Sarah ndi Cindy - Chikondi kuchokera ku College
Chiyambi cha nkhani
Adakumana ndi zaka zawo zaku koleji chifukwa cha matsenga awo, pamsonkhano ku Chapel Hill, NC. Onse analipo okha ndipo amafunikira kukhala pafupi ndi wina, ndipo Sarah nthawi yomweyo adakopeka ndi Cindy.
Zinali zatsopano kotheratu. Cindy anapangitsa Sarah kusangalala kukhala naye pafupi. Anachititsa Sara kuseka chifukwa chokhalapo. Cindy anali munthu woyamba yemwe Sarah adalumikizana naye ngati choncho.
Chiwonetsero Choyamba
Sarah: "Anali ndi tsitsi loyera komanso ma vibes aku florida, komanso zomata za Harry Potter pa laputopu yake. Ndinkakhala pafupi naye pamsonkhano wachigawo ndipo sindinasiye kukhala naye pafupi. Ndinapeza zifukwa zonse zokhalira naye. Anali wanzeru, woseketsa, wosamala ndipo ndimangodziwa kuti tikhala mabwenzi apamtima. "
Cindy: “Damn, ndi wokongola!
Yambani chibwenzi
Anayamba chibwenzi pafupifupi miyezi 6 atakumana. Palibe aliyense wa iwo amene “anali kunja” kwa mabanja awo, kotero pozindikira kuti anali m’chikondi kunabwera limodzi ndi kuzindikira kuti anafunikira kuuza anzawo ndi achibale awo.
Zoyamba Zoyamba
Choyamba "Ndimakukondani". Cindy adanenapo mwaukadaulo, koma Sarah adanenanso mobwereza! Iwo anali atakhala pansi mu bafa pa zochitika zamatsenga ndipo zonse zinangotayika.
Kupsompsona koyamba. Cindy ndi Sarah anali ndi zifukwa zilizonse zoti aonane, ndipo kupsompsonana kwawo koyamba kunachitika usiku wina akucheza. Iwo anali atakhala pa kama wa Sarah, akungoyankhula, ndipo izo zinangochitika. Sarah anafunikira kwambiri kupsompsona Cindy, motero adatero. Ndipo iye sanayime konse.
Zovuta pozindikira kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha
Poyamba anali osokonezeka pang'ono, koma akhala akuchirikiza modabwitsa. Mabanja awo onse awiri amakondana kwambiri. Onse ndi odabwitsa! Amakhala mphindi zosakwana 10 kuchokera kumagulu atatu a makolo ndipo amawawona pafupipafupi. Ndizodabwitsa kuti onse adawakumbatira ngati banja nthawi yomweyo.
Chizolowezi chodabwitsa cha wina ndi mzake
MANDAU! Cindy ndiye wopanga ndandanda, ndipo ali ndi mindandanda ingapo m'mutu mwake, pamapepala ndi foni yake nthawi iliyonse.
Kutsatsa
Cindy adafunsira kwa Sarah kumapeto kwa sabata la tsiku lobadwa ake mu 2018. Anamanga msasa m'mapiri ndipo Cindy ankangomuuza Sarah kuti ayenera kugwiritsa ntchito bafa! Chotero mwachiwonekere, Sara anapita naye 
Cindy anachita izi kawiri asananene kuti, “Chabwino ine. Kuchoka. Inu. Khalani. Pano."
Chotero Sara anakhala! Patangodutsa mphindi zingapo, Cindy anabwerera kuhema akunong’oneza kuti, “fulumira mwana bwera uone! Kunja kuli banja la nswala!”
Sarah ananyamuka n’kuthamanga kutuluka m’chihemamo kuti akaone nswala ndipo mwadzidzidzi magetsi anayamba kuonekera, ndipo anazindikira chimene chikuchitika. Magetsi anayamba kuyatsa, kumutsogolera panjira. Masitepe ochepa potsatira magetsi, mapeto amawaunikira. Ndi chizindikiro (choti Cindy anali atabisala mwanjira ina m’galimoto yawo imene ankapita nayo kumisasa) ndi nyali za zingwe, zolembedwa mawu akuti, “Ndikwatire?”
