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Ngati mukufuna kusankha zolemba zanu zamwambo ndiye kuti ndi ntchito yabwino kwa inu. Nawa zidutswa zokongola kwambiri za chikondi - zotengedwa kuchokera kuzinthu zosiyanasiyana - kuti zikulimbikitseni ukwati wa gay malumbiro. Kaya mukuyang'ana kansalu kakang'ono komanso kokoma kuti muwonjezere malingaliro anu aukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kapena omveka bwino. banja la gay ndakatulo kuti muwonjezere nthawi zogwira mtima paukwati wanu wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, takuuzani. Zachidziwikire, woyang'anira ukwati wanu adzakuthandizani kupanga mwambo wanu ndipo akhoza kukhala ndi malingaliro owonjezera owerengera kuti musinthe ukwati wanu.
Moulin Rouge
“Chinthu chachikulu kwambiri chimene mungaphunzire ndicho kukonda, ndiponso kukondedwa.”
Malingaliro ambiri a Justice Anthony Kennedy mu Hodges v. Obergefell
“Palibe mgwirizano umene uli wozama kwambiri kuposa ukwati, chifukwa umakhala ndi zolinga zapamwamba kwambiri za chikondi, kukhulupirika, kudzipereka, kudzipereka, ndi banja. Popanga mgwirizano waukwati, anthu awiri amakhala chinthu chachikulu kuposa kale. Monga momwe ena mwa opempha m’nkhani zimenezi akusonyezera, ukwati umakhala ndi chikondi chimene chingapirire ngakhale imfa yapita. Kungakhale kusamvetsetsa amuna ndi akazi ameneŵa kunena kuti salemekeza lingaliro la ukwati. Kuchonderera kwawo n’kwakuti azichilemekeza, kuchilemekeza kwambiri kotero kuti amafuna kudzipezera okha kukwaniritsidwa kwake. Chiyembekezo chawo sichidzaweruzidwa kukhala osungulumwa, osaphatikizidwa m'gulu lakale kwambiri lachitukuko. Amapempha ulemu wofanana pamaso pa malamulo. Constitution imawapatsa ufulu umenewo.”
Barbara Kage
"Chikondi ndi mgwirizano wa anthu awiri apadera omwe amabweretsa zabwino kwambiri mwa wina ndi mnzake, ndipo omwe amadziwa kuti ngakhale ali abwino kwambiri ngati aliyense payekhapayekha, amakhala bwinoko limodzi."
Wild Awake wolemba Hilary T. Smith
“Anthu ali ngati mizinda: Tonsefe tili ndi timipata ndi minda yamaluwa ndi madenga obisika ndi malo kumene mitengo yamaluwa imamera pakati pa ming’alu ya m’mphepete mwa misewu, koma nthaŵi zambiri chimene timangosonyezana ndi positi khadi chithunzithunzi cham’mwamba kapena bwalo lopukutidwa. Chikondi chimakupatsani mwayi wopeza malo obisika mwa munthu wina, ngakhale omwe samawadziwa, ngakhale omwe sakanaganiza kuwatcha okongola.
Warsan Shire
"Pamene ndimakonda, ndimakonda: kwathunthu, mokwanira, kwathunthu, kumira mu chirichonse. Kuyang'ana kulikonse kungakhale kukambirana, maso akungosewera ndikunena zomwe ziyenera kunenedwa. Kumakhala chete phokoso, ndipo mpweya umakhala wolemera. Ndikukufuna. Ndikukufunani nonse.”
Art of Marriage wolemba Wilferd Arlan Peterson
“Banja labwino liyenera kukhazikitsidwa.
Mu luso laukwati zinthu zazing'ono ndizo zazikulu --
Sikuti ukalamba kwambiri kuti ungagwirena chanza.
Ndikukumbukira kunena kuti 'ndimakukonda' kamodzi patsiku.
Sikugona mokwiya.
Ndi kukhala ndi maganizo ofanana pazikhalidwe ndi zolinga zofanana.
Chiyimirira limodzi kuyang'ana dziko lapansi.
Ndi kupanga bwalo la chikondi chomwe chimasonkhana m'banja lonse.
Ndikulankhula mawu oyamikira ndi kusonyeza kuyamikira m’njira zolingalira.
Ndiko kukhala ndi mphamvu yokhululukira ndi kuiwala.
