ONANI MANDIMU ZA MWAMUNA WAKE WODABWITSA TIM MALONE
Chodabwitsa kwambiri ndi chiyani Don Lemon ndi bwenzi lake, Tim Malone?
"Ndife 'okhazikika' bwanji," Lemon anatero akumwetulira.
Nangula wodziwika bwino wa "CNN Tonight with Don Lemon" akuwomba akamalankhula za ubale wake ndi Malone, wogulitsa nyumba ndi Douglas Elliman, yemwe mindandanda yake ikuphatikiza nyumba za madola mamiliyoni ambiri ku Manhattan ndi Hamptons.
"Nthawi zina timachita nthabwala za izi ndi anzathu - momwe timakhalira osagwirizana," Lemon adatero akuseka. "Timakonda kuonera mpira, timapita ku skating, timaphika chakudya chamadzulo, timachita masewera olimbitsa thupi."
Masamba awo a Instagram amawoneka ngati chithunzithunzi cha "Ndi Moyo Wodabwitsa" wokhala ndi zopindika za Hamptons - kukwera mabwato, malo ophika nyama, magombe, kusewera ndi agalu awo atatu opulumutsa, komanso kudumpha m'malo odyera.
Zonse zidayamba pomwe awiriwa adakumana Lachisanu usiku ku 2015 ku Almond ku Bridgehampton.
"Lachisanu usiku pali ngati wosakanizira wa gay," atero a Lemon, yemwe adafotokoza kuti adalumikizana ndi Malone mpaka pomwe awiriwo adayamba chibwenzi mu 2016. Lowe ali ku Riverhead kuti agule Khrisimasi zokongoletsa m'galimoto yawo yamphesa ya 1987 Ford Country Squire Woody - kuponya kumbuyo kwa galimoto yomwe banja la Malone lidakulira ku Southampton.
"Unali ubwana wabwinobwino," atero Malone, yemwe adamaliza maphunziro awo ku Southampton High School. "A Hamptons anali opanda phokoso panthawiyo. Ndikuganiza kuti gulu la 'dot com' chakumapeto kwa zaka za m'ma 90s linasintha a Hamptons ndikuwapangitsa kuphulika. Ichi chinali chinthu chimodzi chomwe chinandipangitsa ine kugulitsa nyumba - kuwonera malo kukulitsa ndikuwona malo okongolawo akusintha kwazaka zambiri. ”
Monga ena, Lemon ndi Malone adasankha kukakhala kum'mawa nthawi zonse COVID ikagunda, ngakhale adabwerera kunyumba kwawo ku Manhattan.
"Ndakhala ndi nyumba [ku Sag Harbor] kuyambira 2016, kotero nthawi zonse ndimadzimva ngati ili ndi dera langa - ndipo zinali zosangalatsa kukhala komweko panthawi yokhala kwaokha ... Zinanditengera ku ubwana wanga," akutero Lemon, yemwe adakula. uko ku Louisiana. “Ana akakhala atakwera njinga zawo, mumamva kafungo kanu kochokera m’nyumba za anthu… Zinali zosangalatsa kwambiri.”
Komabe, kukalamba kwawo ku Baton Rouge sikunali kwabwino kwambiri kwa Lemon.
"Kwa ine, zinali ziwiri," adatero. "Chifukwa mudamenyedwa kale chifukwa ndinu Wakuda, kenako kukhala gay kumwera - ndizovuta. Ndinatuluka nthawi yosiyana kwambiri ndi Tim. Sizinali zovomerezeka kukhala gay komanso kukhala kunja. Anthu anali kukwatira akazi, anali m'chipinda, munali ndi 'wogona naye.' Ndinachoka ku Louisiana kuti ndikhale ndekha, ndipo ndinabwera ku New York kuti ndikhale ndi moyo - ndipo sindinayang'ane kumbuyo. "
Kwa Malone, vuto silinatuluke, koma kusintha moyo ndi mtolankhani wanthawi yayitali.
"Monga banja, ndikuganiza kuti tili ndi nkhani yosangalatsa kwambiri, molingana ndi kusiyana kwathu zaka," atero Malone, yemwe amakwanitsa zaka 37 mu Epulo. Lemon wakwanitsa zaka 55 posachedwa. list… Zinali zambiri za 'iye ali pamaso pa anthu' kuposa china chilichonse, zomwe zinatengera kuti ndizozolowere."
Kuphatikiza pa gig yake yausiku pa CNN, Lemon amakhala ndi podcast, "Kukhala chete Si Njira." Buku lake latsopano, "This Is The Fire: What I Say to My Friends About Racism," lotulutsidwa pa Marichi 16, ndi laumwini komanso lokonda.
"Ndikuganiza kuti tithetse vuto la kusankhana mitundu - chifukwa ndivuto ndipo likufunika kukonzedwa - tiyenera kutsogolera ndi chikondi, chifukwa ngati mutsogola ndi chidani kapena mkwiyo, ndiye kuti zomwe mudzapeza ndi chidani ndi mkwiyo. ,” adatero Lemon.
“Kusankhana mafuko,” akutero Lemon, “ndikuwononga mofanana ndi kusagwirizana kwa mphamvu kapena wina amene amakuvutitsani kuntchito chifukwa kumalepheretsa luso lanu lopanga zinthu, kungakulepheretseni kupita patsogolo pa ntchito yanu, ndipo kungakhale ndi zotsatirapo zake.”
"Ndikukhumba kuti pangakhale gulu la '#UsToo' la anthu akuda kapena madera osasankhidwa chifukwa cha tsankho ndi tsankho kuntchito chifukwa pali gulu la '#MeToo'," adatero.
Poyang'ana kutsogolo, okwatiranawo akufuna kuti adutse mliriwo ndi kukwatirana. Akuyembekezeranso kudzakhala ndi ana.
"Tim ayenera kukhala ndi ana chifukwa ndi wamng'ono," Lemon adaseka. "Tiyenerabe kudziwa komwe nyumba ikhala. Ndizosangalatsa, komanso zowopsa pang'ono, kukhala ndi moyo wawung'ono womwe tidzakhala nawo."
Pakadali pano, a Lemon ndi Malone amasangalala ndi nthawi yawo yopuma kummawa, kumalo komwe amamva "mkhalidwe weniweni wa gulu komanso nyumba ndi mabanja."
"Anthu amaganiza za a Hamptons ndipo amaganiza kuti 'O, ndi zokongola komanso zolemera kapena zilizonse' - ndipo timangokhala ndi moyo wabwinobwino kumeneko," akutero Lemon. Malone akubwerezanso mawu akuti: “Ndiko kuthaŵa.”
Siyani Mumakonda