10 Mwa Nkhani Zathu Zomwe Tizikonda Kwambiri Kuchokera kwa LGBTQ+ Maanja

Izi ndizotsekemera kwambiri.

ndi Rachel Torgerson

Ngati ndi nthawi yoti muyambe kukonzekera malingaliro, tikupangira kuti muzichita homuweki pang'ono kuti muwone momwe mungachitire bwino. Kuchokera pamalingaliro odabwitsa komanso omveka bwino omwe amatha ndi "inde" wamkulu! ku nkhani zokoma ndi zamanyazi, werengani nkhani izi kuchokera kwa ena mwamaukwati athu a LGBTQ+ kuti muyambitse malingaliro anu achikondi.

Njira Yam'mawa

"Tinali m’zibafa zathu tikumamwa khofi, ndipo ndinagwada pa bondo limodzi kukhitchini ndipo ndinamupempha kuti andikwatire. Iye anati 'inde!' Unali lingaliro losavuta kwambiri lomwe ndingalingalire, koma labwino kwambiri. Ine ndi Kristie tinali okondwa kwambiri. Tinapsompsonana ndi kukumbatirana ndi kuuza galu wathu uthenga wabwino, kupanga tsiku, kutumiza imelo kwa achibale athu onse ndikuyamba kukonzekera nthawi yomweyo! -Hana

Nkhani ya Maulendo Awiri

“Paulendo wopita ku Montreal, Tara anatiuza kuti tikwere pamwamba pa Mount Royal dzuwa litalowa. Anayamba kundiuza nkhani ya momwe agogo ake adafunsira kwa agogo ake ndi chinsalu cha ndudu chopindika kukhala chikwama. mphete, ndikundipatsa mphete yangayanga yamapepala. Patatha miyezi isanu ndi umodzi, kukayikira kwawo kutachepa pang’ono, amayi ake a Tara anatitengera ku Beijing kwa mlungu umodzi. Tinayenda padenga la nyumba yamsika ndipo zidandikumbutsa zambiri za ku Montreal komwe ndimayenera kufunsira. Zomwe tinkangoona ndi Kachisi wa Kumwamba atazunguliridwa ndi mitengo. Zinali zangwiro. " – Courtney

Kuyenda Panyanja

“Tinachita phwando pagombe ndi anzathu, koma ndinakwiya ndipo ndinafuna kuyenda pang’onopang’ono. Tinaima n’kuyang’ana nyumba ina imene inali kumphepete mwa nyanja. Ndinali kupanga ndemanga za izi ndikudabwa chifukwa chake Andy samanena kalikonse. Nditacheuka kuti ndilankhule naye, ndinangoona ali m’bondo limodzi atanyamula bokosi la mphete. Titabwerera kwa anzathu, Andy anali atakonza zoti atipatse champagne.” -Jeff

Viral Video

“Ndili ku koleji, ndinali m’gulu linalake lotchedwa The Dear Abbeys. Ine ndi Kyle tinapita ku konsati yokumbukira zaka 20 ndipo Kyle anaitanidwa kuti akwere. Monga gawo la malingaliro ake, adakwanitsa kugwira ntchito m'maudindo anyimbo za nyimbo iliyonse yomwe ndidakhalapo ndekha pagululo. Ndinali kulira modzidzimutsa ndimati 'inde,' ndi konsati yonse holo anali pa mapazi awo akuomba m'manja ndi kusangalala. Zonse zidajambulidwa pa kamera ndipo zidafalikira pa YouTube! ” -Tommy

Nthawi Yaitali Ikubwera

“Takhala limodzi kwa zaka 20 ndipo tidapanga chibwenzi Prop 8 itagwa ndi Khothi Lalikulu. Rob anatembenukira kwa ine nati, 'Ndiye ukufuna kukwatiwa tsopano?' Tinasangalala kwambiri.” -Yohane