Ndi kuperekana wina ndi mzake mpweya momwe aliyense akhoza kukula.
Ndi kupeza malo a zinthu za mzimu.
Ndilo kufufuza kofala kwa zabwino ndi zokongola.
Sikuti kukwatira bwenzi loyenera --
Ndi kukhala bwenzi loyenera. "
Maya Angelou
“Chikondi sichizindikira zopinga. Imadumpha zopinga, kudumpha mipanda, kudutsa makoma kuti ifike kumene ikupita ili ndi chiyembekezo.”
Woyimba Ukwati
“Ndikufuna ndikumwetulireni nthawi iliyonse mukakhala achisoni
Kunyamulani pamene nyamakazi yanu ili yoipa
Zomwe ndikufuna kuchita ndikukalamba ndi inu
Ndidzatenga mankhwala anu mimba ikakupweteka
Ngati ng'anjo yathyoka, onjezerani moto
O, zitha kukhala zabwino kwambiri, kukalamba ndi inu
Ndikusowani
Kupsopsonani
Ndipatseni malaya anga mukazizira
Ndikufuna inu
Adyetseni inu
Ngakhale kukulolani kuti mugwire chowongolera
Ndiye nditsuke mbale mu sinki yathu yakukhitchini
Mukagone ngati mwamwa mowa kwambiri
Ndikhoza kukhala mwamuna amene amakalamba ndi inu
Ndikufuna kukalamba nawe"
Amy Tan
“Ndili ngati nyenyezi imene ikugwa imene pomalizira pake yapeza malo ake pafupi ndi ina m’gulu la nyenyezi lokongola, mmene tidzawalira kumwamba kosatha.”
Ndanyamula mtima wako ndi ine” mwa ee cummings
"Ndimanyamula mtima wako (ndikunyamula
mtima wanga) sindikhala wopanda (kulikonse
ndipita iwe, wokondedwa wanga; ndi chirichonse chimene chichitidwa
mwa ine ndekha ndikuchita, wokondedwa wanga)
ndimaopa
palibe tsoka (pakuti ndinu tsoka langa, wokondedwa wanga) ndikufuna
palibe dziko (kukongola ndinu dziko langa, zoona zanga)
ndipo ndiwe zomwe mwezi umatanthawuza nthawi zonse
ndipo chimene dzuwa lidzayimbe nthawi zonse ndi inu
apa pali chinsinsi chozama kwambiri palibe amene akudziwa
(pano pali muzu wa muzu ndi mphukira ya mphukira
ndi thambo la thambo la mtengo wotchedwa moyo; chomwe chimakula
apamwamba kuposa mzimu ungayembekeze kapena malingaliro angabise)
ndipo ichi ndi chodabwitsa chomwe chikulekanitsa nyenyezi
Ndanyamula mtima wako (ndaunyamula mu mtima mwanga)”
"Wopanda dzina" ndi Christina Rossetti
"Chiyambi ndi chiyani? Chikondi.
Ndi maphunziro otani. Chikondi pa.
Cholinga chake. Cholinga ndi chikondi.
Pa phiri losangalala.
Ndiye palibe china koma chikondi?
Sakani ife kumwamba kapena dziko lapansi
Palibe chotuluka mu Chikondi
Zili ndi phindu losatha:
Zinthu zonse mbendera koma Chikondi chokha,
Zinthu zonse zimalephera ndipo zimathawa;
Palibe chomwe chatsala koma Chikondi
Woyenera iwe ndi ine."
"Ndipo Ine Ndili Nawe" wolemba Nikki Giovanni
Mitsinje ili ndi mabanki
Mchenga kwa magombe
Mitima imakhala ndi kugunda kwa mtima
Zimenezo zimandipanga kukhala wanu
Singano zili ndi maso
Ngakhale mapini akhoza kubala
Elmer ali ndi guluu
Kupangitsa zinthu kukhala zolimba
Zima zimakhala ndi Spring
Mapazi a stockings
Tsabola ali ndi timbewu
Kuti zikhale zokoma
Aphunzitsi ali ndi maphunziro
Msuzi du jour
Maloya amazenga mlandu anthu oyipa
Madokotala amachiritsa
Zonse ndi zonse
Izi ndi zoona
Inu muli ndi ine
Ndipo ndili nawe”
Siyani Mumakonda