YONKE INTO OFUNA UYAZI NGE-LGBTQ DESTINATION WEDDING
Le yivenkile yakho yokumisa enye yakho konke okufuneka ukwazi malunga ne-LGBTQ yeMitshato yokuFikela!
Ukuqala, kukho izizwe ezingama-22 kwihlabathi jikelele eziqaphela imitshato yama-gay. Zininzi iindawo zokutyelela ukuze ubophe iqhina! Nantsi eminye imibuzo ebuzwa rhoqo malunga nayo Imitshato yeLGBTQ.
Singaya phi njengesibini se-LGBTQ?
Ezona ndawo zidumileyo kwimitshato yendawo yiCaribbean. Ngenxa yembonakalo entle kunye nemozulu emangalisayo, iziqithi zeCaribbean zezona ziphambili kwiingqondo zezibini ezininzi. Nangona kunjalo, njengesibini se-LGBTQ, oku kunokuba nzima. Ayizizo zonke iziqithi zeCaribbean ezamkela uluntu lwe-LGBTQ ngeengalo ezivulekileyo. Iziqithi ezihlala uluntu ziquka iAnguilla, iAruba, iBritish Virgin Islands, i-US Virgin Islands, iCuracao, iSt Martin, iSt. Barts, iTurks neCaicos, iCosta Rica, iPanama, iDominican Republic (iLa Romana nePunta Cana) kunye Mexico (khetha iindawo). Nangona uninzi lwezi ziqithi, umtshato wesini azikho mthethweni, zilungiselela imisitho yokomfuziselo. Ezinye iinketho ziquka iBora Bora kwiZiqithi zaseTahiti. IYurophu, la mazwe aquka iNgilani, iFinland, iBrazil, iJamani, iFransi, iPortugal, iSpain nokunye! Kwaye ekubeni eUnited States ngoku ukwamkela imitshato gay ungandwendwela Hawaii, Puerto Rico, Florida and more! Kwaye ke, unokutshata naphi na eCanada, ngokusemthethweni!
Uyintoni umahluko phakathi komsitho wokomfuziselo nosemthethweni?
Amaxwebhu afanelekileyo ayafuneka kwitheko elisemthethweni. Oku kuthetha ukuba uya kutshata ngokusemthethweni kwelo lizwe. Ukutyikitywa kwephepha-mvume lomtshato kuya kuba yinxalenye yomsitho. Oku kuya kuthetha ukuba isibini kuya kufuneka sifake onke amaxwebhu afanelekileyo kwiinkundla ezifanelekileyo zelo lizwe. Oku kunokuba yinkqubo enzima kwaye ibiza kakhulu njengoko ezinye iindawo zokusingwa zifuna ukuba ube kwelo lizwe elithile ixesha elithile ngaphambi komsitho womtshato kunye nemali eyongezelelweyo yokuba ijaji ibekho kumsitho.
Umsitho womfuziselo, ngokuqhelekileyo kukho umfundisi wenkolo okanye igosa lomtshato eliqinisekisiweyo elenza umsitho. Imisitho yeSimboli ifuna ukuba utshate kwilizwe lakho lemvelaphi phambi kokuba uye kumtshato wendawo. Uninzi lwezibini ezitshatileyo ziya kwinkundla yazo ukuze zifumane amaxwebhu zize emva koko zifune ikopi yazo xa zifika kwindawo eziya kuyo. Imisitho yeSimboli yeyona idumileyo njengoko iyeyona ilula. Akukho maphepha amdaka okuthumela iphepha-mvume lomtshato kwilizwe lakho lemvelaphi kwaye lukhetho olungabizi kakhulu. Ngokubhekiselele kuluntu lwe-LGBTQ, phantse kuzo zonke iziqithi zeCaribbean ezivumela imisitho yomtshato wama-gay kuphela zibonelela ngemisitho engokomfuziselo njengoko umtshato we-gay awukho semthethweni kwilizwe labo.
Ngubani oza kucwangcisa aze alungelelanise umtshato wethu wendawo?
Ezinye iindawo ekuchithelwa kuzo iiholide zibonelela ngomtshato umququzeleli njengombulelo ngesibini esibhukisha umtshato kwindawo yabo yokuchithela iholide. Ukuba ukhetha, unokuqesha umcwangcisi womtshato ukuba aphathe zonke iinkcukacha. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba ihotele ineenkonzo zomququzeleli womtshato, qiniseka ukuba wenze uphando kwaye baya kuba neengcebiso ezithile.
Ziziphi iimfuno zelayisensi yomtshato?
Onke amazwe anamaxesha ahlukeneyo okulinda okufumana iilayisensi zomtshato. Kuluntu lwe-LGBTQ, qiniseka ukuba wenze uphando apho umtshato we-gay usemthethweni. Qinisekisa ukubonisana ne-arhente yakho yokuhamba NGOKU ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zelayisensi yomtshato.
Ngaba kufuneka amangqina?
Ngokuqhelekileyo kwimibhiyozo yomthetho, amangqina ama-4 kufuneka abe khona. Kwimibhiyozo yomfuziselo, i-2 iyafuneka. Ingqina ngalinye kufuneka libe nesazisi esisebenzayo, nokuba yincwadana yokundwendwela okanye ilayisenisi yokuqhuba. Indawo nganye ekuyiwa kuyo yahlukile ke qiniseka ukuba uyabuza. Ukuba ufuna amangqina, indawo nganye ekuchithelwa kuyo iiholide iya kukwazi ukukuthabatha ukuba kuyimfuneko.
Simele siwucebe kusekude kangakanani umsitho womtshato esiya kuwo?
Iinyanga ezi-9-12 lixesha elaneleyo lokucwangcisa umtshato. Oku kunika ixesha elaneleyo lokujonga zonke iibhokisi, kunye nexesha elaneleyo lokuba iindwendwe zakho zenze amalungiselelo azo emtshatweni wakho.
Ngaba zikhona iipakethe ezifumanekayo zokuloba?
EWE! Uninzi lweeNdawo ekuchithelwa kuzo iiholide zibonelela ngeepakethi zeentaka zothando ezimbini kuphela! Jonga kwindawo yokuphumla ojonge kuyo ukuze ufumane iinkcukacha ezithe kratya kwiipakethi.
Shiya iMpendulo