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Nkhani Yeniyeni ya Olivia ndi Ashley

                  MMENE TIMAKUMANA

ASH: Posachedwapa ndabwerako ku ulendo wanga wa 6 kudziko lina, wosweka, ndikukhala m'malo owoneka bwino pamwamba pa masitepe a mnzanga, lol. Tsiku lina, ndinali kubisala kudziko, ndikuwerenga, ndipo Olivia anabwera ku nyumba ya bwenzi lake (mnzake wakale) (komwe anakhalako zaka zingapo m'mbuyomo), kudzaimba gitala ndi kuimba. Anakwera masitepe, tinadziwitsidwa, ndipo oh mulungu wanga, maso owala, kumwetulira kowala, kukongola kwake kowala. Ndinadziwa kuti ndili m’mavuto!

LIV: Ndinkayesa "ubwenzi" watsopano ndi mnzanga woyamba wofunika, yemwe ananena kuti wapeza mnzawo watsopano (m'nyumba yomwe tinkakhalamo) ndipo adanena kuti amaganiza kuti mnzanga watsopanoyo & ine "zigwirizanadi." (Sankadziwa momwe tingakhalire bwino, ndendende…) Ndinakumana ndi Ash ndikukwera masitepe a nyumba yomwe ndinkakhala ndi mwamuna wanga wakale. Omangidwa m'makoma a masitepewa munali malo ang'onoang'ono a "nook" awa ndipo Ash anali "kubisala kudziko lapansi" ndi kama wake amapasa & mabuku ake m'modzi mwa iwo. Tinatseka maso, ndipo monga momwe Ash amanenera, tinadziwa kuti pakhala vuto… 😉

MMENE AMAFUNSA

ASH: Ha, chabwino. M'chaka chathu choyamba pamodzi, Liv adadziwa kuti ali mu izi kwa moyo wake wonse. Adapeza a mphete kuchokera kwa mtundu wa amayi m'moyo wanga ndipo adandifunsa ngati ndingamukwatire. Ndinamuuza kuti inde, koma SO sindiri wokonzeka, ndikufunseni tsiku lina INE NDINE. Patapita zaka 4, ndinali! Ndidakonzekera tsiku lachisangalalo kwa ife ku Marin, ndi chilengedwe komanso malo ena achidwi kuchokera ku Atlas Obscura, lomwe lidatha ndi tarot yachikondi yofalikira ndi maluwa amaluwa, makandulo, ndi mphete pakati. Nkhani yochulukirachulukira komabe, ndipo ndiyesera kuyifupikitsa. Chaka chisanafike lingaliro lachiwirili, tinali titasiyana kwa miyezi 6-8. Ndinali ndikulimbana ndi vuto lakumwa, (zovuta zaubwana zinandipeza), ndikuyika Liv ku gehena. Chodabwitsa n'chakuti, kusweka-mmwamba anabwera kamodzi ndinadzipereka kwa kudziletsa, kotero mu kusweka mtima wanga, Ndinanyamuka kuti SE Asia kukhala penapake Buddhist ndi kuzamitsa njira yanga kuchira mwa kusinkhasinkha ndi kuyenda payekha.

Ndinafika ku Nepal, ndipo patangopita tsiku limodzi kuchokera pamene ndinafika, kunachitika chivomezi choopsa. Imeneyo ndi nkhani ina yokha, koma ndikunena kuti, ndinabwerera kunyumba mwezi wotsatira nditathyola miyezi 9 ya kudziletsa, nditachoka ndisanamve kuti ndachita utumiki wokwanira pambuyo pake, ndikukhudzidwa ndi PTSD. Mwamwayi, ine ndi Liv tinagwirizananso (pa chikondwerero, kumene sitinadziwe kuti wina anali mpaka titathamangitsana), ndipo tinayambitsanso ubale wathu mkati mwa miyezi ingapo. Chifukwa chake, pofika nthawi yomwe ndikufunsira moona mtima, mtima wanga unali mmenemo, koma ndinali wokhumudwa kwambiri ndipo ndinali ndi vuto lolumikizana ndi moyo wanga. 

Tinakhala limodzi, koma tinali ndi nthawi zovuta. Yang'anani patsogolo mpaka 2018. Ndinabwerera ku Nepal kwa chaka chachitatu cha chivomezi, ndipo 6nally ndinapeza kutsekedwa komwe ndimafuna. Ndili ndekhanso kwa milungu ingapo, zomwe ndimaganiza zinali chikondi changa ndikufuna kudzipereka kwathunthu ku moyo wathu limodzi, 6nally. Adalumikizana nane, ndipo pokwera basi kupita ku Nepal ndi India, tidakambirana kuti zitheke. Masiku athu angapo apitawa kumeneko, tinali ndi ma tattoo ndi mphete za diamondi zomwe zimafanana ndi wina ndi mnzake (sindinatero ngakhale chikonzero kuti), ndipo anabwerera kunyumba, kukondana wina ndi mzake, stoked, ndipo 6nally kukonzekera ukwati wathu maloto! <3

LIV: Ndinadziwa kuti ndimamukonda kuyambira pachiyambi. Zaka 6 mkati, zokambirana zambiri za, & 3 pafupifupi malingaliro pambuyo pake, bwenzi langa lomwe tsopano ndili paukwati lidandidabwitsa nditafika ku Kathmandu (kukakumana naye paulendo) ndili ndi chidwi chochoka paulendowu ndi mphete. zala zathu & chisankho chogwirika chomwe chinapangidwa. Ulendowu unatitengera ku Nepal & zambiri za Kumpoto kwa India, ndipo mwezi wonsewo (pafupifupi) tinakambirana zambiri za zomwe tinali kuchita m'miyoyo yathu, mu ubale wathu, ndi kumene timafuna kupita / zomwe tikufuna kuchita.

Munthawi yathu ku Taj Mahal, m'mawa wina wokongola dzuwa litatuluka - ndidayika iPhone yanga pansi, ndikuyika chodziwikiratu kuti chikhale masekondi 10, ndikuthamangira ku Ash & mwangozi ndinagwira chomwe chingakhale chimodzi mwazomwe timakonda kwambiri. zithunzi limodzi (nthawi zonse) & icho mwachangu chidakhala chithunzi chomwe tinkakonda kulengeza za chibwenzi chathu titabwerera kwathu ku States. Kumapeto kwa ulendo wathu, kubwerera kumene tinayambira, ku Kathmandu, Ash anapeza sitolo ya diamondi IMODZI (m'dzikoli?!) -zokumbukira za moyo wonse, & nkhani ya chibwenzi yomwe imatenga zaka + ngakhale padziko lonse lapansi!

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