Anthony ndi Antonio - Chikondi kuchokera ku "Moni"
Iyi ndi nkhani ya amuna awiri omwe adapeza mnzawo wamoyo.
Kukumana koyamba ndi kumverera koyamba
Adakumana koyamba pa Disembala 8, 2018, pomwe adadziwitsidwa ndi mnzake wapamtima, yemwe adaganiza kuti atha kukhala bwino. Palibe mmodzi wa iwo amene ankafuna kukhala pachibwenzi panthawiyo; komabe, bwenzi lawo linadziŵa ndi kudzimva kuti ali ndi mikhalidwe yofanana kwambiri ndipo onse anali zinthu zaukwati kwa wina ndi mnzake. Pambuyo poyesa kangapo kuyesa kuwasonkhanitsa pamodzi, iye analinganiza ulendo wa kumapeto kwa mlungu ku New York City ndi gulu la mabwenzi, palibe mmodzi wa iwo amene anadziŵa kuti mnzake akupita. Apa ndipamene nkhani yawo yachikondi inayamba. Chinali chikondi poyamba paja.
Anthony: "Chikondi chathu chinayamba pomwe timati, "Moni". Njira yabwino yomwe ndingafotokozere kumverera uku ingakhale kuchokera mu kanema, "Can't Buy Me Love", wachinyamata yemwe amayamba kukondana kwa nthawi yoyamba, kuthwanima kwa maso, agulugufe m'mimba, ndi kutaya mawu pamene m'modzi ndi munthu yekhayo amayenda mukupita ku kalasi ina. Kupatula kuti ichi sichinali chikondi cha ana agalu, ichi chinali chenicheni. Zinatipangitsa tonsefe kukhala osangalala.”
Yambani Chibwenzi
Ulendo wachikondi unayamba ndi moni wosavuta womwe unasintha kukhala chinthu chosayerekezeka. Patatha sabata atadziwitsidwa, adapita tsiku lawo loyamba pa Disembala 14, 2018 kupita ku Bartaco ndipo adazindikira kuti pali kukopa komweko kupitilira zomwe adawona kunja. Patapita nthawi, anayamba kugwirizana kwambiri. Mawu samayenera kunenedwa kuti adziwe kuti amakondana kuyambira pachiyambi. Unali kutengeka kwachilendo mkati mkati komwe kumangomveka. Chikondi n’chozama kwambiri moti mawu sangafotokoze. Pamene ankafuna kufotokoza maganizo awo kwa wina ndi mnzake, chimene anangochita ndi kuyang’anizana m’maso uku akugwetsa misozi yachisangalalo. Apa m’pamene anadziwiratu kuti apeza m’bale wawo.
M’kanthawi kochepa chonchi, zinkamveka ngati adziwana kwamuyaya, ndipo ankangoyenera kukhala limodzi. Chibwenzicho chinasintha mwachangu kukhala ubale wolimba womwe udadzazidwa ndi chikondi, chisangalalo, bata, ndi kudzipereka.
Antonio anali m'gulu la anyamata am'deralo akukula kumapeto kwa zaka za m'ma 1990 omwe amadziwika kuti Touch of Quality ndipo kenako adalowa nawo Da Fellas. Kumayambiriro kwa chaka chino adawonetsa chidwi chofuna kuyimbanso ndipo Anthony adamuthandiza ndikumulimbikitsa. Antonio adatulutsa nyimbo yake yoyamba ngati woyimba yekha mu Januware 2020 yotchedwa "Falling Deep For You". Nyimboyi idaperekedwa kwa Anthony yomwe imanena za momwe adapezera mnzake wangwiro, yemwe amamulakalaka nthawi zonse.
