Uluntu lwakho lwe-LGBTQ+ loMtshato

UMnu noMnu
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Ikratshi le-LGBTQ, Ucwangciso lomtshato

OKUMELE UYIBHALE KWIKHADI LOMTSHATO LE-LGBTQ?

Umenyiwe kwi Umtshato weLGBTQ kwaye awukazi ukuba ubhale ntoni kwikhadi lomtshato? Siza kunceda ekufumaneni impendulo. Jonga iingcebiso zethu kwaye mhlawumbi ungakhetha amagama angcono kwimeko yakho.

Ukuncoma

“Nceda ungasixeleli ukuba sibahle, sibahle kunye, senzelwe ukuba sibe kunye/okanye senzelwe omnye nomnye,” satsho njalo akukho sibini. Ngamanye amazwi, baxelele indlela abamangalisa ngayo!

imizekelo:

  • “Abafana abalungileyo njengani nifanele omnye komnye!”
  • “Greg, xa uJoey wanisazisa okokuqala kum, bendicinga ukuba niyalingana. Kwaye ngoku kwavela ukuba ndandinyanisile! Ndiyavuya kuni nobabini.”
  • "Ndiyathemba ukuba umtshato wenu umhle njengani nobabini."
  • "Ndiyathanda ukubona abafazi ababini bemangalisa njengoko nigqiba kunye. Sivuyisana nawe.”
  • "Sivuyisana ngokuba yiNkosana enomtsalane omnye komnye."
  • “Mx. kunye neMx. unento entle ngqinela kuyo!” (Qaphela: Mx. sisihloko esingathath' icala ngokwesini onokusisebenzisa kuso indawo kaMnu okanye Nksk.)
  • “Abantu ababini abamangalisayo. Esinye isibini esimangalisayo. Siyavuyisana nawe!”
  • “Nantsi indoda nomfazi! Siyakuthanda ukubona indlela enivuyisana ngayo.”
  • “Uthando enalufumana kunye lwenziwa lwahlala luhleli. Ukubhiyozela kunye nawe njengoko uqala uhambo lwakho njengamaqabane obomi bakho bonke. "

Ingcebiso yokubhala: Ukuba awuqinisekanga ngezimelabizo zabamkeli bakho, hlala ukhumbula ukuba ukutyikitya ikhadi akubizi “yena,” “yena” okanye “bona,” kodwa “wena,” engakhethi cala ngokwesini kwaye iyasebenza. kuthi sonke.

Ke, nokuba omnye okanye bobabini abamkeli bakho bachonge njengabantu abangabalulekanga ngokwesini, usengabhala, “Ndonwabile kuwe!” okanye “Ndivuya gqitha ukuba nifumenene” okanye kwanothi “Andinakulinda ukuba nibhiyoze nonke!”

Ukuba ufuna ukugcina olunye ulwimi olukhethayo lungathathi cala ngokwesini, cinga ukusebenzisa enye okanye ngaphezulu kwezi:

  • "Mx." endaweni yokuthi “Mnu. okanye “Nkskz.”
  • “Iqabane,” “iqabane” okanye “omnye obalulekileyo” endaweni “yendoda” okanye “umfazi”
  • “Umbhiyozo” okanye “umtshakazi” endaweni yokuthi “umtshakazi” okanye “umyeni”
abatshakazi ababini kwibhayisekile: SENZA!

Halala kunye neminqweno

Ngamanye amaxesha ufuna nje ukugcina izinto zimfutshane kwaye zonwabile kwaye zimnandi-kwaye ilungile.

imizekelo:

  • “Halala kunye neminqweno emihle, manene!”
  • “Sivuyisana nomtshakazi nomtshayelo ngosuku lwenu olukhulu!” (Qaphela: "Umtshayelo" yindibaniselwano "yomtshakazi" + "umyeni" abathi abanye abatshati be-LGBTQ [amaxesha amaninzi abasetyhini] bakhethe ngenxa yabo. usuku lomtshato.)
  • “Ndichulumancile ngani, Cody noLevi!”
  • “Nantsiya kubakhwenyana!”
  • "Amadoda amabini athandanayo, enye into emnandi phambi kwakho ... Sivuyisana kakhulu nomtshato wakho."
  • “Sivuyisana nawe, Anne noMichelle! Bendingenako ukonwaba ngakumbi kuni nobabini.”
  • “Apha kukuba ‘ngamadoda amadala atshatileyo’! Ndonwabe kakhulu!
  • "Amaqabane eluthandweni ... ebomini ... rhoqo. Siyavuyisana nawe!”
  • “Sivuyisana nawe! Niza kuba ngamaqabane amnandi omnye komnye.”
  • “Oku kufuna iitawuli zabo kunye nezabo! Sivuyisana nani nobabini!” (Qaphela: Ukusebenzisa "Yabo & Yabo" endaweni ka "Yakhe & Hers" kusebenzela isibini esichonga njengesini esingenabhinari kwaye sisebenzise izimelabizo "bona" ​​endaweni yokuthi "yena" okanye "yena" bona .)

Ingcebiso yokubhala: Ukuba uqaphele ukuba amagama nesini kunye nezibizo zonke ezenza ezinye zezi LGBTQ-specific, unyanisile. Okufanayo kuya kwimizekelo yomyalezo ongathathi hlangothi ngenjongo. Kwaye kungenxa yokuba-i-queer okanye ngqo-ukufudumala kunye novuyo ziyafana.

Oomakoti ababini

Ukuzingca kunye neNkxaso

Ukubonakalisa ukuzingca, ukwamkela isibini esitshatileyo ngamazwi enkxaso, ukubhiyozela ilungelo elinzima lokutshata-nayiphi na yezi ndlela ingaba yindlela efanelekileyo yomtshato ofudumeleyo okanye umyalezo wokuzibandakanya kwisibini se-LGBTQ.

imizekelo:

  • "Ndizingca kunye nani nobabini ekubhiyozeleni umtshato wenu."
  • “Siyanithanda kwaye siyanixhasa, kwaye sinebhongo ngani.”
  • “Ndikhalela wena ngeenyembezi ezininzi ezinebhongo nezolonwabo!”
  • "Ugcwele ibhongo ngolonwabo, ulonwabo, uthando, owenzelwe esinye isibini esitshatileyo."
  • “Ndiyalwazi uhambo lwenu nobabini ukuya kufika apha. Andikwazi kulinda ukuze ndikubone ukuba uyaphi namhlanje.”
  • “Unalo uthando. Kwaye unathi. Sikuwe yonke indlela.”
  • “Uthando lwakho luyakhuthaza. Ungumzekelo oqaqambileyo wento eyenzekayo xa abantu ababini abenzelwe ukuba benze oko kufunekayo ukuze babe kunye.”
  • “Nakweli hlabathi liphambeneyo, uthando lufumana indlela. Ndiyavuya kakhulu kuni nobabini.”

Ingcebiso yokubhala: Umyalezo wokuzingca awufuneki. Nokuba le nto uyibhalayo igxile eluthandweni, kulonwabo nakwiminqweno, uya kube ubonakalisa inkxaso kwesi sibini. Amakhadi anamandla anjalo.

uburharha

Ukuba ukufutshane nesiqingatha esinye okanye zozibini zesi sibini, kwaye uyazi ukuba baya kuwuxabisa umnqweno ohlekisayo okanye ongenantliziyo, ke uzive ukhululekile ukubenza bahleke ngento oyibhalayo.

imizekelo:

