KUSIYANA NDI CHIYANI? NJIRA ZOKONZEKERA UKWATI WA LGBTQ
Chikondi chimapambana nthawi zonse, ndipo ukwati ndi wokhawokha. Koma nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta ngati ifika nthawi yoti amuna kapena akazi okhaokha akonzekere mwambo wawo. Pano pali njira zopangira Ukwati wa LGBTQ akhoza kukhala osiyana.
Choyamba, muyenera kuonetsetsa kuti ukwati wanu udzakhala wovomerezeka
Pakhala zopindulitsa zambiri padziko lonse lapansi za kufanana kwaukwati, koma pali malo ena omwe sangapatse amuna kapena akazi okhaokha chiphatso chaukwati, kuphatikiza Australia komwe amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amayenera 'kukwatirana' mwamwambo wodzipereka. Mwamwayi, maiko ochulukirachulukira akuyamba kupanga malamulo mogwirizana ndi malingaliro omwe akupezeka mdera la kuvomera, kotero mutha kupeza malo okongola oti "ndikutero."
Mutha kutaya mwambo… ngati mukufuna
Pali miyambo ndi miyambo yomwe imazungulira ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma ndi mwambo waukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha palibe chiyembekezo (chabwino, kupatulapo anthu awiri kunena kuti 'ndikutero'). M'malo mwake, zonse ndi kupanga miyambo yanu kuti muyambe moyo waukwati ndi kuphatikiza koyenera kwa zakale ndi zatsopano. Mukufuna kukwera kanjira osaperekezedwa? Chitani zomwezo. Mukufuna kuponya tayi ya silika m'malo mwa garter? Kuyimba kwanu kwathunthu. Mukufuna kugawana nawo phwando laukwati m'malo mokhala ndi azikazi osiyana ndi okwatiwa? Lingaliro lalikulu. Ingokumbukirani: ndi ukwati wanu, choncho khalani omasuka kunena mwanjira yanuyanu yapadera.
N'zomvetsa chisoni kuti tsankho likhoza kukhala vuto
Zikafika kumalo anu, maluwa, keke, zovala ndi zina zilizonse zokhudzana ndi ukwati, zambiri ogulitsa ukwati ali okondekadi, ndipo zindikirani kuti chikondi ndicho chikondi. Koma, zoona zake, simunganyalanyaze kuthekera kwakuti ngakhale kuli koletsedwa kutero - ndi maufulu anu olembedwa m'malamulo - ena ogulitsa maukwati sangakhale ndi malingaliro olandila kwambiri pakugwira ntchito paukwati wa LGBT. Ndizochititsa manyazi, koma kumbukirani, kuti nthawi zina kusafuna uku kungabwere chifukwa chosowa chidziwitso chokonzekera ukwati wa gay, kotero mutha kupeza chitsogozo chochepa ndi zomwe zimafunikira.
Fashoni yanu yachilakolako imatha kuthamangitsidwa
Tuxes ziwiri? Zovala ziwiri? Awiri a chinthu china? Funso loti muvale paukwati wanu wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi lomwe muyenera kuliganizira - chifukwa palibe 'malamulo' otere. Ndipo ndizosangalatsa bwanji? Kupatula apo, ndi carte blanche kuti muwoneke ndikumva momwe mukufunira, mlengalenga ndi malire, kaya goth, glam, grunge kapena china chake chomwe chili mwapadera komanso mosakayikira inu.
Mndandanda wa alendo ukhoza kukhala wachinyengo pang'ono kusuntha
Ziribe kanthu kukula kapena kamvekedwe kaukwati wanu, kujowina mndandanda wa alendo kungakhale kovuta. Koma zifukwa zitha kukhala zosiyana kwambiri kwa owongoka ndi LGBTcouples. Mwachitsanzo, mkwati ndi mkwatibwi angaganizire za mmene angagwirizane ndi aliyense amene akufuna. Banja la LGBT, komabe, mwatsoka, liyenera kuyang'ananso za yemwe anganene kuti 'inde' pakuitanidwa, pokumbukira kuti anthu ali ndi malingaliro ambiri pankhani yaukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ngakhale zili choncho, mutha kulimba mtima pozindikira kuti pa zanu tsiku laukwati mudzazunguliridwa ndi anthu okhawo omwe sakufunira mgwirizano wanu chilichonse koma zabwino ... bola nonse mudzakhala ndi moyo!
Maphwando ndi anu kuti musinthe makonda anu
Ndi chiyani chomwe chingakhale chosangalatsa kuposa phwando la bachelorette kapena nkhuku kwa mkwatibwi? Maphwando awiri a bachelorette kapena nkhuku kwa akwatibwi awiri. Kapena pamodzi usiku wa tonde kwa akwati awiri. Kapena chinachake chosiyana kwambiri. Mwina mkwati angakonde kukhala ndi tsiku lachisangalalo kusiyana ndi kukacheza usiku? Kapena mwina akwatibwi ali ndi abwenzi ambiri omwe amalumikizana kotero kuti angakonde kudyera limodzi nkhomaliro yautali kuposa zikondwerero zosiyana. Monga chilichonse chokhudzana ndi ukwati - osati kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha - zonse zimangoyang'ana zomwe mungasankhe, poganizira momwe mungakondwerere maukwati anu omwe akubwera ndi achibale ndi abwenzi (ndipo mwina cocktails), ndiyeno kupita kumeneko.
