CYNTHIA NIXON PA ZA UKWATI WAKE WABWINO NDI CHIKONDI CHRISTINE MARINONI
Cynthia nixon akutchula zinsinsi zina za tsiku laukwati wake.
Patatha zaka zitatu atakhala pachibwenzi, nyenyezi ya "Sex and the City", 46, idalumbira ndi wolimbikitsa maphunziro. Christine Marinoni ku New York City mu Meyi. Chochitikacho chinali chapadera kwambiri kwa awiriwa - omwe ali ndi mwana wamwamuna dzina lake Max - chifukwa adalumbira poyera kuti adikirira kukwatirana mpaka ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha utavomerezeka ku New York. Lamulo litangoperekedwa m'chilimwe cha 2011, Nixon adayamba kukonzekera tsiku lake lalikulu.
“Sindinaganizirepo zanga kavalidwe kaukwati kukula,” akuvomereza motero Nixon. “Osati kamodzi. Ine sindine mmodzi wa atsikana amenewo. Zilibe chochita ndi kukhala gay - pamene ndinali ndi mwamuna, ine sindinali kuganiza za diresi langa la ukwati ngakhale. Ndipotu moyo wanga wonse ndakhala osafuna kukwatiwa. Koma nditasankha kuchita zimenezi, ndinazindikira kuti ndikufuna zovala zokongola za mwambowu.”
Ngakhale Marinoni adachita zambiri zokonzekera ukwati - "omwe ndimawathokoza kosatha," akutero Nixon - wochita masewerowa adangoyang'ana kavalidwe kake. Atagwira ntchito ndi Carolina Herrera m'mbuyomu, sanazengereze kutembenukiranso kwa iye. Pokumana ndi a mlengi ndi gulu lake, Nixon akukumbukira kuwauza kuti, “‘Musandiganizire ngati mkwatibwi. Ndiganizireni ngati mkazi wachikulire amene amafunikira chovala kuti akwatire.” Koma Herrera sanamve za izi. “Iye anati, ‘Uyenera kutenga diresi lokhala ndi likulu D. Chotero ngakhale litakhala lopanda madzi kapena loyera, pamakhala mwambo wakutiwakuti.”
Mtundu umene Nixon anasankha pa chovala chake unali wobiriwira, womwe umamutcha kuti "kupita kwa" mtundu wake, mwinamwake chifukwa chakuti ankasewera Miranda wofiira kwa zaka zambiri ndipo mitunduyo inapangidwa kuti ikhale yosakanikirana. Poyenera ukwati wa Big Apple, Nixon ananena kuti chovalacho chimamukumbutsa za "art deco skyscraper." Mfundo ina yofunika - kusunga sitima yaifupi. "Chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe ndaphunzira pazaka zambiri zobvala mikanjo kupita ku mphotho zikuwonetsa kuti anthu nthawi zonse amakwera sitima yanu," adatero. “Imeneyi inali ndi sitima, koma inali yochepa kwambiri moti mumatha kuyendabe ndi kuvina mmenemo. Sindine wovina kwambiri, koma uyenera kuvina pang’ono paukwati wako.”
Vuto la kavalidwe litathetsedwa, Nixon adatha kuyang'ananso vuto lina: tsitsi lake. Panthawiyo, Nixon, yemwe wakhala akusewera pa Broadway kuyambira masiku ake a "Kugonana ndi Mzinda" adatha, adameta mutu wake kuti azisewera pulofesa wa khansa ya ovarian ku "Wit." Aliyense ankawoneka kuti ali ndi maganizo okhudza momwe Nixon ayenera kupangira tsitsi lake paukwati - kuchokera kwa mkazi wake, yemwe ankaganiza kuti mutu wa dazi wa Nixon ukanakhala womwe anthu onse amalankhula, kwa amayi ake, omwe adamuuza kuti avale kapu ya mikanda yofanana ndi ija. Whitney Houston adavala atakwatirana ndi Bobby Brown mu 1992. Pamapeto pake adaganiza zokhala ndi "riboni yasiliva ndi yoyera yomwe idandikulunga kawiri pamutu panga," gulu la Herrera adalangizidwa, pomwe Nixon adaphatikizira mbalame zazing'ono za diamondi za Fred Leighton. .
Pokhala ndi mawonekedwe ake okwatirana omwe siachikhalidwe, Nixon sanasamale Marinoni kuwona kavalidwe kake mwambo usanachitike. Wochita masewerowa adatumizira mkazi wake zithunzi kuchokera kuzinthu zosiyanasiyana, "Sindinganene zomwe anandiuza - ndi zaumwini - koma adanena zabwino zambiri." Patsiku lalikulu lomwe, azimayiwa adakonzekera limodzi ngati ana awo - mwana wawo wamwamuna Max, miyezi 19, ndi ana a Nixon paubwenzi wake ndi Danny Mozes, Samantha, 16, ndi Charles, 9 - adadikirira pafupi.
Iye anati: “Ndikuganiza kuti sindinaganizirepo za diresi langa laukwati mpaka pamene ndinafunikira kutero, chifukwa ndi mmene ndimaonera zinthu zambiri, osati mafashoni okha. “Ndikayamba ntchito inayake, ndimaona kuti ndi bwino kuti ndisamangoganizira za udindo umenewo. Muyenera kudikirira kuti zinthu zonse zibwere palimodzi - oponya, ogwira ntchito, otsogolera - musanayembekezere momwe mungayandikire. Ndipo ponena za ukwati wanga, pamene zonse zinafika pamodzi, zinali zangwiro.”
Siyani Mumakonda