Wokonza Ukwati Jove Meyer Amagawana Momwe Mungapangire Ukwati Wokonda Kwambiri

Jove Meyer, pitani wokonza mapulani kwa maanja a LGBTQ+, amawulula maupangiri opangira ukwati wamtundu umodzi womwe ndi wanu.

ndi The Knot

Tidakhala pansi ndi wokonzekera ukwati a Jove Meyer, Brooklyn, eni ake a New York komanso director director of Zochitika za Jove Meyer-ndipo ubongo kumbuyo The Knot Dream Ukwati banja Elena Della Donne ndi Amanda Clifton's falls 2017 nuptials-kuti alankhule za zomwe adakumana nazo monga wokoma mumakampani achikondi. Ndizosakayikitsa kunena kuti akudziwa kalikonse kapena ziwiri zokonzekera maukwati a LGBTQ+ omwe amalankhula mwachindunji kwa maanja ndikubweretsa masomphenya awo apamwamba kwambiri. Kuchokera pamwambo wopitilira mpaka kupanga zanu zapadera, nazi momwe mungapangire tsiku laukwati wanu kukhala lamtundu komanso lanu.

Nkosavuta kwa maanja kutengeka ndi lingaliro la zomwe “ayenera” kuchita pa tsiku la ukwati wawo. Kodi muli ndi malangizo otani kwa iwo amene akuyembekezera kutsata miyambo?

"Palibe malamulo enieni pankhani yaukwati wa LGBTQ +, kotero ndikulimbikitsa maanja onse kuti adzipangire okha. Izi zikunenedwa, bwererani mmbuyo ndikudzifunsa chifukwa chake mukuchita nawo mwambo wina. Kodi ili ndi tanthauzo lililonse kwa inu ndi bwenzi lanu, kapena mukuchita chifukwa choti mukuyembekezeredwa? Ukwati wanu usadzale ndi miyambo yakale kapena nthaŵi zopanda pake—chilichonse chiyenera kukhala chomveka kwa inuyo.”

Kodi ndi njira ziti zapadera zomwe maanja a LGBTQ+ angayikire chidindo pamwambo wawo?

"Maukwati a LGBTQ + akadali atsopano kotero kuti maanja amatha kuchita chilichonse chomwe angafune kukondwerera ukwati wawo. Sewerani komwe mwambowu ukuchitikira malo, momwe zimachitikira komanso amene akukhudzidwa. Chitani mwambo wozungulira wokhala ndi tinjira zinayi, kapena itanani alendo kuphwando loyima lopanda mipando ndi mipando. ”

Ndi chitsanzo chanji cha momwe munathandizira banja kukhotetsa malamulo?

“Posachedwapa ndidagwira ntchito ndi azikwati awiri omwe adagubuduza gulu lawo pamutu posonkhanitsa alendo pabwalo lamwambowo mwambowu usanayambe. M’malo mongoyang’ana m’kanjirako, banjali linapempha anzawo ndi achibale awo kuti atsike m’kanjira kolowera kuguwa lansembe, kumene anakadikirira limodzi ndi mkulu wawo.”

Mukafufuza za omwe angakhale nawo paukwati, ndi njira iti yosavuta yodziwira ngati wogulitsa kapena malo omwe ali ochezeka ndi LGBTQ+? 

"Wokonzekera wanu akuyenera kutsimikizira mabizinesi ena omwe ali ndi malingaliro ofanana. Mutha kuyang'ananso patsamba la ogulitsa kuti muwone ngati alipo zithunzi kapena zambiri zikuwonetsa kuthandizira kwa LGBTQ+ maanja. Ngati mumakonda ntchito yawo koma mukulephera kuwona chithandizo chodziwikiratu cha kufanana kwaukwati pa mbiri yawo yapaintaneti kapena malo osungiramo zinthu zakale, tumizani imelo yofunsa za ntchito zawo. ”

Werengani zambiri za kupeza zabwino za LGBTQ Pano.