  • “I-double garter [isipha sesipha]! Ibhonasi!”
  • “Ukuba kukho ubulungisa, kuya kuvela umnyama omkhulu esibhakabhakeni ngomhla womtshato wakho!”
  • “Iikumkanikazi ezimbini zisoloko zisisandla esilungileyo. Ndingene kulo lonke ubhejo!”
  • “Sinethemba lokuba ngowona mcimbi wakha wafana nesini!”
  • “Wawulungile njengamanenekazi angatshatanga. Kodwa ndiyavuya ukuba uyifake umsesane, kuba ningcono nangakumbi xa nikunye!”
  • “Sijonge phambili kolona luhlu lubalaseleyo lomtshato lwakha lwakho. Ndizakuzilungiselela iintshukumo zam.”
  • "Ngamana usuku lwakho lomtshato lunokonwaba kakhulu, luyehla kwibali LAKHE."
  • “Benibalulekile kangangexesha elithile ngoku. Kwaye ngoku nibaluleke ngakumbi omnye komnye…ukuba inokwenzeka!
  • "Nina nobabini nenza i-helluva kakhulu kunezinye izibini ezikolu sapho."

Ingcebiso yokubhala: Uburharha bugcinwa ngcono kwabo ubazi kakuhle. Ngoko, xa uthandabuza, musa ukuqhula. Gcina iminqweno yakho ifudumele kwaye isuka entliziyweni endaweni yoko.

Amaqabane amabini

KuSapho

Xa ubhalela ilungu losapho elisandula ukutshata okanye eliza kutshata, kulungile ukufaka umyalezo wakho obhaliweyo ngenqaku elongezelelweyo lokufudumala nolwamkelo. Ngapha koko, iqabane labo eliza kuba liza kuba lusapho, nalo!

imizekelo:

  • “Usapho lwethu lukhula ngomkhwenyana omnye… nothando olungaka. Andinakonwaba ngakumbi ngaloo nto!”
  • “Ndonwabe kakhulu intombi yethu ifumene ibhinqa eligqibeleleyo ukuze wabelane ngobomi bayo.”
  • “Andizange ndicinge ukuba ndizakufumana oyena mzalwana upholileyo wakha wabulela kumntakwethu omdala. Imimangaliso ayipheli!”
  • “Wamkelekile kwifam! Ungoyena nto ilungileyo ukwenzeka kweli qela kuba ngubani owaziyo ukuba nini. ”
  • Ukubona nobabini nonwabile kunye kwenza intsapho yonke yonwabe ngakumbi.
  • “Besisazi ukuba kuya kuthatha umntu okhethekileyo ukuba akulungele, kwaye umfumene. Yay!"
  • “Bendingenakuyikhethela intombi yam iqabane elingcono. Uyamvuyisa kakhulu, kwaye oko kuthetha yonke into kum.”
  • “Ungajongi iqela labadlali. Sonke silapha siyavuyisana, siyakuxhasa kwaye sinamkela kusapho.”

Ingcebiso yokubhala: Eminye yale mizekelo yomyalezo ingasentla ijoliswe ngakumbi kumntu omnye kwabatshatileyo, kwaye oko kuyavakala. Unokufuna ukuthetha izinto ezahlukeneyo kwilungu losapho lwakho lwangoku kunye nelungu lakho eliza kuba lilo losapho kungekudala. Unokuthetha nomntu ngamnye eyedwa kwikhadi elinye. Okanye unokuthumela ikhadi elongezelelweyo kwelinye okanye omabini.

Ukuvalwa Okufudumeleyo

Ukuvalwa okufudumeleyo phambi kokuba utyikityo lwakho lusongelo olugqibeleleyo lomtshato wakho okanye umyalezo wothethathethwano. Nalu ukuvalwa kwesiqhelo, kodwa zive ukhululekile ukuza nophawu lwakho olulodwa ukuba sesona simbo sakho eso.

imizekelo:

  • Ngokufudumele,
  • Ozithobileyo,
  • Masinwabe!
  • Nqwenela!
  • Bonke ubomi bungcono kuwe,
  • Siyavuyisana!
  • Halala kunye neminqweno emihle,
  • Sivuyisana kakhulu,
  • Sivuyisana nentliziyo,
  • Ndonwabe kakhulu!
  • Iintsikelelo,
  • Uthando,
  • Ngothando,
  • Uthando oluninzi,
  • Uthando ngamaxesha onke,

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