Ixhala ngabantwana abakhuliswa ngumzali onesitabane
Ngamanye amaxesha abantu banenkxalabo yokuba abantwana abakhuliswa ngumzali othandana nomntu othandana naye baya kufuna inkxaso eyongezelelekileyo ngokweemvakalelo. Uphando lwangoku lubonisa ukuba abantwana abanabazali abathandana besini esinye abahlukanga kubantwana abanabazali abathandana besini esahlukileyo ekukhuleni kwabo ngokweemvakalelo okanye kubudlelwane babo noontanga kunye nabantu abadala.
Uphando lubonise ukuba ngokungafaniyo neenkolelo eziqhelekileyo, abantwana babazali abathandana nabasetyhini, abathandanayo, okanye abazali abagqithileyo:
- Akunakwenzeka ukuba babe gay kunabantwana abanabazali abathandana besini esahlukileyo.
- Akufane kwenzeke ukuba baxhatshazwe ngokwesondo.
- Sukubonisa iiyantlukwano malunga nokuba bazicingela njengamadoda okanye abasetyhini (isazisi sesini).
- Sukubonisa iiyantlukwano kwiindlela zabo zokuziphatha zamadoda nabasetyhini (indima yesini).
Ukukhulisa abantwana kwikhaya le-LGBT
Ezinye iintsapho ze-LGBT zijongene nocalucalulo kwiindawo abahlala kuzo kwaye abantwana banokuhlekwa okanye baxhatshazwe ngoontanga.
Abazali banokubanceda abantwana babo bahlangabezane nezi ngcinezelo ngezi ndlela zilandelayo:
- Lungiselela umntwana wakho ukuba aphendule imibuzo kunye namagqabaza ngemvelaphi yakhe okanye usapho.
- Vumela unxibelelwano olukhululekileyo kunye neengxubusho ezifanele ubudala bomntwana wakho kunye nomgangatho wokuqola.
- Nceda umntwana wakho eze kwaye aziqhelanise neempendulo ezifanelekileyo ekuqhuleni okanye ekuthetheni kakubi.
- Sebenzisa iincwadi, iiWebhusayithi, kunye neemuvi ezibonisa abantwana kwiintsapho zeLGBT.
- Cinga ngokuba nothungelwano lwenkxaso yomntwana wakho (Umzekelo, ukuba umntwana wakho adibane nabanye abantwana abanabazali abathandanayo.).
- Cinga ngokuhlala kwindawo apho ukwahluka kwamkelwe ngakumbi.
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