chinali chokumana nacho chawo choyamba kuchita maukwati ndi azikazi okhaokha kuti asadziwe momwe angawachitire.
Miyambo ya Banja
Kuyambira Seputembara 2-12 ali ndi tchuthi chawo chomwe chimatchedwa "masiku amdima a Quattlebaum." Uyu ndi galu wawo Quattlebaum adathawa zaka ziwiri zapitazo ali patchuthi ndipo anzawo akumuyang'ana. Galuyo anasowa kwa masiku khumi. Anawuluka kuchokera ku Montana kuti akamufufuze ndipo kwa sabata imodzi adayika magazi, thukuta ndi misozi kuti amupeze. Pamapeto pa tsiku lakhumi wina yemwe adawona imodzi mwa zowulutsa zawo adakwanitsa kumugwira ndipo adalumikizananso. M'masiku khumi amenewo amasiya kanthu kukumbukira nthawi yowawa yomwe adamutaya ndikuthokoza kuti ali nawo pano tsopano.
Zomverera ndi ziyembekezo
Amanda F.:
"Tangosamukira kumpoto chakum'mawa kuchokera ku Florida kotero tili okondwa kuyika mizu. Ndikuyembekezera nyengo kachiwiri ndipo ndikuganiza kuti Amanda ali wokondwa kukumana ndi chipale chofewa m'moyo wake watsiku ndi tsiku. Ndi nthawi yosangalatsa kwambiri, tsiku lililonse ndimamva ngati ndikukhala m'maloto chifukwa ndili ndi zambiri kuposa momwe ndimaganizira."
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