I-LGBTQ Intsapho yoomama ababini: uCara, uCara kunye nentombi uMyla
Ukwazisa iqabane lakho kumntwana wakho
UCara C.: “Kaloku, uMyla ngokwenene yibhayoloji yam endandinayo ngaphambi kokuba ndiphume, yaye ngaphambi kokuba ndidibane noCara W. Ndamkhulisa uMyla ndedwa njengomama ongatshatanga kwiminyaka yokuqala emi-5 yobomi bakhe. Emva kokuba ndidibene noCara W, emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa zokuthandana ndamvumela ukuba adibane noMyla, kwaye ngokoqobo ngaloo mzuzu, waba nguMama. UCara W ebesoloko efuna abantwana, kwaye yena noMyla banxibelelana ngendlela engakholelekiyo endingazange ndiyicinge. UMyla uye wamthatha, kwaye umthanda ngokungathi ebekho ebomini bethu kwasekuqaleni.
Uxanduva lobuzali
Cara. C: “Senza umsebenzi omhle ngokwenene wokwahlulahlula imisebenzi yethu yobuzali/ixesha! Ndiyenza yonke into yokulungiselela/isikolo/ naphi na apho kufuneka ahambe khona izinto, kodwa uCara W ngulo odlalayo, owakha izinto, umncedi kumsebenzi wesikolo wasekhaya… ke siyazama ukulwa oko njengeqela! Ndingathi ndingoyena mzali ungqongqo, kodwa uCara W akathathi ncoko ingako nalo. Yaye sobabini sizama ukuthetha naye ngeentliziyo zethu njengentsapho enye. Sifuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba uyaqonda ukuba angeza kuthi sobabini ngayo nantoni na atyhubela kuyo, okanye anengxaki nayo, ngoko ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sibe nezo ncoko zinzima njengosapho!”
Iingxoxo nomntwana malunga nokuba iintsapho zahlukile
Cara. C.: “EWE!! Esi sisihloko esibaluleke kangaka kuthi! Akunjalo nje ngenxa yokuba siyintsapho yesini esifanayo, kodwa ngenxa yokuba sifuna uMyla abe ngumntwana owamkelayo nabani na onosapho olulodwa oluguquguqukayo! Nokuba yintsapho efana neyethu leyo, umama ongenaqabane, utata ongenaqabane, umntwana okhuliswa ngootatomkhulu nootatomkhulu, abantwana abakhuliswe ngowabo… zonke ziyasebenza, kwaye zibalulekile, kwaye sifuna aqonde ukuba i-dna ayenzi sapho… uthando luyayenza! Kwaye uthando lunokuza kuzo zonke iimilo kunye nobukhulu! Ingakumbi ekubeni sobabini siphuma kuzo zonke iintsapho “zemveli” kumacala omabini, sifuna ukuba azi ukuba kuninzi kakhulu kwigama elithi INTSAPHO kunokubona kubazali bethu, nabanye abantakwethu ebomini bethu.
Isikolo/ixesha lokuzonwabisa nomntwana
Cara. C.: “Singabakhenkethi abakhulu, kunye nabakhweli be-SUP! Ezo zimbini zethu eziphambili esizithandayo! Butttt... ukusukela kwi-Covid, senze iiprojekthi zeSTEM ezintsha zokuba uMyla athathe inxaxheba, abukele iimuvi kunye, kwaye abe neeCawe zesundae! Apho sine ice cream sundae qho ngeCawe!! Andikwazi ukulinda ukuqala ngenene ukukhwela intaba kunye nokukhwela i-SUP kwakhona nangona kunjalo! Hleka kakhulu"
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