INDAWO YOMTSHATO IMIGAQO UFUNA UYAZI
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uyatshata okanye awutshatanga kufuphi nekhaya, ukuqonda i-etiquette yomtshato esisiseko kunokuba yinto ekhohlisayo. Ngubani ohlawulela ntoni? Zingaphi iindwendwe onokuzimema? Imibuzo ye-etiquette ngamanye amaxesha ayinasiphelo, kwaye xa usongeza indawo ekude enezithethe ezahlukeneyo kunye nenkcubeko, imithetho ingatshintsha ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa i-etiquette yomtshato wendawo akufuneki idideke - konke okufunekayo luphando olongezelelweyo kunye nokucwangcisa ngaphambi kokuba uhambe ngosuku olukhulu.
Khangela ukuba ngubani ohlawulela ntoni
“Okokuqala, izibini kufuneka zikhumbule iindwendwe zazo malunga neendleko. Ngaphandle kokuba zonke iindwendwe zabo zizityebi (okungafane kwenzeke), awufuni ukukhetha a indawo kubiza imali eninzi ukuhlala kuyo,” utsho uJamie Chang, umtshato osingwayo umcwangcisi kunye nomyili eLos Altos. “Yindlela engafanelekanga yomsitho womtshato ukucela iindwendwe ukuba zihlawule amawaka eedola ukuze zize kumtshato wazo.”
Lugcine lufutshane uluhlu lweendwendwe
Akukho mithetho inzima kwaye ikhawulezayo yokuya kwindawo yomtshato xa kufikwa ekudaleni uluhlu lwakho lweendwendwe. Kodwa kwimitshato emininzi yendawo, kungcono ukucinga encinci. Mema abantu obathandayo nobafunayo ebomini bakho. UChang ucebisa ukuba abuze lo mbuzo ulandelayo: “Ukuba umtshato wakho ubunezolo uze ungammemi lo mntu, ngaba ubuya kuba buhlungu? Uluhlu lwakho lweendwendwe kufuneka lube ngabantu abathi impendulo yalo mbuzo ithi 'ewe,'” utsho uChang.
Nika iindwendwe ixesha elaneleyo lokucwangcisa
Thumela amakhadi akho okugcina malunga neenyanga ezisibhozo ukuya kwezi-10 ngaphambi komtshato, kwaye uthumele izimemo ubuncinane kwiinyanga ezintathu kwangaphambili, unike iindwendwe ixesha elininzi kwi-RSVP.
Yenza iindwendwe zakho zizive zamkelekile
Wamkele iindwendwe zakho ukusuka ekuqaleni. Mhlawumbi wenze itheko ngomhla wokufika. iibhegi ezamkelekileyo ezizaliswe sisikhuseli selanga, iiflops okanye ezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo kwindawo yemozulu eshushu kukuchukumisa okumnandi nako. "Yenza kube lula kubo ukonwabela," utshilo uSabrina Cadini, umseki kunye nomlawuli woyilo weSan Diego-based La Dolce Idea, inkampani ebonelela ngeenkonzo zokucwangcisa umtshato. Banike imiyalelo ethile malunga nohambo, iimeko zemozulu, iingcebiso ngempahla, kwaye ubagcine benolwazi kwaye benxibelelana ngempelaveki yomtshato.
Ukuba ufuna ixesha uwedwa emva komsitho
UChang uthi: “Ayikho indlela yokuyikhankanya le nto. "Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokufumana eli nqaku kukudala umqobo womzimba." Ukuba ufuna ixesha kunye njengesibini emva kolwamkelo, uChang ucebisa ukuba uhlale kwindawo yabucala. Gxobhoza kwigumbi lakho lehotele. Beka uphawu "ungaphazamisi". Incwadi yomtshato kwihotele eyahlukileyo. Iindwendwe zakho ziya kufumana umyalezo.
Funda izithethe kunye neenkcubeko zasekuhlaleni
UCadini uthi: “Ungawaquki amasiko okanye ezinye izinto ezinokukhubekisa izithethe zelizwe otshatela kulo.
Ngokomzekelo, ukucofa iqhosha lakho Nabathengisi kwamanye amazwe kunokuba lukhubekiso. Umhlobo kaCadini watshata nendoda yaseJapan kwilizwe lakowabo, yaye wamema abahlobo bakhe baseMelika emtshatweni. “Ebudeni bomsitho womsitho womtshato, iindwendwe zathi thaa koosomashishini njengemiqondiso yokuwuxabisa umsebenzi owenziwe kakuhle. Kwavela ukuba, ukunika ingcebiso eJapan kuthathwa njengesithuko. Iindwendwe zakhe kucacile ukuba bezingazi nto, kodwa oosokhaya baye bakhubeka bakhalaza kumphathi wesidlo owathi naye waya kukhalaza kumakoti nomyeni,” utsho uCadini.
Ukuze ugweme naluphi na unxibelelwano olungalunganga lwenkcubeko kunye nokugcina i-etiquette efanelekileyo yomtshato, uCadini ucebisa ukubuza umcwangcisi womtshato wendawo malunga namasiko athile okanye izithethe zendawo yakho. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba ukucofa kuthathwa njengobukrwada, dlulisela olo lwazi kwiindwendwe zakho.
Nika iindwendwe zakho ulwazi oluphambili
Zininzi izinto kunye neenkcukacha ezibandakanyekayo ekuyeni kumtshato wendawo, ke qiniseka ukuba unika iindwendwe zakho ulwazi oluninzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Eyakho website yomtshato yeyona ndawo ifanelekileyo yokwabelana ngalo lonke ulwazi olubalulekileyo-ukusuka kwishedyuli yempelaveki ukuya kulwazi lwezothutho, ulwazi loqhagamshelwano olungxamisekileyo, kunye nokunye okuninzi.
Nika amathuba okudibana
Ukuba omnye weendwendwe zakho akabazi abanye emtshatweni, cinga ukumvumela ukuba eze nenye. Kuba imitshato emininzi yendawo inokuba yimicimbi yeveki yonke, nika iindwendwe zakho ithuba lokunxulumana netheko elamkelekileyo kunye neminye imisebenzi ecwangcisiweyo, njengokujonga indawo, imidlalo, ukuhamba ngesikhephe, okanye olunye uhambo.
“Ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuba wonke umntu unexesha elimnandi kwaye unomntu anokuncokola naye,” utshilo uChang.
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Sukumema abanye ngaphandle kwemvume
Yindlela yomtshato eyoyikisayo yokuza nomhlobo ukuba awumenywanga nge-plus-one. Ukuba uya kubhabha wedwa ngexesha lomtshato, kuya kufuneka wamkele ukuba uya kuba wedwa ngalo lonke ixesha. Akulunganga ukuba umeme umhlobo wakho okanye omnye umntu obalulekileyo ngokwakho-ukongeza kwiindleko zizonke zezibini.
Musa ukuziva unesidingo sokuchitha ngaphezulu kwisipho
Kuba mhlawumbi uchithe isixa esihle sokutshintsha ukuya emtshatweni, ungathengela isibini isipho esinexabiso eliphantsi. Kodwa kuxhomekeke kuwe ngokupheleleyo. Yiya phezulu kwirejista okanye uye ezantsi. Ekubeni ukuthutha izipho kwinqwelomoya kunokuba yintlungu, isipho sakho sithunyelwe kwisibini ngaphambi komtshato.
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