Kutsatsa
Malingaliro adatenga malo pa Epulo 3, 2019 ku Ft. Lauderdale ku The Rooftop, malo ochezeramo omwe amayang'ana mzindawo. Onse ankadziwa ndi kumva m’mitima mwawo kuti akufuna kukhala pamodzi moyo wawo wosatha. Anakonzekera ulendo wautali wa mlungu wopita ku Miami. Anthony anafika patangopita masiku angapo Antonio atakhazikika ku Ft. Lauderdale komwe Antonio anali atakonzekera kale kukhala usiku wonse asanapite ku Miami tsiku lotsatira. Antonio anatenga Anthony kupita ku The Rooftop kumene anacheza ndi kusangalala ndi maonekedwe odabwitsa. Pambuyo pake usiku womwewo, Antonio anafunsira ndipo Anthony nthawi yomweyo anavomera. Ochepa omwe adayimilira adajambula zithunzi za nthawiyo. Kenako anapita kuchipinda cha hotelo chomwe chinali ndi makandulo ndi maluwa. Unali madzulo odabwitsa!
Kukonzekera Ukwati
Iwo adayamba kukonzekera ukwati wawo mu June 2019. Onse awiri adagwirizana kuti akufuna ukwati wopita.
Anafikira kwa wothandizira maulendo apafupi, Liberty Travel kuti awathandize kupeza malo ochezera. Liberty Travel idawapatsa mndandanda wamalo osangalalira ndipo adaganiza za The Grand At The Moon Palace ku Cancun, Mexico. Komabe, malowa adadziwitsa Liberty Travel kuti samapereka maukwati a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha pamalo aliwonse awo (ngakhale akunena kuti ndi ochezeka a LGBT). Chifukwa chokhumudwa, adaganiza zosiya kugwira ntchito ndi Liberty Travel, chifukwa adawona kuti amayenera kudziwa kale izi asanawapatse malowa ngati njira.
Kenako adatumizidwa ndi wachibale kwa Michelle Tarbush wa Take a Vacation, LLC. Michelle adathandiza kwambiri ndipo adawadziwitsa za Hard Rock Los Cabos yomwe inkayenera kutsegulidwa m'chilimwe cha 2019. Nthawi yomweyo adakondana ndi malowa ndipo adalumikizidwa ndi wokonza ukwati wochokera ku Hard Rock. The okonza ukwati adagwira nawo ntchito zodabwitsa kwambiri ndipo amatha kuchita malingaliro awo. Iwo ankagwira ntchito mwachindunji ndi Ogulitsa kutsimikizira Anthony ndi Antonio kuti anali ndi ukwati wabwino kwambiri. Ukwati wawo udakonzedweratu pa Meyi 25, 2020. Komabe, kumapeto kwa Epulo 2020 adayenera kupanga chisankho chovuta kuti akonzenso ukwati wawo chifukwa cha mliri wa COVID-19. Iwo adakhumudwa kwambiri koma adadziwa kuti mliriwo suwaletsa. Antonio ndi Anthony amakondwerera tsiku lawo lobadwa mu Ogasiti (Anthony, Ogasiti 29 ndi Antonio, Ogasiti 30), motero adaganiza zokwatirana pa Ogasiti 31, 2020.
Iwo anali ndi ukwati wapamtima wodabwitsa ndi 18 abwenzi awo apamtima ndi achibale awo. Anakonza zoti alendo awo azichita sabata imodzi, kuyambira pomwe amafika mpaka tsiku lomwe amachoka. Iwo ankadziwa kuti alendo awo anayenda ulendo wautali ndipo anali ndi nkhawa yoyenda chifukwa cha mliriwu, choncho ankafuna kuonetsetsa kuti akuchitiridwa zinthu ngati mafumu ndi mfumukazi. Anakonza zokwera ngamila, ma cabana achinsinsi, gulu la mariachi, kuyenda kwadzuwa kwachinsinsi pa bwato lomwe limaphatikizapo chakudya chamadzulo ndi bala lotseguka, komanso kusambira ndi ma dolphin. Inali sabata yodabwitsa!
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