Nkhani Yabanja

“Nthawi zonse ndinkalakalaka nditapatsidwa chilolezo pamaso pa anthu ambirimbiri. Jessie, yemwe anali mlembi, anazindikira izi ndipo nthawi yomweyo anatseka. Mofulumira mpaka miyezi isanu ndi umodzi pambuyo pake, ndimabwera kunyumba kuchokera kukaona malo ochitira masewera olimbitsa thupi koma ndinapeza kuti nyumbayo ili ndi kuwala kodzaza ndi maluwa. Adanditengera kuchipinda chodyera, komwe adakongoletsa chipindacho ndi zithunzi zopitilira 400. zithunzi abwenzi, abale ndi awirife pazochitika zosiyanasiyana. Mosadziŵa, anatha miyezi isanu ndi umodzi yapitayo akumalankhulana ndi achibale athu onse ndi mabwenzi, ochokera kutali monga ku Australia, kuti atitumizire zithunzi zawo kaamba ka 'ntchito yapadera.' Anati, 'Kolaji yomwe ndapanga iyi ikuyimira zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi zapitazi, moyo wodabwitsa komanso dera lomwe tamanga limodzi. Ndikudziwa kuti mumafuna kuti ndikufunsirani pamaso pa aliyense amene timamudziwa, koma sizomwe ndili. Kotero, ndinaganiza kuti iyi ikhoza kukhala njira yomwe ndingakufunsireni inu ndikukhala ndi anthu onse omwe timawakonda.' Kenako anzathu 15 anabwera kudzadya chakudya chamadzulo kuti atithandize kukondwerera. Zabwino kwambiri. Malingaliro. Nthawi zonse.” -Kate

Malingaliro Awiri

"Tinali pafupi kuwonera gawo la 24 (okondedwa athu) mwadzidzidzi, Lindsay adatulukira pa TV! Zinthu zingapo zoseketsa zinamusonyeza akuyesera kundifunsa 'funso lofunika kwambiri.' Vidiyoyo itatha, ndinatembenuka ndipo ndinaona kuti ali pa bondo limodzi! Patapita mlungu umodzi, ndinam’patsa mphatso. Panali mapeyala atatu a mathalauza okongoletsedwa omwe amati 'Ndimakukonda,' 'Iwe umandisangalatsa kwambiri,' ndipo potsiriza, 'Kodi iwe…udzandikwatira?' Pamene anayang’ana m’mwamba, ndinali wokonzeka ndi mphete.” -Amber

Chikumbutso-Chatembenuzidwa-Ukwati

“Takhala limodzi kwa zaka khumi ndipo sitinakonzekere kukhala ndi ukwati. Koma, pamene malamulo anasintha, ndipo tinayamba kukonzekera phwando lathu lokumbukira zaka 10, tinazindikira kuti ukwati unali womveka. Zinali zosokoneza poyamba - sitinkadziwa kuti zingatanthauze chiyani, popeza tinalonjeza kalekale - koma chikhumbo chofuna kukondwerera ubale wathu ndi anzathu komanso abale athu chinapambana. -Chisomo

Mphete Zapadera

"Chomwe chimapangitsa kuti malingaliro athu akhale apadera kwambiri kwa ife ndikuti tidapatsana mphete tidakhala zibwenzi zapakhomo mu 2006. Tinaganiza zosinthana mphete zomwezo patsiku laukwati wathu, ndipo tinazilemba ndi deti laukwati wathu kusonyeza chiyambi chathu chatsopano ndi ulendo wathu wopitiriza.” —Gabriela

Kutanthauzira Kwaku Spain

“Melissa ndi wa ku Colombia ndipo amalankhula bwino Chisipanishi. Kuyambira pamene tinayamba chibwenzi, ndakhala ndikuyesera kuphunzira chinenerocho pang’onopang’ono. Pa chakudya chamadzulo, nthawi zonse timasewera masewerawa pamene ndimamuuza chinachake m'Chisipanishi kuti ndiwone ngati akumvetsa, ndipo amandibwereza mu Chingerezi. Titangoyamba kudya pa July 28, 2013, ndinamufunsa m’Chisipanishi ngati ankakonda chakudyacho. Anayankha kuti, 'Kodi mumakonda chakudyacho?' Izi zinkapitirira apo ndi apo pa nthawi ya chakudya chathu, ndipo ndinaonetsetsa kuti ndikumufunsa mafunso achilendo kuti apitirize kuseka komanso osakayikira funso langa lomaliza. Chakudya chitatha, ndinafunsa kuti, 'Quieres casarte conmingo?' Iye anaseka n’kunena kuti, ‘Kodi ungandikwatire? Ndinamwetulira, ndikudzibwereza ndekha. Anagwetsa foloko ndikundiyang'ana. Ndinamupatsa mpheteyo ndipo anavomera akulira.” -Kristen