Sarah asanamalize kuwerenga chikwangwanicho, anacheuka n’kuona Cindy atagwada. Sara anangogwidwa ndi chimwemwe ndi chisangalalo. Cindy atafunsira, adapatsa Sarah malaya omwe akuti "enGAYged" ndipo adapumula kwambiri paulendo wawo.
Patapita mlungu umodzi, inali nthawi ya Sara! Sarah adaganiza zomufunsira Cindy. Cindy anafunika kugwila nchito Loŵeruka m’maŵa, conco Sarah anamuona akuwomberedwa. Sarah anasindikiza mulu wa zithunzi ndipo adawamanga pamodzi ndikupita kupaki komwe Cindy sanafikeko. Sarah anayenda pang'ono munjira ndikumanga chingwe chake cha chithunzi pakati pa mitengo iwiri. Kenako anadikira. Ndipo anadikira. Cindy amayenera kunyamuka nthawi ya 12, koma pamapeto pake adafika chakuma 1.
Sarah adakumana naye kutsogolo kuti amuperekeze pomwe adayiyikapo. Kenako, pamene anali kupitako, anthu anayamba kunena zinthu monga, “Oh ndi zithunzi zanu zimenezo?” “Zikomo!” "O, ndiwe wokongola bwanji!" "Tawonani anthu omwe ali pazithunzizi!"
Adaseka ndikulowera komwe Sarah adamufunsira, Sarah adagwada bondo limodzi ndikunena kuti amamukonda Cindy pomwe banja lina amadyetsa abakha kumbuyo kwawo. Sizinali zangwiro, koma zinali zangwiro.
ukwati
Inali nthano! Adakwatirana pa Seputembara 19, 2020, lomwe linali tsiku lobadwa kwa Sarah! Anakwatirana ku B&B yokongola ku Pleasant Garden, North Carolina yotchedwa Walnut Lane. Linamangidwa m’nkhalango pakati pa malo opanda kanthu, ndipo linkawoneka ngati chinachake cha m’buku la nkhani. Iwo ayenera kukhala ku Malo kuyambira Lachisanu-Lamlungu.
Lachisanu, adakonza zonse! Mabanja awo onse anabwera kudzathandiza ndipo zinalidi zosangalatsa kwambiri! Loweruka, anagona pamodzi m’maŵa wonse pamalowo. Iwo anasankha kuti asakhale ndi maphwando a akwati, kotero iwo anayenera kukonzekera okha. Anatenga nthawi yawo ndipo kunali bata komanso kukongola.
Atatha kukonzekera, adajambula zithunzi zawo zaukwati kuzungulira malowo. Anadzimva otchuka ndi ojambula awo a 2 komanso malo okongola. Atajambula zithunzi zochititsa chidwi kwambiri, banja lawo linayamba kufika. Iwo ankatha kuona aliyense akulowa, koma palibe amene ankawaona.
Nthawi itakwana, anakonzekera kutuluka panja.
Anagwirana manja ndikuyenda wina ndi mzake kukwera kanjirako. Anakumana ndi bwenzi lawo lapamtima kutsogolo, ndipo adawapatsa mwambo wokongola kwambiri womwe akanapempha. Zinali zofunika zonse kwa iwo kuti iye anachita ukwati wawo.
Anawerenga malonjezo awo pamapepala ang'onoang'ono omwe adalemba kumayambiriro kwa tsikulo pa pizza. Mwambowo unali wangwiro.
Anayenda kubwerera mkanjira ndi okondedwa awo akuwomba thovu ndi kulira kwa mabelu amatsenga.
Mwambowu utatha, adavina usiku wonse pamodzi ndi anzawo komanso abale awo pagulu la nyimbo zomwe mlongo wake wazaka 16 Sarah anali akuthamanga. Zinali zonse zomwe amafuna, kenako zina.
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