Mukuonetsetsa kuti alendo anu a LGBT azikhala omasuka?
Kaya ndiukwati komwe mukupita kapena pafupi ndi ngodya mudzafuna kuwononga nthawi pang'ono ndikuwonetsetsa kuti mayendedwe- ndi malo okasangalala - onse ndi ochezeka kwenikweni a LGBT - osati pazomwe angachite, koma pazomwe angachite kuti apangitse chidwi chenicheni cha kulandiridwa ndi kuphatikizidwa. Njira yabwino yochitira izi ndikucheza ndi mamenejala, ogwira ntchito ndi ogulitsa omwe angakhale nawo, komanso kuyang'ana maumboni awo, kuti adziwe mbiri yawo muukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso chisangalalo chomwe amapeza pothandizira kupanga masiku a maloto. Izi zikuthandizani kuti musankhe malo abwino komanso akatswiri osati nokha komanso alendo anu a LGBT kuti aliyense athe kupumula ndikusangalala ndi tsikuli mothandizira. mpweya.
Mutha kusakaniza mipando yamwambo
Pamwambo wachikhristu wodziwika bwino, ndi mwambo kuti banja la mkwatibwi likhale kumanzere ndipo mkwati azikhala kumanja. Koma mukakhala ndi akwati awiri kapena akwatibwi, lingaliro la 'wake' ndi 'wake' likhoza kusokoneza pang'ono. Choncho, pokonzekera ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, njira yosavuta koma yochenjera pozungulira izi ndi kukhala ndi mbali zomwe zimaperekedwa ndi mayina anu, kapena, monga momwe maanja ambiri amakono amachitira, ingogwiritsani ntchito mutu wonga uwu: "Lero, mabanja awiri akukhala amodzi, choncho chonde. , sankhani mpando osati mbali.”
Maudindo a jenda angafunike kufotokozedwanso
Ukwati wamwambo wogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha uli ndi maudindo ambiri kapena mphindi zomwe zimafotokozedwa momveka bwino ndi jenda. Mwachitsanzo, mkwati angadikire pa guwa kuti mkwatibwi ayende m’kanjira, mwamuna wabwino koposa angayembekezere kunyamula mkwatibwi. mphete, ndi wojambula zithunzi angapange mkwati ndi mkwatibwi mwanjira inayake, pangakhale kuvina ndi kuponya maluwa, kapena mkwati angayang'ane kuti alankhule m'malo mwake ndi mkazi wake watsopano. Chifukwa chake ndi kutha kwa miyambo yomwe ukwati wa LGBT ungapereke, sizothandiza kuti mavenda anu, MC ndi maphwando ena omwe akukhudzidwa angalandire kulumikizana komveka bwino komanso koyambirira momwe mumaganizira kuti tsiku lanu lalikulu likuyenda, makamaka chifukwa limalola akatswiri. Mwachitsanzo, mu ukwati wowongoka pakati pa amuna ndi akazi wojambula zithunzi Nthawi zambiri amangoganizira za mkwatibwi ndipo nthawi zambiri amayang'ana mkwatibwi, koma ndi akwatibwi awiri angagwiritse ntchito chithunzithunzi chachiwiri kuti achitire amayi onse chilungamo mofanana.
Bajeti ikhoza kukhala yosiyana
Mabanja onse ayenera kumamatira ku bajeti pokonzekera ukwati (kapena yesetsani kutero), koma kwa anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, zikhoza kubwera palimodzi mosiyana kusiyana ndi kuwonongeka kwa chikhalidwe cha ndalama. Mwachitsanzo, m'malo a chovala chaukwati ndi tuxedo yobwereka, ukwati wa gay ukhoza kukhala ndi akwati awiri omwe akufuna masuti ofananira koma osafanana. Kapena mwina akwatibwi awiri onse amalota kuti afika pamwambowo atakwera njinga yamoto. Ndipo mwina kulibe keke ya mkwati nkomwe. Apanso, monga ndi chirichonse chokhudzana ndi bajeti yaukwati, ndikukhala pansi kuyambira pachiyambi, kukhazikitsa bajeti, kufotokoza masomphenya anu motsatira zofunikira ndikuyang'ana momwe mungachitire.
Kumapeto kwa tsiku, pamene muyika pambali kusiyana kumeneku, maukwati onse ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi LGBT amagawana chinthu chofunika kwambiri - maganizo omwe anthu awiri amabwera pamodzi kudzalonjeza chikondi chosatha. Ndi lonjezo kuti muzonse adzakhala ndi misana ya wina ndi mzake. Ndipo izo, ziribe kanthu yemwe inu muli, ndi chinthu chokongola.
Siyani Mumakonda